>>33531068 (OP)
I'm 29. Started in March
Went to 100+ meetups from meetup.com
Now decided I want something consistent, expressive, and that has women in it. Started dancing bachata and starting a choir next week that I joined. Also going to shoot for an acting group.
Why? Because I'm deathly afraid of those things
Why am I doing something outside with people and women that I'm afraid of? Exactly to get out of the position you're in now OP. The only difference between me and you is that I'm going and doing it, other than that there's no difference. We're the same person. Go and do it man, I had to talk to myself for 1.5 hours yesterday just to convince myself to go to dancing (yesterday was first session), that's how fucked I am. But this helped. So much. And I'm excited to continue.
