Thread 33552231

I don't really know what to do. I have had sex once with a fat and ugly girl and neither I nor the girl enjoyed it. My dick is like 5.5" length but only 4" girth, which is thin like a finger. For reference how small it is, I have to buy extra small condoms because regular ones are too big.
When I look at porn with hung dudes it seems that it's much more enjoyable for both parties. Like if you have big girth you stretch the girl out, she moans a lot, enjoys the pressure, fullness, the visuals when giving a blowjob etc. A small dick is just so unappealing, has zero eroticism, it cannot make a girl horny or rather turn her off completely.
Should I even try to pursue girls or just live my life alone? Even if I managed to get a girlfriend she would not be attracted to me sexually and she would only have pity sex 1x a month probably.

>>33552231 (OP)
>When I look at porn
You are aware that porn isn't real, right? The people in it are acting.

Learn to do this, you'll be fine: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coital_alignment_technique

>>33552231 (OP)
Sorry, OP.
But racism does exist and 4c is gaslighting you if any of these dummies say that size does not matter.
Women also care, or else they wouldn’t be playing up stereotypes/being racist either.

If it is “just porn”, why do so many Men and Women use it as a reference for dating/sex life?
Typical gaslighting from 4c.

If you can get a girl off with your finger, why not your dick?

Anyhow, small dick don't matter. Use your hands and mouth until she's satisfied then use your dick until you are. Simple as.

>>33552352
>You are aware that porn isn't real, right?
I can believe that *a lot* of porn isn't real but what about the shitty homemade ones you find on niche porn sites? Like where it's just a college couple in their dorm with a bad camera. They seem real.
>>33552452
But isn't that kind of disappointing for the girl? Like she has a boyfriend whose dick is useless and he has to learn some obscure fingering technique as if he were to learn some Beethoven piano sonata.
I get it, foreplay is important but what if the main dish just sucks? Who would want to eat out at such a restaurant more than once?

>>33552231 (OP)
No. lol.

>>33552475
>get it, foreplay is important but what if the main dish just sucks? Who would want to eat out at such a restaurant more than once
the most successful restaurants in existence have the worst food. people strongly prefer something that meets the bare minimum of "hitting the spot" every day than marveling at emulsification of pear concentrate on confit reduced quinoa. the vast majority of people are not with their all time best sex partner

>>33552605
>people are not with their all time best sex partner
Is that why so many people divorce and it's like 70% women who initiate it? There is also tons of literature where they fantasize about being with someone more sexually powerful than their husband, it's often an ex.
I know you are trying to correct my thinking a bit and I appreciate it but there is just so much media and clear evidence that being a guy with a small penis is one of the worst possible things, it's like a disability but worse. And then there is so much about women settling for men and being unhappy. Like 80% of women don't seem to even love their partner.

>>33552678
Like all the other anons that have posted and will post about this very same problem, it seems that you're unconsciously advocating for the problem you're complaining about (your penis) and it's not far from reason to assume that you often indulge too much in self-pity (as you're doing right now). You have to simply use your conscious mind and acknowledge the fact that complaining about something that you have no control of is a complete waste of time. If I had to guess, you'll keep complaining, because you're desperate for someone to validate your insecurities, which can be even more pathetic than having a small penis.

Best sex i ever had was with a batshit crazy partner who would never be marriage material.

People here are so hung up on sex. Its only a part of a relationship, not the whole damn thing.

>>33552475
>They seem real
They're still putting on a performance for the camera. Do you think they're going to film her saying "Actually that doesn't feel very good"?

>people still think what heavily edited footage of what coked up retards do under direction is real
If porn world were real, everyone would be fucking their stepmother in the ass

>>33552779
>saying marriage material like a compliment
bitch, we don't want the used goods after the entire football team did a train on you

>>33552231 (OP)
>My dick is like 5.5" length
>When I look at porn with hung dudes
You talk as if you have never tried to pursue a woman, and fear a rejection that hasn't even happened yet.
"Professional" porn is all very fake. The men take dick pills to stay hard for longer shoots and the women are all faking it for the camera. There is no romance or eroticism and it is all designed to overstimulate you.
Watch amateur stuff and you'll see dicks like yours, sometimes even smaller, fucking beautiful women.

>>33552501
>>33552475
There is a good bit of truth to the "women like big dicks" thing, but it's very overblown by men who have had this terrible anxiety inflicted upon them by society's emasculation rituals. It is a coping mechanism of learned helplessness.
If you start pursuing many women, you will meet women who reject you for being 5.5 inches. You will also meet women who reject you for using an android or wearing the wrong shoe brand.
It's difficult, but try not to let individual vapid retards effect your entire self-perception.

>>33552231 (OP)
Believe it or not but most women do not get pleasure from being fucked and sex isn't that important to them either. The women who crave sex and want to get fucked by a bigger dick aren't the norm. Sex is more of a mental and emotional thing for women than it is for men. Basically if you can turn her on mentally and emotionally, the physical part doesn't matter that much.

>>33553993
What if you meet a girl that actually likes a big dick but she stays with you anyway and just lies to you about your dick being fine? And then after years she starts to become unsatisfied and years of your dating life are wasted.
I am so afraid of dishonesty. I can live with a girl saying my dick is too small for her and then leaving me. I am horrified of a girl just lying to me that she enjoys my dick and sex and finds me hot but actually does not.

>>33552231 (OP)
Presumably, by the time a girl gets to see your penis she has gotten to know you and decided whether she likes you. That's not going to stop instantly.

Oh, and you DO know that porn actors are acting, don't you?

>>33552231 (OP)
>like 3 or 4 threads per day now about small penis anxiety

Can’t tell if this is yet another new troll or just the same one anon with major dick insecurity issues.

>>33555217
you can tell if she is a size queen by the dildos she owns. best case she has none at all. but then she might be a dead bedroom.

>>33552231 (OP)
I have a 5" length, never measured girth.
Had multiple GFs before current one. Most women you'll meet don't care or prefer it not being too big. There are some size queens but I assum you don't want them anyways. It is by far affecting you more than it affects them. Sure I would gain a few inches if I could but I assume like with muscles it's mostly other guys that will be impressed. Also porn is not real and most women had to "work their way up" to handle monser sized dicks. The only thing I found frustrating is that without the extra length some sex positions are harder or impossible to do. But again, it's me who wants to do all those things because i've seen them in porn, not the girl.

That's my 2 cents.

>>33555217
What if you meet a girl that likes to kill puppies?
I don't know man, be on the look out I guess? Just don't be too insecure because that will pushe women away much more than your actual size and then you'll blame it on the wrong thing.