Thread 33528898

My life fucking sucks. I’m 21 working a minimum wage job and everyone here thinks I’m a fucking loser. I’m taking college courses for some fuckass business degree that I don’t even care about at all. I practically dropped out my sophomore year because I’ve been putting zero effort into it. I’m probably on the brink of being ejected because of how many courses I’ve dropped/skipped. And I don’t live on campus, I commute to some shitty orbital campus of a state college so it’s pretty much impossible to make friends. That dream that every young guy has of partying hard and fucking women left and right during their college years is out the window. That coupled with my crippling anxiety makes it nigh impossible to connect with others. I had to stop showing up to this one class that I got logged by everyone in last year because my anxiety was so debilitating.

My life is just ass, it’s in the fucking gutter right now and I don’t know what to do about it. I’m lazy, apathetic, lonely and frightened. Everyone I went to high school with is fucking women and partying, meanwhile here I am at rock bottom. There literally nothing in my life worth living for. Nothing that makes me look past all of the ugly parts.

dude its a shame to hear your life is going like that and your mental state is not helping.... i know it must be hard but trust me that all this will end ,your sadness and axiety will end when you finally kill yourself like you should :>
trust me anon it will fix it all

pleaseee give up and kill your selff

Start with your body. Work out. Go to the gym, start small. Start with the machines. Just do it. Use ChatGPT to give you a good workout plan. You will sleep and eat better. Eat clean.

Then journal and figure out what you want to do and meditate and pray and volunteer.

Make a schedule, a routine, be consistent, be disciplined. Start small.

>>33528924
>>33528928
Don't listen to losers like this guy. He is doomed and he wants to doom you and encourage you to kill yourself.

>>33528958
should I start as small as your dick then?

>>33528898 (OP)
YOU WERE MEANT TO BE A LOSEER NIGGER YOU SHOULD JUST KILL YOURSELF FAG

what a fucking loser luluulul

What is it witj blackpillers tryib to shame everyone on every board?
Is it indians, Israeli, JIDF?
Cia, glowiew, Incel blackpillers, troons or what?

>>33529019
Yeah. I work for Mossad and we're doing all of it. It works too. Your birthrates just hit an all time low.

>>33528898 (OP)
>My life is just ass, it’s in the fucking gutter right now and I don’t know what to do about it. I’m lazy, apathetic, lonely and frightened. Everyone I went to high school with is fucking women and partying, meanwhile here I am at rock bottom. There literally nothing in my life worth living for. Nothing that makes me look past all of the ugly parts.
Go to therapy. All of the above just symptomes and consequences. You are still young enough to fix your life. And for gods' sake so something that you enjoy at least in part time.
t. similar life at 40

>>33528898 (OP)
>I’m 21 working a minimum wage job and everyone here thinks I’m a fucking loser.
Wouldn't they all be losers too under that metric? Not that I'll make fun of anyone for holding even a minimum wage job, it's better than being a NEET. But seriously, you're 21, what the fuck else did you expect to be doing? CEO?
> I’m taking college courses for some fuckass business degree that I don’t even care about at all
Then why even bother? Either start caring, or get out of there.
>That dream that every young guy has of partying hard and fucking women left and right during their college years is out the window.
That was never going to happen for you, unless you fix up that anxiety and inability to connect with others that you go on to mention in your very next sentence.
>I’m lazy, apathetic, lonely and frightened.
Ok, but the first two at least are in your control. If you can fix them, the other two will fix themselves eventually.

>>33528971
These fags are not me

>>33529049
>t. similar life at 40
What would you do if you were in my position?

>>33529086
> unless you fix up that anxiety and inability to connect with others that you go on to mention in your very next sentence.
Eh easier said than done. Idk what to do about it at this point. Should I just start getting buzzed before every social interaction? I’ve heard that works for some peope

>>33528898 (OP)
Sugar walls aren't everything. Have a life not focusing on women for fucks sake

>>33529378
>What would you do if you were in my position?
I would go to check my brain then go to therapy. Anxiety and apathy are not cases but symptoms. Something deeper poisoning your mind and you just start to feel the effect of it.
my story:
I was (are?) terrrible with women so I started to watch man up coaching videos. Later realized that everything about self/control wich I unable to do. I looked after this, found BMTI, then by that, real psychology. Iwatched a metric ton of videos and realized that 99% I have ADHD because that explained my all life almost.
Long story short: at 38 got diagnosed with severe ADHD, moderate autism and complex personality disorder. It was all in my head from the start, and if I knew that before my life would have been completely different.
You are still young, don't fuck up your life more( trust me, always can be worse)

>>33528971
Are you OP? Because trust me, you won't get anywhere with that attitude. I took time from my life to actually give you decent advice and you're insulting. That's very bad. Change your attitude and appreciate the people helping you.

When you work out your attitude will improve and your tolerance will increase too.

>>33529959
That was just some random faggot. I appreciate your advice anon

>>33529378
>Should I just start getting buzzed before every social interaction? I’ve heard that works for some peope
Honestly I'd say no, it works for a lot of people sure but it's also a cope.
It might help with the symptoms of your anxiety, but it won't address the underlying cause(s). Worst-case scenario it will make it worse. Anxious AND chemical-dependent is a bad combination OP.

>>33528898 (OP)
Faggot college kid retard

maybe you could be hopeful for the rest of your life. saying youre young is a cliche thing to do but clearly youre suffering and youre still doing things. you have a job, you are going to school. youre going through notable anxiety and you persist in doing these activities without any clear purpose, which shows that if these conditions arent permanent, somewhere later on down the line you could be doing such that you'd look forward if you could see it and understnd why continuing would be worth it.

people have lots of anxiety sometimes and a lot of people dont understand how seriosu it is. you dont have a total understanding of what you want to do ultimately as far as providing for yourself, your experience is generally not enjoyable and youre in the pits.

im sorry youre going through these difficulties to the extent you're bearing that right now. if its possible to persist, if you think you can complete a degree a lot of employers only care about that little piece of paper. once you have that a lot of people have it easier. the period of time spent working towards an undergraduate degree is by far the busiest time in the average person's life. stay thirsty my friends, have faith in yourself and hope for hte future, and be careful. not everyone who enrolls in college completes it, and thats ok too if you dont.

even if it takes time, if you are able to support yourself and enjoy your experience a little, thats what makes it worth it for most people who make it to that point. good luck

>>33531607
Thx anon. I'm currently working towards a degree in marketing, but again I'm second guessing my decision to do so every step of the way. I have serious doubts that it will bear fruit. I don't exactly have anyone successful in my life to use as a reference. My parents aren't involved in my life at all, which I know at my age is a pathetic thing to say, complaining that my parents aren't pampering me, but dude it's a serious handicap. Like they didn't set me up for success at all. I never had any guidance, and my lack of social skills make it hard to reach out for help, and being somewhat unapproachable doesn't exactly make people want to help me out.

My future is just very uncertain and I'm afraid I'll end up a failure like my old man.

>>33531979
You will fail at marketing if you lack these social skills. That is a commission type job for attractive type A go getters. You need to transfer ASAP to studying for a more certain career maybe something in a medical field?

>>33528898 (OP)
Consider suicide