Thread 33571758

So we have a newborn baby and I coddle him and do baby noises and he comes home and he comes in the room and he’s mad at me and tells me “how many times do I have to tell you to stop making those noises” he went from normal mood to pissed off in the matter of a millisecond. He grabbed me by my hair and said “stop it”. He then left. I started crying and our baby too. What’s wrong with him?

Aww. That's so rude.
You're just coddling and pampering your baby, like any other loving mum. Maybe he just is overwhelmed, you can try not to do it when he's not around. If he says more rude things, maybe you'll have to try to talk with him. Congrats for your newborn.

>>33571758 (OP)
That is physical abuse.
You need to get the hell out of there, go to your mother's house.

>>33571802
Why, it was light. My husband would freak out if I did that

>>33571798
Thanks but idk if he’s overwhelmed. Tbh he doenst seem to care at all about his newborn son. He seems unemotional

>>33571823
Well, I feel like there's a lot more than what you actually say. Couple matters are real complicated. Instead of feeling bad about the thing he does, try asking why he does. Listening is very useful.

>>33571758 (OP)
This isn't a real thread, the femfrog poster is all over the boards posting variations of the mean husband. I've seen them on /pol where he spams them.

i'd say if you have any hope for your marriage or faith in his ability to be a good man, ask him what that was about. then after he explains that, you can ask him why he did that, and if that's how he wants your relationship to be.
depending on his answer, consider immediate divorce. stay observant afterwards as well even if he gives a good answer.

>>33572116
100 percent based response

>>33571758 (OP)
Are you the anon whose husband started doing 400 pushups in the middle of the night?

>>33571971
I’m amazed retards still fall for it

I'm gonna circumnavigate around the greater issue of domestic violence, spousal abuse and all that shit, which is not irrelevant to the situation, but only because I can give you an easy solution to your problem.
Go suck his dick.
Your husband needs attention.
Whether he knows it or not, it might be purely subconscious.
Go jerk him off, let him play with your tits, suck his dick, if your pussy is out of action due to the newborn situation try and get him off with your tits or mouth, but like really do your best.
I don't care if it rewards bad behavior
I don't care if it makes you feel used or degraded
I don't care about some feminist stance on this.
A newborn is a lot of pressure on both sides of the relationship, and whether you like it or not you have a wifely duty to perform.
They'll be plenty of time for him to perform as a husband for you later.
It's not the most glamorous solution, or even the most fair on you. But I guarantee it's the fastest and most pain free way to solve this issue.