Thread 33530892

I’m a girl with a boyfriend, and every time we hook up he flips into this sadistic, possessive, savage monster. He gets off on me screaming, crying, begging from the pain especially when he goes straight for anal and forces me to choke in bjs. It’s brutal, it’s scary, and it turns him on even more. Is this actually normal for guys? We’ve only been together two weeks.

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He has a demon of lust inside him that posses him during sexual intercourse. I would take him to an exorcist

>>33530892 (OP)
No, that’s not normal. I’m no prince charming myself, not a gentleman, not a nice guy. And even I think your boyfriend is a fucking lunatic. The fastest way to know is go and tell your own father or brother(s) what he’s forcing onto you. Then watch what happens next.

but outside the bedroom he’s actually very loving, masculine, takes care of me. I dont know what to do

>>33530892 (OP)
>2 weeks
Look, I would call you a whore, but it's not like I am better than you or anything...

Most dudes here are going to say there's something wrong with your boyfriend, and try to convince you to break up with him out of spite, or try to convince you to fuck them, which is not gonna happen I guess.

Do you like his aggressiveness? No? Than tell him you don't like. Communication is the key

>>33530892 (OP)
It's entirely normal if he's a sadist, but you should be aware that half of this is on you for not having any semblance of this thing called fucking BOUNDARIES with him. You seem either codependent or naive, which is likely why you're referring to an imageboard full or retards for guidance. In either case, if you're a cute little submissive whore... and you like shit like this, then you could define it as "normal" ;) ...but if you're genuinely afraid of his reactions then stop being submissive and make it clear what is and is NOT permitted in the bedroom with respect to his relationship with you. I mean, this should be a simple concept. Praise him for the shit he does right to pad his ego, then offer up some correction to his behaviors. Simple as that.

>>33530960

I love being submissive and being his good girl :( but still it hurts even after i cummed he doesnt stop and only stops when he satisfies himself, doesnt care about my needs or feelings at all. And yeah i’m asking it here because its anonymous and i dont care what some strangers have to say about it

>>33530993
>i’m asking it here because its anonymous and i dont care what some strangers have to say about it
Then if you don’t care what we have to say about it, why ask for advice?

>>33530949
This, but its also not normal.

>>33530892 (OP)
I have health care professionals in my family who have seen patients just like you. Get out of this relationship IMMEDIATELY.

Unless you like the idea of being drugged and violated in more ways than you can think of. Because that's what this leads to.

>>33530892 (OP)
>2 Weeks
>he goes straight for anal and forces me to choke in bjs.
This has to be bait, otherwise no person is this trashy to spread their legs so fast for random dudes

>>33531105
Awww, but that's no fun. you're just jealous of the excitement that the relationship presents the two of them. Hell, I bet she's even more fun than a borderline. If she wants to stay in the relationship, then you can't really do much but coach her from the sidelines. It's either coaxing the cutters and barcode girls on /b/ into offing themselves or genuinely helping cute sluts like OP through their relationships, that's why I'm here. As the moral equivalent to her boyfriend (who sounds wonderful by the way), I think I'd offer a bit more insight into matters like this than someone who happens to know a few nurses here and there.

>>33531122
I don't think it's trashy as much as it's her blatant codependency. (picrel) She gets her value and self-worth from the praise that men give her. It's hardly surprising that this is how she ended up.

>>33530892 (OP)
>Is this actually normal for guys?
Absolutely not, no. If you enjoy what he's doing, that's fine, of course. If (as seems more likely!) you don't, you must tell him very firmly never to do it again, and that if he tries you will leave him immediately and forever. And if he ever does try it again, you must ACTUALLY leave him immediately and forever. Sadly, guys like this rarely learn, and getting away from them before they accidentally kill you is generally the best thing you can do. If you want to leave right now, without even talking to him, that might actually be best.

>>33530892 (OP)
>I’m a girl
"I'm a girl. I'm wearing girls clothes and I'm taking pills to turn me into a girl
And now I'm growing breasts
When did my penis fall off and now I have a pussy?
It used to be I had a cock and I could stand up when I pissed
Not anymore, not if the democrats have their way.
What is going on?
Imagine you're peeing and your penis falls off and then you have to sit down to finish the pee, sounds crazy? Nope. It's real. Happened to me this morning.
Don't believe me? Take a look"

>>33531163
>>haha look at me guys, i'm a sexual degenerate who has no other purpose in life than to degrade woman and nurture them to fulfil my porn-driven derangement haha

Would be nice if you could develop emotionally, you sound like a 2nd grader who puts hamsters in the microwave and is all edgy about it. Being obsessive over something makes you special only becuase you make a good lolcow

>>33531258
Looks like they'll be making even more threads about me on Kiwifarms then... Y'know I find that I really don't mind the fame after awhile. :)

>>33530947
>>33530993
(NTA) Okay, look. I'm a guy who has a lot of experience with BDSM as a dom. And the situation you are in is seriously fucked up, and as a BDSM enthusiast, I find his behaviour repulsive. BDSM is supposed to be all about consent: *you* decide exactly what he can and can't do to you, and what he can and can't tell you to do, and he then operates within those limits. What's happening here is not dominance and submission, it's abuse.

Now, it's possible that he himself doesn't understand this. This kind of behaviour tends to happen in men who are addicted to porn: they become so conditioned to porn that they don't really want to have sex at all any more, they just want to act out porn in real life; and while they're doing that, they don't really view you as a person, just as a living prop. He may actually not realise how much you don't like this.

THIS IS HIS FAULT, NOT YOURS.

It's possible that if you talk to him and start firmly setting boundaries that you *may* be able to drag him back to reality, but it is also very possible that you won't be able to. If I were you, I would just leave.

>>33531271
>Y'know I find that I really don't mind the fame after awhile. :)
you are the lamest, gayest, most despicable piece of fucking trash on this platform, and that says a lot. a fucking namefag trying to get off from accruing some sort of online fame on an ANONYMOUS forum. Your life is sad and you have nothing to show for your 30+ years on this earth but to namefag post on an anonymous basket weaving forum, you are the worst, kindly escort yourself to the afterlife you useless sack of potatoes

>>33531271
>>Grrr Grr y'know I find that I really don't mind the fame after awhile
Who cares what you mind? You can't even answer it yourself so you cope by fantasizing about entrapping random women lmao

>>33531289
So scary! Such rage! I thought we were supposed to be helping this poor anon out with her problems... but alas, if the only thing sitting between me and my goal is negative attention, you certainly are taking the bait. ;)

>>33531306
>Writes a wall of text to bait people into responding twice
>Bait
Sure buddy, you fooled us all.

>>33531163
self-obsessed nigger screenshotting your own posts because no one else gives a shit geg, just give up