Thread 33555861

Is it possible to find someone who will accept not getting blowjobs? I hate the thought of being orally sodomised but this seems to be an expectation in dating from what I have heard online.

it's completely possible, but if they insist, just feign incompetence. omg i'm so sorry i didn't mean for my teeth to touch your dick !!!

>>33555871
I dont ever want to put my mouth on a dick even to feign incompetence, im not like this with other stuff this just really is not something I am ever willing to do. If it helps I am into femdom stuff and prefer males on the shorter side

>femdom stuff and prefer males on the shorter side

Literally me. Don't know about the femdom stuff though. As long as I can ejaculate somewhere on your body I'd be good.

>>33555861 (OP)
it is. Also, it feels orally sodomized if it against your will. If you love somebody, you love all parts of him. Eg. If you kiss his body all over, eventually you kiss his cock too. It's just there.
After you get off by his oral skills for a few times you just feel that you need to reciprocate. It's also a push, but lighter than an outside force, this is where you talk to him. That you feel you should do but don't want.
Also, the BJ not facefucking what you seen in porn. You don't even have to put into your mouth to make it heaven. Lips and tongue can make miracles both in guys and girls. The only rule is: love that you give him a pleasue. It implicates that don't do anything that you don't want. Sex is not about domination unless you are into it. Every other case is about mutual will to please the partner.

>>33555861 (OP)
A significant number of people are actually turned off by oral sex.

>>33555916
that is really nice to hear

>>33555861 (OP)
Yeah, I think it is something like 1 in 4 men don't like blowjobs. I'm one of them

>>33555861 (OP)
The First Law Of Sex: No one does anything they don't want to do.

If that's a deal breaker for a guy, you're better off without him

>>33555861 (OP)
Not everyone wants oral sex, I never wanted blowjob from my exes and they insisted on it anyway and then later they tell me they didn't actually like giving blowjobs and they only did it to make sure I like them. Women are their own worst enemy sometimes

>>33555861 (OP)
I think so, porn exaggerates how much they are actually preformed and wanted

I think blowjob is overrated and is worthless next to just sticking in a soft puss.

blowjobs are all a mind thing. I know some women are really good at them and can make guys orgasm, but the average one can only make it look erotic and you have to finish yourself to the dirty thought of soiling her face or putting the smelly goo in her mouth.

it is one of the things that look really promising in porn but suck IRL, just like anal, cunnilingus, rimjobs, pee and pregnancy

Tastes vary. My girlfriend is exceptionally skilled with her mouth, and also exceptionally enthusiastic about it. Both of us *love* PIV sex, but both of us enjoy me being in her mouth even more.

But yes, there are a fair number of men who don't. I find it baffling, but they certainly exist. I think some men feel too out of control doing it - having their penis between someone's teeth is frightening. And some feel too submissive and too passive - they want to be doing something rather than having something done to them.