Thread 33536007

If I've been having trouble finding people I get really get along well with and really enjoy chatting with, is it worth trying to pursuing talking to a guy that I really like? I don't think he likes me very much though, that's the thing.

The reason this has been a dilemma is because I've been extra depressed and lonely recently. Talking to him makes me feel a bit better, he's really my kind of guy. I just don't think he's all that interested in me though, so it kind of feels like a waste of time.
If I stop trying to talk to him and give up, I feel like I'll have a hard time finding someone I really get along with though (as is usually the case)

you only talk to him cuz you think he somehow will make the depression fade away, you like the chase and the enthusiasm in waiting for his replies and the way he will look at you, girl pls stop otherwise it will turn out to some toxic attachement and obsession, go outside on walks, try new things, get some new hobbies, go out with friends, and look for the reason you are feeling depressed and fix it so it doesn't get bad, and there are way too many guys in this world so there's nothing such as 'he's the one' typa stuff so it's better to stop right now than making it worse than it already is, again don't be dependant on others for your own happiness, I hope you feel better soon :)

>that I really like?
well firstly, you have free will. you can do whatever you want. but know, that actions have consequences and there is universial/cosmic law.
no action is an action in itself, as in, doing no thing. this can lead to resentment and regret, later in life.
as in, you miss 100% of the shots you do not take.

are you talking to him because you are in need of someone that listens, as in it could be anybody, this very thread
or
are you talking to him because you are interested and want him, because you get along (vibe or harmony)?
if it is the first thing, well, you still can talk to him, but not pursuing him, maybe tell him that you are feeling down and just need someone to talk to, please.

if it is second, you can always try.
>I feel like I'll have a hard time finding someone I really get along with though (as is usually the case)
what an odd and weird statement
(s)he who searches shall find

>>33536007 (OP)
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