Thread 33573165

>23M
>no skills, a few hobbies I'm pretty good at but haven't gone pro with anything. All loser shit like video editing
>can't hold a job for more than a year the last few years
>can't find a girl that wants to stay with me
>crippling medical debt, no insurance
>wagie at dead end job
Ontop of this, I've sorta realized that to everyone around me I'm sort of like a skyrim NPC to everyone around me.
I'm there when they need me for a quick laugh, or to do something for them, but not much else.
I don't really have anyone I talk to on a daily basis.

How do I fix my shit and get out of this hole? Can I even get out of it? Is it over for me?

>>33573165 (OP)
>All loser shit like video editing
>can't hold a job for more than a year the last few years
Why don't you become a video editor? I am from Brazil, and I met a dude making between 100k USD to 200k USD a year working as a freelancer video editor.

>>33573231
NTA but I thought video editors don't make that much money? Does he work in filming?

>>33573231
Don't know where to get in, and I've tunneled myself into editing a specific style

>>33573165 (OP)
It's never >over

Maybe it's over for becoming some huge success, top 10% guy, yeah.
But you can still live a decent life, I think. Work hard for some years, maybe get a 2nd job, find some low cost of living place to move to, something like that.

About the no girl part though.. statistically most guys under 30 are incels(think it was 60% last time I checked). Then you have to think that a good part of the ones who aren't incels are dealing with bottom of the barrel fatties.

So, you really shouldn't take it very personal. I'm 26 and all my friends are still incels, despite all of us making above average money and being fit. Got rejected by foids who realistically should've been honored I even approached them.

>>33573244
>NTA but I thought video editors don't make that much money? Does he work in filming?
Dude, you can make money off of literally ANYHTHING. I know he wasn't lying cause he invested in index funds and showed the extract of everything he earned. Most video editors will never see this amount of money, because they have a limited view of what business they can do. He basically found YT channels mails (most YT channels let their emails public, not all of them, but most), and sent a copy offering his services, till it worked.

>>33573248
>I've tunneled myself into editing a specific style
You have to find your niche. You are a NEET, time is not something you're lacking. Try creating a fiver account, upwork etc... Build your portfolio, the sky is the limit

>>33573283
Based anon. I needed this push. Thank you man :)

>>33573285
Not a NEET but I probably should get something like a fiverr going. I've done work for some decently higher profile things before, but it's still sort of underground enough that it hasn't really taken off.

>>33573165 (OP)
If you couldn't find a job it might be the economy. If you couldn't find a girl it might be a scarcity.

But if you find them and then lose them, then YOU are doing something wrong

>>33573165 (OP)
You're 23 years old, anon. You have 7 years to be retarded still, don't worry about it.
>Debt
Renegotiate the terms of paying off your medical debt if you can, and use it as an opportunity to build credit. Debt isn't always a bad thing.
>Hobbies
Turn those hobbies into skills, and turn those skills into another revenue stream. I know it's already been said here, but it's genuinely a great idea.
>Jobs
Switching jobs and being a wagecuck at your age is normal, if not slightly better than what most people at your age are doing.
>Girls
Don't worry about that right now. Focus on yourself and girls will come to you.
>You're an NPC
Nah, you just need to take your interactions a little further. Memorize details in people's lives, become relied upon, and try to leave a positive impact. You'll be seen with a lot more respect eventually. Also, you're 23, so most people probably just think you're retarded.