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Anonymous No.33545148 >>33545164 >>33545165 >>33545178 >>33545360 >>33547651 >>33547855 >>33556108 >>33563089
I have sexual fantasies about my own mother
Ever since I was 15 years old I started to masturbate to thoughts of my mom. I had a girlfriend and I could never get hard enough to have sex and could only achieve an erection if I thought about my mom

What's wrong with me?
Anonymous No.33545164 >>33545186
>>33545148 (OP)
You're a deviant
Anonymous No.33545165
>>33545148 (OP)
Its alright depending on old you are now.
Anonymous No.33545178 >>33545360
>>33545148 (OP)
larp but still, that's fucked up either way

I keep thinking about her mother while I'm fucking my gf. those milf boobs and uptight ass are unbelievable
Anonymous No.33545186
>>33545164
>You're a deviant
Is there a cure for this?
Anonymous No.33545195 >>33545360
u need a milf
Anonymous No.33545360
>>33545148 (OP)
>>33545178
>>33545195
Anonymous No.33545487 >>33546600 >>33547651
I grew up like this, too. It was actually mutual, but I was too scared to actually cross the line so nothing became of it. 30 now and it has almost entirely dissipated. The human brain is an enigma, and a lot of us just end up having some weird ass fetish. Such is life. No point torturing yourself over it.
Anonymous No.33546600
>>33545487
What were the signs she gave?
Anonymous No.33547631 >>33547660 >>33560449
OP here, how can I stop being a sexual deviant?
Anonymous No.33547651 >>33547667
>>33545487
>It was actually mutual,
WHAT? How do you know? Tell us about it.

>>33545148 (OP)
Are you the other guy that posted the same thread a few weeks ago and I told you to integrate your shadows?
Anonymous No.33547660 >>33547678
>>33547631
>OP here, how can I stop being a sexual deviant?
You have to integrate your shadows... Start by not feeding these thoughts and abstaining from porn, hentai and jerking off. You can replace this with hobbies + gym... There's no shortcuts. Integrating your shadows means you will have to sit with yourself for long periods of time and reflect why you have these thoughts, and overcome them.
Anonymous No.33547667 >>33547678 >>33547774 >>33547797
>>33547651
>I told you to integrate your shadows?
Nope but I'm interested. By shadows do you mean "my dark side"? In this case my dark side would be wanting to have sex with my mom and I don't want to make it a reality
Anonymous No.33547678 >>33547774 >>33547797
>>33547667
>>33547660
Oh now I see, thank you Anon. So I essentially have to go Monk Mode? Or would that be too extreme?
Anonymous No.33547774
>>33547678
>Oh now I see, thank you Anon. So I essentially have to go Monk Mode? Or would that be too extreme?
You should stop doing anything that feeds these fantasies.

>>33547667
>By shadows do you mean "my dark side"?
The shadow is the part of our unconscious mind that contains traits, desires, and impulses we don’t consciously accept or want to identify with. If a fetish conflicts with someone’s conscious self-image, values, or cultural norms, it may be pushed into the unconscious. In that case, it lives in the shadow, influencing fantasies, dreams, or compulsive behaviors from “behind the curtain.” For example, someone who consciously sees themselves as “pure,” “innocent,” or “in control” might repress opposite desires, and these can emerge as fetishes.

The first step is simply noticing the shadow without judgment. For fetishes, this means recognizing the desire exists, even if it feels “wrong” or “embarrassing.” Journaling can help: write down fantasies, urges, and emotional reactions honestly.

Ask yourself:
>When did I first notice this desire?
>Are there emotional needs or experiences it’s connected to (control, safety, excitement)?
>Does it represent something I reject in myself?

This is often symbolic, the fetish may reflect broader desires, fears, or traits you suppress. As soon as you understand where "this" is coming from, "this" will loose its control over you.
Anonymous No.33547797 >>33547936
>>33547678
>Oh now I see, thank you Anon. So I essentially have to go Monk Mode? Or would that be too extreme?
You should stop doing anything that feeds these fantasies.

>>33547667
>By shadows do you mean "my dark side"?
The shadow is the part of our unconscious mind that contains traits, desires, and impulses we don’t consciously accept or want to identify with. If a fetish conflicts with someone’s conscious self-image, values, or cultural norms, it may be pushed into the unconscious. In that case, it lives in the shadow, influencing fantasies, dreams, or compulsive behaviors from "behind the curtain." For example, someone who consciously sees themselves as "pure," "innocent,” or "in control" might repress opposite desires, and these can emerge as fetishes.

