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Anonymous No.33613233 [Report] >>33614010 >>33614301 >>33614862 >>33615029 >>33619232 >>33619263 >>33623319 >>33624510 >>33628035 >>33635007 >>33635056 >>33635272 >>33635804 >>33649580 >>33650333 >>33655918
As an introvert, what are some challenges I will face and how should I overcome them?
Anonymous No.33614010 [Report] >>33616282 >>33624510 >>33624577 >>33649572
>>33613233 (OP)
I would impregnate and turn this woman into an average housewife so fast you wouldn't believe it.
Anonymous No.33614021 [Report] >>33614257 >>33615019 >>33623299 >>33624493 >>33630495
how is being an introvert even real

>"hey anon, how was your weekend?"
>[INTERNAL DIALOGUE INTENSIFIES]

just say what's on your mind you doofus, instead of keeping it all to yourself
Anonymous No.33614257 [Report] >>33614877 >>33632174
>>33614021
you don't speak to many introverts, do you.
Anonymous No.33614301 [Report] >>33614315 >>33614862
>>33613233 (OP)
Do you have social anxiety?
Anonymous No.33614315 [Report] >>33614362 >>33614862
>>33614301
Not OP, but I do.
Anonymous No.33614362 [Report]
>>33614315
You should make your own thread. I don't want to derail OPs thread.
Anonymous No.33614862 [Report]
>>33613233 (OP)
>>33614301
>>33614315
introversion doesnt mean you have social anxiety or/and you're socially retarded
Anonymous No.33614877 [Report]
>>33614257
I try, but they just sit there pondering the 500 different things that they could say and then they don't say anything and they later think of the perfect thing to say 16 hours too late when they have a eureka moment in the shower
Anonymous No.33615019 [Report] >>33615112 >>33615126 >>33619299 >>33624514
>>33614021
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>how is being an introvert even real
Anonymous No.33615029 [Report]
>>33613233 (OP)
Normies. How do u overcome them pretend, the "mask" never tell them who you really are, pretend normalcy and keep conversations with then short and to the point
Anonymous No.33615112 [Report]
>>33615019
lmao
Anonymous No.33615126 [Report]
>>33615019
This, but it's the thought process and internal monologue of an introvert when you ask them "hey how's it going" and they eventually reply with "good"
Anonymous No.33616282 [Report]
>>33614010
Sure
Anonymous No.33617275 [Report] >>33617427
It's doubtful you will "overcome" anything, so don't be surprised if you never do.
Anonymous No.33617427 [Report] >>33623029
>>33617275
What's that supposed to mean? Bless your heart, nigga.
Anonymous No.33619232 [Report]
>>33613233 (OP)
What's a vert and why are introducing me to it?
Anonymous No.33619263 [Report]
>>33613233 (OP)
What's a vert and why are you introducing me to it?
Anonymous No.33619299 [Report]
>>33615019
this is actually funny. say this shit out loud, get more friends
Anonymous No.33623029 [Report]
>>33617427
no no, bless YOUR heart, my sweet summer child ;)
Anonymous No.33623299 [Report] >>33623374
>>33614021
>just say what's on your mind you doofus
>picrel
i don't think this is a good idea
Anonymous No.33623319 [Report] >>33623332 >>33655212
>>33613233 (OP)
What does the necklace mean? The flash?
Anonymous No.33623332 [Report]
>>33623319
it means that she gives good head
Anonymous No.33623374 [Report] >>33623383
>>33623299
kek wtf is that real? did that guy actually take a selfie before killing himself?
Anonymous No.33623383 [Report] >>33624440
>>33623374
yes, definitely true
Anonymous No.33624440 [Report]
>>33623383
oh wow what was his name? I can't find the news story from the image search
Anonymous No.33624493 [Report]
>>33614021
>carrying my nephew around because i'm his favourite person
>mind starts thinking
>"i could literally dropkick this baby right now"

So you're saying I should say that?
Anonymous No.33624510 [Report] >>33624549
>>33614010
Fancy that, I don't believe it.
>>33613233 (OP)
Something important to understand is that introversion doesn't mean you're anti social, if you are then it's probably because of you got bullied growing up. Socialization is one of the best ways to stimulate your mind and keep your brain healthy, believe it or not, but you can only socialize so much at a time. It's cliché but the concept of the social battery is real. Learning to recognize this and dipping out of social events to unwind and center yourself is the major take away, but don't fall into the life trap of "I'm an introvert so I never need to talk to people" or you will die both retarded and alone.
Thank you for wasting our time today.
Anonymous No.33624514 [Report]
>>33615019
fucking lmao
Anonymous No.33624549 [Report]
>>33624510
you nwgga
Anonymous No.33624577 [Report]
>>33614010
She'd turn you into an alcoholic so fast you wouldn't believe it
Anonymous No.33628035 [Report] >>33630054
>>33613233 (OP)
Just cum already
Anonymous No.33630054 [Report]
>>33628035
Intro to verticalness
Anonymous No.33630101 [Report] >>33630403
Lame ass nigga
Anonymous No.33630403 [Report]
>>33630101
Candy ass faggot
Anonymous No.33630495 [Report] >>33630622
>>33614021
I've been told I'm mysterious, but after 30 seconds of talking to me people get bored and never talk to me again, even if I try to reengage later out of increased comfort/familiarity, it seems like I'm a burden to them or something. I have pretty monotone speech most of the time and I tend to not have a lot of facial expression, but people used to like being around me despite that. For some reason the script flipped a couple years ago and now I don't know what to do, but I feel like garbage whenever people respond to me the way that have been lately and it doesn't make me want to keep talking to people.
Anonymous No.33630622 [Report] >>33635478
>>33630495
>people get bored
As an introvert, I always found it funny when people get bored. I never get bored. There is always something to think about, or be excited about or be worried about, lol. My mind does not have time to be bored.
Anonymous No.33632174 [Report] >>33632375
>>33614257
Most "introverts" I talked to simply have underdeveloped social skills or unresolved anxiety issues.
Who every came up with using introversion as a cope for these problems did some real damage
>talk to people, sorry can' tlear that , its just the way I am tee-hee

