Thread 33606547

>get dumped by gf of 5 months
>all alone again
>back on dating apps
>went on two dates with 1st girl, nothing came out of it, got ghosted
>went on three dates with 2nd girl, nothing came out of it, got ghosted
>went on one date with 3rd girl, nothing came out of it, told me she's realised she's too busy to date which i mean come on, has to be a gentle letdown
>delete dating apps
>download it again
>now get practically 0 likes and matches

keep in mind i simply lucked out and even landed dates in the first place, my experience with dating apps is it just makes my self esteem plummet because of how i barely get any likes or matches

bro i wanna kms i feel fucking ugly and unlovable

it doesn't help that i'm severely isolated, i have no one in my life, i don't know what to do

how do i feel better? i've already been getting back on track with the gym, but it only does so much

>>33606547 (OP)
God I hate fakecels

>>33606547 (OP)
Blast steroids (testosterone) yes it makes you feel better

>>33606566
source

>>33606547 (OP)
Lifting is good, as is spending time with friends. Also, fuck dating apps, at least use one of those more serious websites like eHarmony

>>33606666
no friends, fresh out of college
what do

>>33606666
Holy quads

HAHAHAHA

Stop doing what isn't working. Dating apps are designed to throw your self-esteem in the shitter, so using them is worthless. What do you do besides trying to date that gives you any enjoyment?

>>33607123
idk man my life is fucked atm
don't really have anything that gives me enjoyment outside of the gym

>>33606547 (OP)
You're probably larping but when you keep delete and restarting the dating apps you get shadowbanned

>>33607254
how to fix this?

>>33607313
try some of these: new sim card new photos new email address new ip address but honestly with all the facial recognition software these days it may not even matter. Maybe try totally different angles in the new pictures too.

>>33607327
bruh wtf it'll take me a year to get 5 new good photos of myself

>>33607358
The best results I ever got were from a selfie I took right then and posted. But this was okcupid back when it was a lot better in 2017 I really do think they fuck with the apps too much now to stop people from hooking up so they buy premium stuff.

>>33607379
i have premium and it doesn't do shit, meanwhile on hinge i get plenty of matches

tinder is fucking rigged

>>33606547 (OP)
>it doesn't help that i'm severely isolated, i have no one in my life
A good rule of thumb is that if you are unable to make friendships work, you will be even less able to make a relationship work. Women want someone with social skills.

>>33607453
It's so over

>>33606547 (OP)
Dating apps are a scam bro. Some people (even ugly fat blokes) have insane game and are pretty successful on them. Outside of that you blend in with the other 95% of average fellas who think they're one like away from finding the babe of their dreams.
Get some friends first. If you meet someone you like just ask for their number, facebook or whatever the fuck in person. If you've met them already, and they like you, they're already more inclined to give you a chance over the dozens of practically anonymous matches they could potentially waste time on