Thread 33613216

>just got actually banned on bumble
Jeez, I already knew I’m an awkward guy.
I guess I’m an actual creep.
I thought I was improving too.
If that tea app still exists, I guess I’m just doomed.
Like, damn. I was already in a rut of sorts, and this one just hurts in a way I wasn’t expecting.

>>33613216 (OP)
but what do you do to people
some people are unlucky with girls but they don't get banned from dating apps
you have to actively be doing something to get banned

>>33613239
I had 1 chat that led on one date in the last like 4 months, so it had to be her.
We apparently matched like a year ago, but it fell through (on my end), and rematched again, but she was very much receptive this time.
Went straight to texting, we chatted all day, and planned for friday, but moved it up to that (tues) night. We met up and were hooking up the whole time. I have to assume I got too forward despite getting nothing but green flags, or she changed her mind retroactively. I swear she was texting she was dtf and shit. I felt like it went great up until I got home and after a little she didn’t send a like ‘just got gome had fun! :)’ text.

>>33613252
doesn't sound like the app can ban you over this

>>33613258
I would think so, but I assume an unmatch for something like ‘someone in danger’ i think is just an autoban or something.
Idgaf about the app, now I’m tweaking what if she calls my job or does something crazy if apparently went that crazy bad? I swear we left off on good terms. Idk if I’m an idiot or what.

If you have her number, why not try texting and asking if anything is up?

>>33613331
I texted her the day after if she wanted to meet again on fri (as we said in person) to no response.
Normally that’s the ‘drop it’ signal.
Given now, I feel like any further prodding is a bad idea. I’m likely blocked anyway if she felt so inclined to report me on the app.

>>33613216 (OP)
I know that bumble isn’t owned by match group but I’ve fallen out and just started dumpstering hoes before, gotten no kind of warning for it, only to get a grip on myself and get warned fire calling a cute girl cute in an opening message that went exactly “Haha what do you even do when a cute girl sticks her tongue out at you?!” And the system was like
>nah nigga this message contains possibly inappropriate language you sure you wanna send that homie?
When just the week before I was sending out stuff like
>maybe if you hit the gym you wouldn’t need hinge
and
>I went to that university, you must have been blind to not come out of there with a man
as well as
>ew
So what you thought was flirty and fun might have been verboten sexual assault or something

>>33613437
Maybe idk. Like i said. I’m just hoping it was an unmatch or autoflag or something and not her thinking i went too far.
I’m like getting myself twisted now. Didnt even do anything wrong, but im paranoid.