You'd be amazed at how many "introverted" people stop being so after they have confronted their anxiety.
Anonymous No.33632375 [Report]
>>33632174
The field of psychology is seemingly not taken seriously outside of marketing.

I have come to observe introversion is actually some kind of spectrum in which different stages of communication are affected. Take the following different traits for example:

>People who internal monologue and focus mainly on their situation, their surroundings, everything around themselves
>People who don't express themselves due to self shame, reading cues or anything else.

Different contexts will affect these abilities.

I for example, have thoughts mostly revolve around me, my situation, my troubles, my goals. I don't think at all about what others do, don't wonder about how they live. But if I'm in an MMO i will relentlessly complain about life without anyone needing to hear it.

There's girls I've talked to, who I ask about their lives, I invite to talk about themselves, I even say something about myself to try to lower the stakes. They're laconic even though they initiate conversation. These girls may have self shaming issues or whatever.

There's people who may be the second type and they talk mainly about what others do the few times they do speak. There's wreck of people who think of themselves and save it to themselves.

All of these are sadly lumped together and assumed society should just accomodate, and when it doesn't do they tell them to fuck off and find their own over the internet without more guidance.
Anonymous No.33635007 [Report] >>33639717
>>33613233 (OP)
Is there an outrovert?
Anonymous No.33635056 [Report]
>>33613233 (OP)
The biggest challenge most self-proclaimed introverts face is just getting over themselves and realizing that most people's resting mental state is wanting to relax in a quiet room at home, but they didn't have to make it A Thing or, god forbid, Their Whole Thing.
Anonymous No.33635272 [Report]
>>33613233 (OP)
Actual introvert or a faggot unaccustomed to speaking? I was the latter. It gets better but hiding behind excuses delays improvement.
Anonymous No.33635478 [Report] >>33635727
>>33630622
That's because you're constantly using the internet.
Anonymous No.33635727 [Report]
>>33635478
Yeah, but they use the internet too, lol.
Anonymous No.33635804 [Report] >>33642322
>>33613233 (OP)
>job interviews
>entire staff turning against you and trying to get you fired if you finally do get a job
Introvert/extrovert isn't even real in my opinion however. You can choose how you approach life.
Anonymous No.33639717 [Report]
>>33635007
Yes!
Anonymous No.33642322 [Report] >>33642345
>>33635804
What is real then?
Anonymous No.33642345 [Report] >>33644981
>>33642322
Your perception creates your reality. I don’t mean that in a mystical metaphysical way or whatever. But it shapes your world and behaviors more than you realize.
Anonymous No.33644981 [Report] >>33649560
>>33642345
>I don’t mean that in a mystical metaphysical way or whatever
I wish you did though :3
Anonymous No.33649560 [Report]
>>33644981
:3
Anonymous No.33649572 [Report] >>33649948
>>33614010
Great way to ruin your entire life.

I should know, I impregnated an alt/goth chick.

My advice is: don't.
Anonymous No.33649580 [Report]
>>33613233 (OP)
Gotta get a job and a place to live
They're quite hard sorry
Anonymous No.33649948 [Report] >>33650297
>>33649572
Did she give good head?
Anonymous No.33650297 [Report] >>33650320
>>33649948
Yeah she was a great fuck. But she was/is deeply mentally ill, a terrible gf/wife, a terrible mother, and ruined my life.
Anonymous No.33650320 [Report] >>33650987
>>33650297
Dudes always say this and then never ever elaborate. Stop gatekeeping faggot.
Anonymous No.33650333 [Report] >>33650542
>>33613233 (OP)
>introvert
>how should I overcome them
alcohol
>what are some challenges I will face
later on, alcoholism
Anonymous No.33650542 [Report]
>>33650333
kek that is dark
Anonymous No.33650987 [Report] >>33651794 >>33651925
>>33650320
Yeah but if I type out my life story then you'll just say I'm blogposting or soijak me. I'm not falling for your tricks, faggot.
Anonymous No.33651794 [Report]
>>33650987
>soijak me
What?
Anonymous No.33651925 [Report]
>>33650987
Not him but I won't. You can keep it brief if you want.
my No.33655212 [Report] >>33655849
>>33623319
Marilyn Manson fan, retard

holy shit this generation is so used to goth just being aesthetic you can't even identify an actual goth girl signaling she likes goth music anymore

sad!
Anonymous No.33655849 [Report]
>>33655212
>Marilyn Manson
I've known that guy existed ever since I was a little kid. Never knew that little flash symbol was his logo. The more ya know I guess, kek.
Anonymous No.33655918 [Report]
>>33613233 (OP)
Normgroids have poor empathy and are likely to assume you want to rape and/or murder them if you don't talk enough. The last few years I worked before I got neetbux I went on tiktok and shit like that daily so I could talk about capeshit and celebrities with my coworkers to stop them from treating me like a threat or a freak.