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Anonymous No.33607632 >>33607817 >>33607869 >>33607880 >>33608007 >>33608060 >>33608287 >>33608516 >>33609811 >>33610946 >>33612323 >>33612350
>born into a wealthy family
>drop out of high school and neet
>fast forward seven years into 2025
>still neet
>no money problem
>own my own apartment
>passive income so i can live like this till the very end
The problem is the loneliness. I have no friends, no girlfriend (still a virgin). I spend my days playing games, reading books, watching movies and anime, cooming to porn and walking aimlessly around town but the loneliness is really starting to be fucking unbearable. I genuinely wish just for a ONE friend that i could meet irl and talk about anything. Should i maybe try discord? (I tried it once in 2020 but nothing came out of it and it was super cringe as i hate social media and prefer real life interactions). I don't know what else i can try as an anti social person.
Anonymous No.33607657
same story except i had a poor family
same experience with social media too
Everyone acts like it's ez mode when you have money but they just want to surround themselves degenerate sycophants and trade money for fanny like retardeds

Ask ai OP, gave me some suggestions for things to try
Anonymous No.33607817 >>33607827 >>33607842
>>33607632 (OP)
>>born into a wealthy family
>>drop out of high school and neet
>>fast forward seven years into 2025
>>still neet
I won't read worthless subhuman threads.
Anonymous No.33607827
>>33607817
>i won't read
but you did
Anonymous No.33607842
>>33607817
I will.
Anonymous No.33607869 >>33607896 >>33607928
>>33607632 (OP)
Fuck off, your loneliness is your own fault at that point and half the reason it bothers you is your aversion from doing interesting things or being an interesting person.
Anonymous No.33607880 >>33607928
>>33607632 (OP)
you fumbled. why would you drop out of HS? after that "no child left behind" shit you could literally fail upwards thru it
Anonymous No.33607896 >>33607977
>>33607869
>doing interesting things or being an interesting person.
This is why i told OP to ask ai
No examples given of what is an interesting thing to do because the anon replying doesn't do anything "interesting" themselves
But obviously interesting it must exclude all the things OP already mentioned he finds personally interesting
Anonymous No.33607928 >>33607976 >>33607977
>>33607869
Brainlet take. My cousin literally has no interests, he goes to work, goes home and watches netflix yet he has a wife and two kids and friends. I know this because when i talked with him last year he said he wished he had as many hobbies like me. Most people are like this.
>>33607880
It's a long story. Short version is that even though my father is very wealthy, he also never should have had any kids.
Anonymous No.33607976 >>33607982
>>33607928
>My cousin literally has no interests, he goes to work, goes home and watches netflix yet he has a wife and two kids and friends.
This so much. Everyone i know with a wife and kids knocked them up when they were drunk and do absolutely nothing.
Anonymous No.33607977 >>33607988
>>33607896
Hey man, IDK what he would be good at or find cool. I seek danger like motorcycle camping.
>>33607928
Is he happier than you, if he is then you still lost.
Anonymous No.33607982
>>33607976
Agreed, a gaming or friend circle is better but every time they die because people get in relationships then they stop really doing anything.
Anonymous No.33607988 >>33608030
>>33607977
i mean he already told you what he finds cool, if you can't read then why reply?
I was considering going safari myself and shooting at poachers and shit
Anonymous No.33608007 >>33608046
>>33607632 (OP)
Move into a bad part of the city to introduce some risk and danger into your life.
Anonymous No.33608030 >>33608046 >>33608054
>>33607988
Walking aimlessly, cooming, anime and movies as examples of interest are kinda dead air like people that say they love to travel but actually mean they love to just go to one tourist trap and take photos instead of really taking in anything. He mentioned no hobbies that produce anything nor anything that goes off the path persay.
Anonymous No.33608046 >>33608057 >>33608079
>>33608030
I read a lot, i even go to book discussion events. Let me tell you even if i had ten other hobbies it would not help.
>>33608007
Interesting,
Anonymous No.33608054 >>33608087
>>33608030
True it would be helpful if he said what books, anime and movies he actually enjoyed, at least then you could tie it in to hobbies to suggest.
Anonymous No.33608057
>>33608046
I live in the bad part of the city, it doesn't do fuck all. Better riding bikes like the other anon suggested
Anonymous No.33608060 >>33608087
>>33607632 (OP)
Why don't you just go to a bar and talk to people?
Anonymous No.33608079
>>33608046
>book discussion events
Attend or actually contribute. I've been to cons for years but I didn't really start having more than brief acquaintances till I started contributing to panels.
Anonymous No.33608087
>>33608054
>True it would be helpful if he said what books, anime and movies he actually enjoyed, at least then you could tie it in to hobbies to suggest.
Authors that i like:
>Dostoevsky
>Bernhard
>Cioran
>Conrad
>Lovecraft
>Philip K Dick
Anime that i like
>Ninja Scroll
>Ghost in the shell
>Black Lagoon
Movies that i like
>Taxi Driver
>Godfather
>Blade runner (the original one)
>Apocalypse Now
>>33608060
I don't drink.
Anonymous No.33608287
>>33607632 (OP)
Play Dungeons and Dragons at the Library.
Anonymous No.33608516
>>33607632 (OP)
honestly if that’s truly the case why not geomaxx somewhere safe
you obviously don’t wanna go to any shady place like south america but places like easter europe (poland, maybe slovakia) are super cheap
maybe getting to know people and women won’t be as easy as in let’s say philippines or colombia but still much better than in the west
foreign status+money and nothing to lose in terms of social standing
very high upside potential without much risk since youre at rock bottom already anyway
worst case scenario you don’t like it and go back to your apartment in 2 years
Anonymous No.33609604
Get a job. Food service or retail is a good place to start.
Anonymous No.33609811
>>33607632 (OP)
I can be your friend if you wish to get into fitness and a bit of self improvement so you finally potentially get a gf one day.

I can pay half the rent unless its retardedly a expensive luxury apartment.
Anonymous No.33610946
>>33607632 (OP)
Sir, are you aware that real life activities exist? Just take up Magic the Gathering/DND, HEMA, Kendo, Archery, ... (in the latter two you will find women)
Anonymous No.33611397
it never began
Anonymous No.33611592 >>33612018
how do u make passive income? im gonna need to know lmfao
Anonymous No.33612018
>>33611592
owning property and putting it on rent but buying property that gets used is genuinely hard as fuck these days. you have to buy in an active spot that you know its gonna get picked up and never rent to black people, they squat, destroy everything, never pay in time, etc.
Anonymous No.33612323
>>33607632 (OP)
You already have your own place, which puts you ahead of most guys.

At this point, just get involved in activities you enjoy that also help you meet people—like a running club, salsa, whatever clicks for you.

I wasn’t great at making friends in high school since it was all about proximity, and I was too socially awkward in college. But in your 20s, once you have a job, there’s a unique freedom to build friendships on your own terms.
Anonymous No.33612350
>>33607632 (OP)
>>born into a wealthy family
>>drop out of high school and neet
>>fast forward seven years into 2025
>>still neet
>>no money problem
>>own my own apartment
>>passive income so i can live like this till the very end
It's astonishing how weak some people are. You need to feel pain. Real pain. Be forced to do things you don't want to do, not having any safety net to fall back on. You have no idea what loneliness is. You cannot connect with people because you don't understand them in the slightest.