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Personally, for me, I'm a 7/10 I guess. When I look at attractive girls, they don't lay their eyes on me. I see them in campus or at the mall, I have no real reason to talk to them, and that's intimidating, because I know for sure people are not open to talk to strangers and they've been fed suspicions about others their whole life. I don't have the chance to let myself be known to them (not that they ever share about themselves either).
You're right that they are insecure, the problem is those insecurities turn talking to them into a minefield. Ask them about their parents and they shut down and will ask back nothing of you anymore. Thus they will talk to people who manage to goof around, not take anything seriously, and thus they give them a sense of safety that allows them to approach guys who end up being immature dicks.
The real fucking problem here is, I can't be that kind of person. My life has been full of shit: bullying, autistic misunderstandings, sacrifice, abuse, high stakes. My humor has been atrophied a great deal already, I try to put my all into doing things that are a hassle when others drop out of them, and I haven't learned to have fun the way others do (so they don't invite and don't share). I give it a good fucking try but it feels I'm just in a path where there's no attractive women available for me.
