>>33530072
My life has plenty of purpose, I have friends, family and hobbies. It sounds like you are depressed. In which case, you need to take steps to rectify the factors causing you to feel that way. So for example, if you want to go clubbing, then work on your social skills and make friends with the types of people who like to go to clubs. The worst thing you can do if you want to live this type of lifestyle is to sit on 4chan of all places. This place is the direct opposite of what you're looking for. This is a place for nerds and weebs. You want friends who are outgoing with low inhibitions and are into drugs, casual sex, social media, etc. You're not gonna find many of those people here.
And really anon, if I could be so bold, I would say that you shouldn't seek to "manipulate" or "dominate" people. Sounds like you're developing antisocial personality traits from your extended isolation. Life is best lived in a community that is essentially a family, where you look out for each other's best interests. Only a legitimate psychopath thrives in an environment like you're describing. As for team sports, they can be healthy, but it's hard to find people who like doing that as adults. Best you'll probably find is people who like disc golf or some shit like that.
Anyway, step one to all of this is simply working on your social skills so you can make friends. Maybe start with a therapist or something, someone who can help you work on your social skills if you don't have any friends or healthy examples to follow. Especially if you were raised by retard parents like most people here.