Thread 33576376

is emotional disability a real thing or meme?

it's a long story so I won't go in much details but me and my gf hard an argument and I asked her if she wanted to break up or if she wanted to continue our relationship, her answer was vague and she said she's very indifferent to things and doesn't understand her feelings very well

next I asked her if she likes me and she said because of her emotional disability she doesn't know the answer and never gave it much thought but also said she doesn't dislike me.

now I explicitly said to her to be very honest with and I wouldn't get mad or sad if she said she doesn't like and we would just break up and each one follow their lives so I don't see any reason for her to be lying about it

>>33576376 (OP)
Mixed signals are very bad. Don't believe her anon, she knows EXACTLY what she thinks about her relationship with you, but she may be scared of openly admitting it. See you in the gym.

Tell her she has to wear a butt plug with your name on it

>>33576376 (OP)
this anon >>33576457 could be right and it can be the case of a people pleaser person but he's not totally correct, people like what you described do exist. in your gf's place i would give the same response and i would be being honest. some people become numb over the years.

>>33576376 (OP)
People who are autistic often have a great deal of difficulty understanding their own emotions. One of my exes was like this: ask her how she was feeling and she would describe it in a rather physical way and say "which emotion is that?" So yes, it's perfectly possible.

>>33576376 (OP)
It's a real thing, common in autists or adhds or bipolars or whatever the fuck. Basically any disorder that carries the "emotional dysregulation" trait. Basically means the person has a very hard time identifying their own feelings at any point in time. I have this problem too with adhd I don't actually know how I feel in the present moment at all it's only in hindsight that I can ever know how I felt about something. My advice for you is to stop asking critical questions during or after an argument, because you'll just be inflicting doubt and confusion. Just pay attention to her actions, and if her actions show you that she still wants to be near you then congrats there's no breakup happening