Would it be weird to hang around college for the winter semester as a graduate?
I'm set to graduate this fall and my lease doesn't end until the summer. I live right on the edge of campus of a big state school and I feel like it would be the perfect time for me to do all the things I didn't have time for; clubs, events, parties, dating, etc.
Only thing is that I would be a fresh alumni. Should I try to blend in as a student? Should I be open about my status as an alumni? Should I just stick to my own lane?
>You should be getting a job
There are no jobs concerning my degree where I'm at. Until my lease is up, i'm stuck here and I plan to get a job.
Anonymous
9/4/2025, 6:39:27 PM
No.33613795
>>33613674 (OP)
you mean a graduate student or just a loiterer?
Anonymous
9/4/2025, 6:43:32 PM
No.33613813
>>33613674 (OP)
If you literally just graduated, I don't think it's weird past the perception that you are a loser who didn't get a job.
It's not going to be "why are you here", it's going to be "oh, so you aren't doing shit with your life".
Anonymous
9/4/2025, 6:49:55 PM
No.33613839
I'm have a similar question too, i graduated about a year ago, do have a job, but I want to hang around campus and find some dates because there aren't a lot of good places to just exist and meet people in public in my city. Its like every square foot of land is a fucken strip mall, save for the university.
I'll have to just see how things go, I tried cold approach in a mall and it was just really hard, security guards watching like a hawk and then the mixture of age groups complicated things. The juxtaposition of an old couple with gray hair holding hands walking behind some ultimate whore zoomers with skin tight leggings, I couldn't approach the girlies in front of old couple lol. Plus balancing it with a 9-5 is hard, I don't want the only opportunity to meet girls be on the weekends, but seemingly people dont really go outside on the weekdays. Guess most of the normies are wasting away on Netflix at home?
Captcha kinda looks like NGMI kek.
Anonymous
9/4/2025, 6:54:39 PM
No.33613854
>>33613674 (OP)
Don’t overthink it—just tell people your lease is up in XYZ.
I am in my 30's and live next to the college part of my town, but I sometimes hang out there because I love the energy and meeting younger women.
I still look young enough that I can just say I’m doing my master’s, and people don’t overthink it.
Anonymous
9/5/2025, 1:46:13 AM
No.33615712
It’s not that weird as being a 30 year old alumni on campus
Anonymous
9/5/2025, 4:55:49 PM
No.33618729
>>33613674 (OP)
Yes it is weird but you already know that isn't going to stop you
