Thread 33609067

My parents told me that my teacher reccomended me or something to a job and apparently its a good job, as they put it. The issue is that im 18 and am now a neet and that ive done online school for the whole duration of high-school, and that I have autism, and terrible social anxiety, which is what led me to stop going to school. I also have panic attacks. And ive never worked before, ever, and I am incompetent. And they expect me to just dive head first into working, I also feel extremely depressed all the time and just want to lie in bed all day and do nothing else, I do not have any aspirations or goals in my life and just want to get drunk all day and end up dying from that. But im supposed to care about a job or working. I dont know if I come off as an entitled brat or not but I truly have no Lust or desire for life let alone working. And I would not be able to function.. what do I do? Please help me. Do I come off as an entitled brat? I want to blow my brains out, I'll probably do that. . .

>>33609067 (OP)
I mean, brother, you sound the same as me and millions of other men, struggling to find a place in the modern world.
In the old days a guy had to work like crazy to support his stay at home wife and kids, which you obviously don't have.

I personally would suggest that you join the military.
It's a more comfortable environment for autists, even if that sounds strange the first time you hear it.
It's structured, regulated, straightforward, and feels better than fantasizing about killing yourself while working at McDonald's during the day and getting drunk every night.

But first, what job are they trying to push you to do? McDonald's or something? Or something serious?

>>33609067 (OP)
I think you should at least try working, I think you'd do better at it than you expect.
Also ignore this anon >>33609106 military is not a good place for people with depression

>>33609106
No it's a job at a local place and theyre saying that its a good job and that those are hard to come by around here

Yeah, you do come off as insufferable. You should work on that. I don't want to even type to you anymore.

You need a good few years in the army. That'll straighten you out.

>>33609196
Local place? What kind of local place?
The reason I'm asking is that I can't tell what kind of job this is that they're offering you.
If it's at a "local place", like a local grocery store or a fast food burger joint: forget it
If it's at a "local place" like a machining plant with ties to a defense manufacturer, that's a completely different story and you should seriously consider taking that job and doing it well.

Some jobs provide you amazing advancement opportunities and a path to a good future.
Some don't.

If it's not a decent job, consider the military instead.

>>33609314
Its like, a drug store, im not sure what the position in question would even be because they didnt tell me. Thanks for the advice I appreciate it

>>33609067 (OP)
>I have autism, and terrible social anxiety, which is what led me to stop going to school. I also have panic attacks.
If it's bad enough there's a chance you could get disability.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QKIaHJvlR6s

paso por casi lo mismo, te recomiendo ir a un psicólogo con el que se te haga fácil abrirte si tienes la posibilidad, asegúrate de que sea un psicólogo clínico, no uno común, ellos saben como tratar bien la ansiedad social y la depresión, en ese estado no vas a poder trabajar ni tampoco estudiar correctamente, mucha suerte

>>33609067 (OP)
What would your parents do if you refused to work?

>>33609067 (OP)
>Do I come off as an entitled brat?
yeah bro, you are a useless sack of shit. Worse, a leech to everyone around you.
>I have autism
>and terrible social anxiety
>also have panic attacks
no, you are just a coward. A bitch ass nigga. Too afraid to feel any challenge in life at all and want to go about it the easy way. An entitled pussy. The worst kind. No one cares about these kind of people and rightfully so.
>Please help me.
you already know where you are fucking up. You have a self-defeatist attitude and want to give up before you have even tried anything. What kind of sane person would want to have anything to do with a self-proclaimed LOSER? A loser on purpose is crazy work.
>But im supposed to care about a job or working.
even niggers know they need to earn some money to be able to support themselves, let alone put food in their mouth. You can't even feed yourself, the pathetic creature you are. Until you live under your own house, feed yourself with the hard work of you own hands, have a stable life being a productive member of society- you are in no position to criticize work life. At the least, move out of your momma's house so you can be a sack of shit on your own dime. Disgusting, truly.