Thread 33608454

>21 year old virgin
>get told a hooker will make me more confident by demistifying women or whatever
>fuck an escort
>it was alright, feel no change except I don't care about being a virgin anymore (obviously)
>fuck another escort a few months later
>no change
>fuck a third one a year later
>still nothing
>actually dislike women even more than I used to and am not interested in having sex anymore (fully content with jacking off)
Hookers pretty much made me give up on women entirely for some reason. Not in the meme mgtow "I'll pretend to have given up while letting women live in my head rent free 24/7" way, but in the actual "don't give a shit anymore" way. Now when I see a cute girl on the street my train of thought just goes "I might jack off to this later" instead of even imagining the possibility of getting an actual girlfriend.
What's up with that?

>>33608454 (OP)
welcome to MSTOW brother
men SENT their own way
the only thing to do now is subscribe to rehab room and get content with whatever healthy cope you enjoy

>>33608469
What?

>>33608478
>open YouTube
>locate searchbar
>type „Rehab Room”
>open his channel
>subscribe and start watching videos

>>33608454 (OP)
You aren't in love with the hooker (ideally). So the experience isn't going to be the same.

>>33608533
love is a meme

>>33608469
Is this the intersex competition where men take other men out of the dating pool?

>>33608544
Some memes are funny and others are not. It depends on the person who makes the meme.

>>33608454 (OP)
It happened to me too in a way, still would like to find love and form a family thoughsoeveralbeit

>>33608548
>men take other men out
this implies he was already in the dating pool to begin with with

OP clearly stated that he was never admitted into the dating pool in the first place so no it is not

>>33608454 (OP)
>>21 year old virgin
>>get told a hooker will make me more confident by demistifying women or whatever
Congrats on falling for one of the most terrible lies that incels tell each other. Buying hookers only ever leads to buying more hookers, it doesn't translate to real skills/experience in talking to women and dating them and having normal sex.

>>33608567
>OP clearly stated that he was never admitted into the dating pool in the first place so no it is not
No he didn't. Also it's his fault for giving up on women/listening to hooker-buyers when he's barely old enough to go to night clubs in America.

You should be buying hookers when you're 40.

>>33608615
Looks to me like the hookers had the intended effect. They demystified women and allowed him to get on with his life without the drag of virginity.

>>33608647
Why do you want men to suffer and be alone? Is that some blackpill shit?

>get on with his life
finally, he's free to work and pay taxes and die? whoopee.

>>33608454 (OP)
that sucks man. I lost mine at 15 with my 14 year old GF (we stayed together for almost a decade) it must be weird pumping some whore who is stressing you over time and what not and she smells nigger cum all over.

Get a GF, no wonder you have a fucked up perspective on women when all you know is whores

>>33608647
I pay for sex 3-4 times a year when jerking off isn't enough, no desire to be in a relationship or have any kids especially with how fucked up the world is today

>>33608615
>just get into the joy of a sexless marriage and then later buy hookers
It is just a shortcut to what will everntually happen anyway, who do you think is the largest target demographic for hookers ? Protip: it isn‘t incels.

>>33608454 (OP)
To build confidence from an escort you need to treat it as a training exercise.

Learn to socialize more with them and get used to talking to extremely hot girls normally. Expsoure therapy.

You'll know you got good when they start breaking character and relaxing around you.

For sex, ask what they like. These are whores, they have experience, figure out how to please them and you'll be equipped to handle women who fuck alot.
You can even be upfront and tell them im trying to improve my game but dont be an autist about it.

Once those skills are gained, move to dating apps or in person.

If you started to hate them more, most likely you had bad experiences, embarrassed yourself, now instead of taking accountability, you blame women.

>>33608454 (OP)
What's the main perk of having a girlfriend from your perspective, having sex?
If that's all you care about, you probably figured out sex is like a more expensive and complicated jerk off session, and isn't worth the hassle.

>>33608454 (OP)
I fucked hookers and it made me like women more.
I went to brothels in multiple countries in Europe, and I cuddled with them for half the time, then oil massages/sex for the other half.
It's more about the intimacy.

>>33613635
>I fucked hookers and it made me like hookers more

FTFY

>>33613651
That too.
There's one that I REALLY liked, I would not hesitate to date and marry her.

>>33613667
it sounds like you've been with 0 women, confirming the theory that hookers only leads to more hookers.

