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Anonymous No.33565664 >>33565714 >>33566287 >>33570531
As a man, how to use being seen as "cute" to my advantage?
>31M
>Majority of un-solicited compliments I have received throughout my life are some variation of "cute"
>Got some handsomes, but mainly "cute"
>Used to believe it was fake flattery and a bullshit compliment women gave growing up because I'm very insecure but now I'm starting to actually believe it

>Was at home depot the other day to buy shit
>My long time friend works as a cashier there and handles my order
>Later we're talking at our regular hangout spot and she tells me another young girl she works with who saw me told her she thought I was cute
>Coincidentally the day before, another older woman I'm acquaintances with complimented me by saying "Your parents created a cute one" while touching my arm.

Ok, so I'm cute, at the age of 31.
How to use being a "cute" guy to my advantage? Not just in dating but in life in general.
Is there a certain type of woman I can aim for that I'll have better luck with?
Are there any pitfalls to being a "cute" guy?
Anonymous No.33565714 >>33565729
>>33565664 (OP)
It means you are cute, i.e. you are not masculine, i.e. it's over.
Women treat you nice because you are not ugly, but you will not get pussy.
Unless you want to remain a twink, go to the gym and build muscle ASAP.
Anonymous No.33565729 >>33565731
>>33565714
Ok.
I'm already slim and have an almost athletic build due to cardio but I think muscles should help me look more "manly".
Anonymous No.33565731 >>33565745
>>33565729
Is that you in the pic?
Anonymous No.33565745
>>33565731
OP here answering from my phone.

No. If it was, I wouldn't be on this chan.

Amazing though that a short, out of shape jeet was able to get that.
Anonymous No.33566210
Become femboy, join vrchat, add me as friend, I put pp in your virtual bumbum.
Anonymous No.33566287 >>33566714 >>33567184
>>33565664 (OP)
I've found women also don't like being cute but I've always been attracted to women I would call cute. I think it just means you have a certain boyish charm to you or an air of innocence. I genuinely would take this positively. You could have everyone saying you're fucking ugly or not say anything which also means you're ugly lol.
Anonymous No.33566714
>>33566287
Yeah im glad at the very least its confirmation im not ugly lol.

And maybe above average(i think its because I take care of myself better than the general pop)

But how do I use it to my advantage though? Could I do some social media shit or what or is there a category of woman who just want cute guys or what lol
Anonymous No.33567164
I’m there with you. Throughout my service I met a lot of girls and was called cute or given cutish nickname by them hundreds of times.

Used to get a little mad because no one else was being called cute, what am I a puppy?
I think it’s that they can sense some naiveness or passivity or shyness or socially awkward person and it makes you adorable or something but I doubt they thought about dating us.

I don’t know if it’s related but I’m at my low twenties and I know I look good and was hitting the gym for years but people still mistake me for a teenager all the time.

But yeah your conclusion is correct you could have been called autistic or ugly or smelly. Instead you are cute which is far from the worst thing you can be.
Anonymous No.33567172
You just need veiny hands and don't be soft and you'll have bitches in droves.

You have no idea what women would do if given chance to a twink
Anonymous No.33567184
>>33566287
25F I find my boyfriend very very cute. He is chubby and warm and looks like an angel and I would do anything for him. I do hate being called cute by men and older women myself, hope that doesn't make me too much of a hypocrite. But point is, "cute" doesn't mean unattractive, op can take some comfort in that.
Anonymous No.33570531
>>33565664 (OP)
You can get 18 year olds