Thread 33574499

What's the most serendipitous encounter with a girl in which you got immediate chemistry? What did you talk about? How did you flirt?

It just seems that my path in life is devoid of girls i find attractive, and the ones that I like are always behind a window pane. I can't just go up and talk to them because talking to strangers is plain frowned upon where I live. It's like if I didn't come upon them when I join a class when the year is starting, I can't do anything but just look.

Basically, the only two times in my life a girl liked me, they jumped on me and kissed me
For literal no reason
I'm not attractive, rich, or anything like that
No idea why they "chose" me - but it didn't last long anyway

>>33574499 (OP)
She was from Norway. Conservative ragebaiter hitting Facebook after trump won. I saw through her facade and persuaded her she wanted black dick. We'd talk a lot about what I'd do to her and how I'd defile her genetic line with my mud blood. It felt illegal and we both agreed on that much. I think that's when the dopamine in my life peaked and I was addicted to sexuality.

I'm still a virgin though all I've done is basically the equivalent of sexting but I've done it a lot over the years. Past year has been pretty dry though

My advice to you is learn to take rejection and learn to be direct in your intentions with someone. You never know what tickles your fancy til you bring it to the table

>>33575725
I forgot black people post here too xdddd

>>33574499 (OP)
With my ex of 5 years, she was studying Hebrew in uni, she looked online for someone who knows Hebrew, I knew it because I was from Israel. Long story short I moved from Israel to the Netherlands just barely over a year after we met, now I'm a citizen and living good life. She cheated and defected to some German guy in Germany because she wanted kids. Turns out he's infertile. GG

But she made it extremely easy for me. I didn't even have to flirt.
She in her own words told me that she started talking to me because of my looks (I was thin and handsome at the time) and fell for me because of my looks but also my voice and how nice I am.
So yeah.
This relationship had no exchange of money. If anything, she was the one with the money because she brought me here although we were both broke ass students.
So this relationship was built on true love, as I would call it.
The "resource" exchanged here was physical desirability. Comfort and stability. Constant sexual and physical touch.
As far as I'm concerned it's the best resource to exchange because I've been with a bitch who wanted money and it was terrible.

But yeah moral of the story is, if a girl wants you - she'll make it incredibly easy on you.
But now I'm doing the long term route of trying to get a gf IRL. Dating apps don't work and I'm tired boss. So yeah. So far I have met one nice girl, going to ask her out next week, we'll see what happens.

>>33575725
I mean, it really is not the same to do it online. I can ERP in MMOs with no problem, just go to a girl and pester her. You can't do that in real life, as far as I know.

>>33575754
Isn’t that just the worst? Niggers could be anywhere! Below my post! ABOVE MY POST! MY POST?!?!? NNNIIIGGGGEEEEEEERSSSS OMFG I HATE THEM SO MUUUUCH

I met her at the arcade because we both played DDR. I took until the 3rd happenstance meetup to approach her for more than just game related talk.
I found out she was a lesbian, but we were good friends for like 2 years until she moved away.

We got to be friends over Pokemon and then one day she told me she recognized a post I made on /vp/. The immediate escalated intimacy of finding out someone else is from this shithole is intense.

I miss her. But to be honest she stopped being the girl I loved years before she ruined everything. I just put up with it for so long because I hoped she would fix herself, for the sake of the decade of memories we had together.

F
Is your OP supposed to be what an attractive woman looks like? lol She is ugly. Men have no idea what beauty is.

>>33576546
no guy was looking at her face lol

>>33574499 (OP)
We met on a dating app and just sort of clicked. We were both cautious but after deciding to go on one date, we both found eachother fun to be around. Truthfully, she wasn't the most beautiful I've dated, but something about her just drew me in.

We laughed a lot. We joked a lot. We physically loved a lot, not just sex, but like, wrestled like children and did stuff together. I understood what love was for the first time and was truly happy.

6 months later I found out she was fucking some other guy and it was all in my head. She just used me for attention while she found other relationships that were "stable" in her mind even though explanations were contradicting and accusation. Typical slut behavior.

I haven't loved anyone since and that was a very long time ago.

As for the window pain girls, I would try to be friendly enough with them so that one day you could walk up and slip them a note that asks if they are single, and if yes, would they like to go on a date. You'd be surprised at how easy it is to pick up a girl that's single if you are not direct verbally, rather showing interest through action. But be careful, even non-single girls may still say yes and you don't want to fall for a slut like I did.