>>33609109
>It is just a shortcut to what will everntually happen anyway
Yeah bro just LARP as a 45 year old, speedrun your prime years and take a shortcut to the worst years of your life.

This is like those dudes who decide to speedrun middle school and jr high and high school and college by ignoring women and only focusing on homework.

>>33608454 (OP)
It genuinely helps if you're remotely interested in a woman as a human being rather than a living Fleshlight.

If the only purpose you have for interacting with women is to nut, then yeah, you end where you're at. You'll either grow and mature beyond this point or live like this for the rest of your existence.
My best advice is to work on developing a positive interest in other people.

>>33613678
>it sounds like you've been with 0 women
Only because I'm from a "conservative" country (putting it REALLY mildly).
Otherwise I'd be looking for a gf.

>>33613738
>country is too conservative to get a gf
>has no problem snuggling with oiled up whores
what

>>33613774
>in multiple countries in Europe >>33613635
Based speed-reading retard.

>>33608454 (OP)
Im planning on paying an escort this saturday for the same reason, im a virgin and i cant deal with it
Im not expecting a big change, in fact im thinking im probably gonna like it and fuck an escort one each month or some shit
i want to touch and fuck a big ass and suck on titties that ill NEVER EVER actually get naturally
Cuddle and intimancy as well, thats what im paying her for

>>33613870
Here's what will happen:
1) You will discover that sex DOES feel good
2) You will discover that sex ISN'T all it's hyped up to be (most important part)
3) You will discover that personality ACTUALLY matters and isn't just a meme

Learn to ask for permission and don't just grab anything however you like; that's a human being.
Also make sure you are clean from head to toe and smell nice.

>>33613928
Oh yeah dont worry im not going with a "just suck me off, whore" attitude
I want to have a good time, but i also want her to have a good time. Im not the most handsome man ever, but im not some ugly fat fuck, so i expect her to be a little "phew...not a fat fuck this time" and be more playful and nice wth me

>>33608454 (OP)
Same
Having sex made it clear to me that sex would never play an important part in my life. Of course, being a regular jackoff from age 14 forward played a major role in that, because you know that relief from sexual tension is free, easy and quick.
>>33608533
>the "in love" delusion
Doesn't happen. There's no woman in the world who has the power to make me a helpless, hopeless simp for her attention.

oh noooooooooo pls dont leave us alone, i want to be permanently injured from strangulation soooo baddddd

love is cap. moids hate women and always have. impossible to please bc moids just want to make the world worse

>>33614151
>Doesn't happen. There's no woman in the world who has the power to make me a helpless, hopeless simp for her attention.
That's retarded. Being in love is more like loving a woman as your daughter, not whatever you just said.

>>33614151
>There's no woman in the world who has the power to make me a helpless, hopeless simp for her attention.
First, that's not love.
Second, if you go into an experience like watching a scary movie with the intention of actively resisting, no it'll never happen.
That's why so many people are miserable. They decided the world was awful and refuse to entertain the idea that life can be good and therefore fulfill their prophecy of living a miserable life.

You can spend your whole life miserable, denying love, and die miserably asserting that you were right.
Or you could risk being wrong and open yourself up a little.
Seems simple to me.

Your choice. You do you boo.

>>33608454 (OP)
>nigga pays for sex
>thinks he can pull normal women
Lol you had no chance to begin with lil bro

>>33614598
Why do you talk like a zoomie?

>>33608454 (OP)
You know I had bad experiences with hookers and then I met the one. She rode me dry. Even if I wasnt hard she got me hard. This whore was really worth the one grand very good service. Even told me how to do oral on a wimin.

>>33608454 (OP)
Something similar happened to me. Once I saw how easy and attractive escorts could be, every woman lost their power in my mind. Friends in relationships with women that had long ago turned into fatasses they weren’t even happy with made no sense to me. Guys that complained about not getting laid, but didn’t want to go hunt in escort filled waters just came off as homosexual or low testosterone. Like, if I have a legitimately hot slut on WhatsApp and I can summon her for pocket change, all of the nonsense women try just becomes even more absurd. I’ve slept with non-sex workers, plenty of them, but the horror dawns on you when you realize most women are on the sex worker spectrum.

>>33608454 (OP)
If you're so content why even type this question?
But anyway, in my experience guys like you always end up going nuts over some random unexplicable oneitis eventually. I.e. "You just haven't met the right girl yet..."

>>33616927
That's why personality matters more than looks.