The first step is simply noticing the shadow without judgment. For fetishes, this means recognizing the desire exists, even if it feels "wrong" or "embarrassing." Journaling can help: write down fantasies, urges, and emotional reactions honestly.

Ask yourself:
>When did I first notice this desire?
>Are there emotional needs or experiences it’s connected to (control, safety, excitement)?
>Does it represent something I reject in myself?

This is often symbolic, the fetish may reflect broader desires, fears, or traits you suppress. As soon as you understand where "this" is coming from, "this" will loose its control over you.
Anonymous No.33547855
>>33545148 (OP)
This picture is hot af by the way, you should stop using these lust provoking image to say the least, LMAO
Anonymous No.33547936 >>33547981
>>33547797
>For example, someone who consciously sees themselves as "pure," "innocent,” or "in control" might repress opposite desires, and these can emerge as fetishes.
That's me. I used to repress my sexual desires when I was in school because I thought girls were repulsed by me and I think I channeled those thoughts towards my mom for some reason.

I really need to meditate upon this deeply. Thank you for your help Anon, I'm very grateful
Anonymous No.33547981 >>33548151
>>33547936
>I really need to meditate upon this deeply. Thank you for your help Anon, I'm very grateful
You're welcome. I didn’t have a mommy fetish, but I did have a MILF fetish. I’m now fully integrated, by the way. Reflecting on these things and following Biblical Christianity has been a great help in my life. I believe you can get rid of these meaningless fantasies, as I did. Good luck, and God bless you!
Anonymous No.33548151 >>33554748 >>33560292 >>33560363
>>33547981
>following Biblical Christianity has been a great help in my life.
Sorry to bother you again Anon, but can you tell me what helped you be a better Christian? I used to be very edgy and I said many things that could be considered unforgivable from a biblical standpoint
Anonymous No.33550435
You're a sick fuck and no amount of help can save you.
Anonymous No.33554748 >>33560236 >>33560292
>>33548151
God forgives everything (once), even insulting His own name in the most depraved way will be forgiven if you genuinely repent and abandon the path of evil forever. There is only one unforgivable sin, which is blasphemy against the Holy Spirit: it happens when the Holy Spirit is revealed to you, you understand the truth, and yet you reject it with spite and insult it. There is no possible forgiveness for this, it is the equivalent of drowning and someone extending his hand to save you, and instead of accepting the help you slash his hand with a knife before drowning.
Anonymous No.33556108 >>33562269
>>33545148 (OP)
I have sexual fantasies about your mother too
Anonymous No.33560236 >>33560254 >>33560292
>>33554748
How do I know if I've cursed the Holy Spirit?
Anonymous No.33560254
>>33560236
If you have to ask, you haven't. Blaspheming the Holy Spirit means having a holy revelation, realizing that the Trinity is real and the only God, understanding what the true path of faith is, understanding that Jesus is the Lord AND YET willingly refusing to follow this faith, willingly choosing to be with Satan forever. It's spiritual suicide and it's a very deliberate action, it's not something that happens in a moment of weakness.
Anonymous No.33560292 >>33560296 >>33564492
>>33554748
This is not me. He is impersonating me.
>>33560236

>>33548151
>Sorry to bother you again Anon, but can you tell me what helped you be a better Christian? I used to be very edgy and I said many things that could be considered unforgivable from a biblical standpoint
I had not seen your text Friday, I have been sick these few days, and I am resting to improve my health.

There's only one sin that Christ adverted and told us that it's unforgivable. Which is the blasphemy against the holy ghost.

The passages about blasphemy against the Holy Spirit are found in:

Matthew 12:31–32
Mark 3:28–30
Luke 12:10

Early Fathers (e.g., Augustine, Jerome): They often explained this as a final, hardened resistance to the work of the Spirit, especially the Spirit’s role in offering grace and repentance. In other words, if someone dies in a state of total rejection of God’s grace, there’s no forgiveness left because they’ve refused the only remedy.

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Anonymous No.33560296
>>33560292
The blasphemy is the rejection of the gospel. Because if you came into contact with the gospel, and rejected, there's no excuses for this. Because you have come into contact with the truth, and rejected. The blasphemy of the holy ghost is not cursing the holy spirit, notice that even when the pharisees accuse Jesus of using the powers of Beelzebub to expel demons, Jesus doesn't say they were committing the unforgivable sin, Jesus does not say “He said this because they blasphemed”, but “He said this because they were saying…” Their actions were leading to this outcome, to the rejection of the gospel

Mark 3:22–30
And the teachers of the law who came down from Jerusalem said, “He is possessed by Beelzebul! By the prince of demons he is driving out demons.”