>>33575754
Never relax

>>33576803
not OP but this shit scares me.
I hate it.
just today for some reason I had a nightmare that maybe my ex cheated on me more than I originally thought

I think this is why I'm going to only go for a girl that shows genuine interest in me. Like genuine. From her side. Not just because I tried but because SHE wanted it.

>>33574499 (OP)
I was at a karaoke bar for a friends b day. One of her Friends I've never met showed up and I think even as we just introduced ourselves i could immediately feel that we got along amazingly. Like I felt so comfortable talking to her. We went to the bar to look at the drinks and we made small talk and I couldn't believe how easy she was to talk to. I could seriously feel it in my chest the connection. Its not just a saying. I would have asked for her number right there, like ten minutes after meeting her, something ive never done, and i absolutely felt like i could. No, i knew i could and wanted to. Thing was she was not attractive at all. She looked like a frumpy grade school substitute teacher with absolutely no sense of style or anything. Like a genuine 4/10. It was so fucking annoying that THIS was the chick i had a connection with. Call me superficial but I think you should be attracted to someone you'd be going out with. She hung around for maybe another hour and left. I said I was bummed because I really liked talking to her, so we said bye and she left. I dont remember her name and I havent seen her since. I'm ok with it.

>>33574499 (OP)
>What's the most serendipitous encounter with a girl in which you got immediate chemistry?
I happened to post on the ATOGA thread here on /adv. Happened to mention a place where I go walking. Someone happened to be online who lives just a few miles from me, and who was looking for someone to talk to and possibly meet. She asked me if I wanted to chat. I
I said yes. She gave me her Discord. We chatted online for a week or so, then met face to face. We've been together for (checks the calendar) 21 months now. I love her very much, and she is obsessed with me.
>What did you talk about?
Everything.
>How did you flirt?
It didn't require much effort. She had been single for a very long time and was looking for someone to throw herself at. Also looking for someone to talk to about some stuff that she had finally reached the point of being able to talk about. But sometimes people are just good together. That's what some people call "chemistry" - nothing to do with attraction, it's about conversation flowing effortlessly, things like that.

>>33574499 (OP)
i was once dancing to some music in my car at a stoplight when a beautiful woman crossing the street noticed and we smiled and laughed with each other. it's crazy how much mutual understanding we had about my silliness we had from one second of eye contact. like you instantly know you would get along with this person

>>33578827
God how I fucking wish I was a silly person and not a guy with a stick up his ass.

I wish hellfire and brimstone for my elementary school bullies and the pastors at the christian school I attended. They deserve as much, God Fuck them. How am I supposed to be happy now?

>>33578833
funny thing is, i'm usually a stick-up-his-ass guy. so this was eye-opening. be goofy, be the center of attention. women LOVE it

>>33578833
i should also note that i was very overweight at the time, not a great dresser. a woman completely out of my league laughed and looked me up and down. goofmaxxing is a real thing

>>33574499 (OP)
I met a girl at a pool party in high school and she gave me an impromptu tarot card reading.

Married 20 years next August. She didn't see that in her future.

I weep for this "Tinder" generation. You guys are missing out on truly epic love stories.

>>33574499 (OP)
I recently dreamt I slept with a past crush of mine. In the dream we were friends and very close to each other. It felt so good. I also wanted to decide whether or not I should have sex with her.

Guys, this thread is scaring me. I instantly clicked with a girl 4 weeks ago and we've been voice chatting daily and spending time on eachother in general. What are the chances this lasts until a least a face to face meetup? I'm not sure if I can take this not working out so early.

>>33579044
4 weeks is much too long to wait before meeting face to face.

>>33579120
We live on opposite coasts of the US. Is it fucked?

>>33578910
Sometimes I dream I am in the same bed with my crush
She kisses me, lets me touch her tits, sometimes she even sucks my dick

And then she says we can't fuck, she has a boyfriend.

>>33579161
>We live on opposite coasts of the US. Is it fucked?
Oh yeah.

>>33574499 (OP)
Not going to bore you on how I met ...
This "immediate chemistry" is just a statistical fact that happens all the time.
Touch grass, meet people, and increase the probability of this to happen to you.
Face to face of course.
Now that AI can chat, perhaps you finally realize that texting is ... nothing at all.
Sadly, if you meet few girls in your life, this could never happen.
Sometimes all things align.
Also, youth is necessary. So hurry up.