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Anonymous No.33562847 >>33562933 >>33562961 >>33562976 >>33562992 >>33563411 >>33563808 >>33563815 >>33563864
I basically spent the last ten years inside on my computer trying to get rich. I’m 28 and I’m comfy now financially speaking but my life is pretty depressing.
I travel and stuff but I’m still alone. I don’t see how it’s possible at my age to make new friends if you don’t have any friends or even “acquaintances” to introduce you to people. Also can’t really get a girlfriend either since it’s a red flag for a guy to have absolutely zero friends.

Any ideas on how can I change this?
Anonymous No.33562933
>>33562847 (OP)
>Any ideas on how can I change this?
Since you have the freedom to choose where you live, find a place you can call your base to build your life. Have you thought of a country or city where you would feel happy, even if you were completely on your own? That is the place I would recommend. You can make friends in many ways, the easiest being through volunteering or joining a hobby you genuinely enjoy that can be done in groups, and then bringing those friendships into your daily life.
Anonymous No.33562961
>>33562847 (OP)
Interests and hobbies > friends
Anonymous No.33562976 >>33563835
>>33562847 (OP)
https://youtu.be/lqZehFAwoTM?t=32

It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.
But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.

Whether you're 30 or not it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.. nothing less.
Anonymous No.33562992
>>33562847 (OP)
"You" are not going to change the overall situation. You can change yourself, how you respond and what you plan to do.
You and your life and your history are not compatible with the culture you live in so you'll die alone ostracized if you stay.
Go join a culture that doesn't suck; I donno, far right wing mormonism or teach English in Asia or join a commune or become a monk.
The legacy people in your old culture who hate you and won't associate with you will not miss you although they'll talk a ton of shit about how you being happy somewhere else is "wrong" in their irrelevant PoV.
If, for example, you'd be deliriously happy as an amish farmer convert at the cost of some shitty new yorker complaining about how its bad you're happy on social media, F them, go be happy.
WRT exploring lifestyles I would try to keep your options open. Hide your money for a couple decades in case "they" try to steal it or in case you'd be tempted to do something epic stupid with it that you'd know better after you've been a member a couple years.
Anonymous No.33563411
>>33562847 (OP)
if you have money just get a sexy gold digger wife and buy friends
Anonymous No.33563808
>>33562847 (OP)
You become what you pay attention to for many years.
Anonymous No.33563815
>>33562847 (OP)
>Waaa waaa I'm rich waaaa waaa
>My life so hard I'm so lonely waaa waaaa
Stop whining, faggot. Few things more embarrassing than watching a rich person bitch about how hard they have it.
Anonymous No.33563835
>>33562976
Retard, you can form social circles in uni if you missed it in school, or find new friends with the same hobbies. But maybe you wrote this post to just comfort your loser beliefs.
Anonymous No.33563864
>>33562847 (OP)
>Also can’t really get a girlfriend either since it’s a red flag for a guy to have absolutely zero friends.
If a woman really likes you, she'll overlook almost everything. Besides, I rarely mixed my girlfriend with my friends. Most women are totally fine just hanging out with you alone.

Also your situation is very understandable. No one is going to judge you for not having friends since you were doing something productive. It's if you were a NEET just playing games that has no friends that it's a problem.

>I don’t see how it’s possible at my age to make new friends if you don’t have any friends or even “acquaintances” to introduce you to people.
Yeah, it sucks. You'll have to make up for this by being especially social. You'll have to strike up convos with people and get the ball rolling. I recommend you join hobby groups or intermural sports.