Thread 33565876

>my online friend apparently talked to his online friend about me and he seems to be into me
>he's never seen me or talked to me but keeps telling my friend to tell me about him and ask me questions about myself to send back (like a weird middleman)
>we don't even live in the same country and he kind of seems intense and edgy but this is the first time i have ever had someone show interest in me like this
ive never had a successful relationship before, my last one was like barely two months long and i asked HIM out. i definitely have issues but i don't want to just do nothing, but this seems like kind of a bad idea, but also how many other opportunities are going to fall into my lap while i do nothing and rot in my room. what do i do here? i don't even know how to flirt well. right now the ball is kind of in my court i think i would need to ask my friend for his friend's contact to move things forward but i really don't know what i want here?

HE MIGHT NOT EVEN LIKE ME AND IM READING INTO IT BUT IT IS REALLY WEIRD IF HE DOESNT

>>33565876 (OP)
Retarded thread that is barely understandable thanks to ESL bullshit. Learn English then return, whore.

>>33565900
i'm talking like a completely normal modern american but i wouldn't want your advice anyway cause you're a dick

>>33565876 (OP)
I don't know how living in different countries has any relevance to anything. And yes, don't get in a relationship with someone you haven't even talked to yourself, and "talk" I am including at least text chat on the internet. Something, anything. You've done nothing, you're retarded. I don't like you.

It is not hard to find guys online who want girls or even trannies (you) jsut go on vrchat or something.

>>33565908
You are talking like someone who has no idea of how to communicate anything at all. You use he and him and friend and friend for multiple people, sure, spending enough time you can actually follow it and pick it apart and understand it, but it's really badly written, I agree you're ESL and retarded.

>>33565876 (OP)
Are you hot? Which country are you in?

>>33565876 (OP)
First of all: decide if you want this or not. You like him? Find him interesting? Do you not feel disgust if you imagine yourself in intimate situation? (you don't need to be attracted at first to his neutral mood, his deeds can be a turn on).
If so, then tell the middle man to tell the guy if he wants something do it by himself. It makes his intentions crystal clear and if he did not make a move already h will because instead of uncertainity he's got a green light.

>>33565940
i like my friend (A), but i know almost nothing about his friend (B) other than he was interested me and we both like a tv show. so the decision right now isn't really do i want to date B, it's do i want to start talking to B and like open up the door for it to maybe happen in the future, even if it's a bit like, iffy. but i would feel weird talking to B, who likes me, then being like nevermind, it would make things awkward with A.

A is a guy i also sort of like? not super intensely, we met recently, but he's fun to talk to and i've thought about if we did get closer i would maybe not be opposed to dating him, so i'm ALSO worried maybe if i do pursue anything with B, it might kill any chances of doing anything with A later, which i wasn't COUNTING on but thought COULD be nice? i dont know. it's complicated and i have no idea how any of this stuff works socially.

>>33565987
>so i'm ALSO worried maybe if i do pursue anything with B, it might kill any chances of doing anything with A later
That's what called opportuntity cost. You have to decide. Btw are you sure that B even exists, and not just A wanted to ask about you in that way?

>>33566058
i mean i have no proof but it wouldn't be like A to do that. B is in a different country than A and was sort of flirt-bullying me, which A never does. B was asking stuff A already knew, too.

i'm not sure if it's smart at all to be like "i won't take this opportunity to i can guard the potential for a thing that shows no signs of happening ever" though.

okay im sorry if i was scatterbrained. i genuinely don't have anybody else to talk to about this.

>>33565987
>>33566157
just keep the status quo. wait until friend B actually enters the friend circle - if ever.
If friend A says something like "so when are you gonna talk to friendB", just say like "I dunno, when will I?" and then it's not your problem anymore. Or if you decided against continuing that line, you can just end it there