So Jesus called them over to him and began to speak to them in parables: “How can Satan drive out Satan? If a kingdom is divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand. If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand. And if Satan opposes himself and is divided, he cannot stand; his end has come. In fact, no one can enter a strong man’s house without first tying him up. Then he can plunder the strong man’s house. Truly I tell you, people can be forgiven all their sins and every slander they utter, but whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will never be forgiven; they are guilty of an eternal sin.”

He said this because they were saying, “He has an impure spirit.”

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Anonymous No.33560363 >>33560376
>>33548151
>what helped you be a better Christian?
God.

All glory belongs to God. I did nothing to earn this. I simply grew in my relationship with Him. I have struggled much, and I still struggle. As long as we carry this fallen body of flesh, sin will be with us. But Christ has paid the price, and He paid it in full. That is why we are saved.

Sin does not undo salvation, for salvation is grounded in Christ’s finished work, not our performance. Yet this raises the question: what shows that someone is truly saved? The answer is fruit. As a Christian draws nearer to God, his heart is changed, and he increasingly desires to do God’s will.

John 13:34–35
“Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.”

Paul emphasizes that we are justified, declared righteous, by faith apart from works. Salvation is a gift of grace, not something earned. James, however, stresses that genuine faith is never alone; it shows itself by works. Paul is speaking of how a sinner is made right before God, while James is speaking of how that faith is proven to be alive before *others*. Paul addresses the root of justification; James addresses the fruit of it.

In short: we are saved by grace through faith, and that saving faith naturally produces works as evidence. Faith without works is dead, but works without faith cannot save. True justification includes both, the gracious declaration of God and the living demonstration in a believer’s life.

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Anonymous No.33560376
>>33560363
You are still a baby Christian, for a baby to grow, it needs food, for a Christian to grow, we need the word of God, If you want to study, here are some verses, pray for God's wisdom, and for his holy ghost to give you wisdom and understanding of these passages:

Paul: Justification before God -> by faith apart from works.
James: Justification before people -> shown by works.

Paul:
Romans 5:1
Romans 3:28
Galatians 2:16
Galatians 3:24

James:
James 2:17
James 2:24
James 2:26

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Anonymous No.33560449
>>33547631
cut your dick and balls off
Anonymous No.33560549
Find someone who resembles your mom and pursue something with her. It’s hard tho not gonna lie. Most older women don’t give young guys the time of day unless she’s of a similar mindset as you. Don’t feel ashamed. The very first relationships we experience are with our mothers. I remember kissing my mom on the lips when I was like 7. But not the quick innocent kind. More like a prolonged makeout. She was really cool about it and even as a grown man I will get really nice sweet kisses on the lips. I would never fuck her though.
Anonymous No.33562269
>>33556108
I don't have sexual fantasies about your mother. She's too fat.
Anonymous No.33562280
Typical zoomer things
God of Rizzing No.33563089 >>33563162 >>33564492 >>33566470
>>33545148 (OP)
Hi anon. This may seem an odd and unrelated question but it'll all makes sense. Are you a christian and we're you baptized?
Anonymous No.33563162 >>33566708
>>33563089
>we're
were*

we're = we are
Anonymous No.33564492 >>33566470
>>33560292
>I had not seen your text Friday, I have been sick these few days, and I am resting to improve my health
Thank you for replying Anon I hope you feel better and wish you a speedy recovery.

Thank you for your advice, I grew up Christian but in a very lukewarm household but as time went on and had to face trauma and other difficulties I pretty much gave in to hatred and despair and chose darkness over light and this is where it led me unfortunately. I will follow God to the best of my ability but my will has become so weak that it's really hard for me to find the strength to move forward

It's true that I brought all of this upon myself and I deserve this but I will keep trying to overcome my sinful nature or at least fight it without giving in

>>33563089
I am a Christian but I was never baptised
God of Rizzing No.33566470
>>33563089
Thanks for correcting my spelling.


>>33564492

Also if you go to church. I strongly recommend you quit going to church and leave Christianity permanently. Because a lot of people don't know that Jc aka Jeepers Creepers (Jesus Christ) is creating all of this abnormal and extremely perverted kinks inside people.
>I am a Christian but I was never baptised

Great! Don't ever get baptize. Baptism is a soul contract and depending what's on the contract can ruin your life (had experiences where it ruined my life and it was the worst decision of my life).

Research and look into baptism because it'll an extremely perverted watered down version of the holy mandaean baptism.
God of Rizzing No.33566708
>>33563162
I meant thank you for correcting my spelling.
Anonymous No.33567804
This is her