Thread 33617548

Me and my GF have been together for almost a year at this point and although we have had our ups and downs she has never done anything like this before or even anything remotely close.

We decided to have sex in the morning because neither of us had anything we needed to do until later in the day. The sex was rather quick however this was by her own request (I can easily go for 2+ hours if I really want to and I can make her finish rather easily). According to her, I am also the first person who has ever made her properly finish from sex.

We then decided to have a shower afterwards as we generally like normal clean individuals and some of the sexy time behavior carried over to the shower. This is when shit started to get uncomfortable.

For whatever reason, she brought up the fact that I would never touch anyone else's breasts or any sexual part of an individual (we're both bisexual), and then proceeded to go on a rant about her previous girlfriends breasts and genitals for almost the remainder of the shower. Right as we were getting out, she told me to my face that it is my fault that I didn't have more experience prior to our relationship and that she didn't plan on breaking up with me or allowing me to get more "experience" while in the relationship.

I could not get that conversation out of my head all day. She knows why I didn't have much experience and still she decides to bring it up right after sex and in a manner specifically to fuck with my head. If I wasn't in a financial situation where we both rely on each other, I probably would be considering breaking up. I dont know what to fucking do.

how hard is it to tell her to shut the fuck up when she starts to talk about sex with her ex? that's way out of line. good partners don't do this

>obvious solution in the last line
>softcore porn on a blue board
kill yourself faggot

>>33617569
>>softcore porn on a blue board

There is softcore on every blue board.

>kill yourself faggot

Later.

>>33617561
>good partners don't do this

she had never done anything like this before, it was extremely out of character for her. I was honestly so taken back by it that I didnt know what to do but go on the defensive instead of telling her to can it.

>>33617569
>obvious solution in the last line

I cant break up with her at the moment otherwise I would be homeless. Rent where I live is so expensive that We need 3 people to cover a 2 bedroom rental and we're still barely scraping by. If I break up with her, that would make all 3 of us homeless.

>>33617622
Sounds like she had a lapse in judgement, so tell her you didn't like it and move on. People make mistakes, and it's all too easy to assume that others should never make them, but being wrong every once in a while is okay and part of being human.

>>33617548 (OP)
I think that she just wants you all for herself. She either had some past negative experience with polygamy/cheating or she's extremely delusional about your lack of experience in the sense that you'd want to gain more experience with other women which is 100% her jealousy and insecurity speaking.
>I dont know what to fucking do.
You should have a serious conversation with her about it. Bringing up exs like that isn't good to begin with but I think you should just hear her out about why she did and said all of that to you. If I had to speculate I'd assume that she thinks that you'll regret not having more sexual partners but she's bad at communication and blurted out a bunch of shit. It also doesn't seem like you're both on the same page in regards to the seriousness of your relationship so maybe that's something you should get straight afterwards.

>>33617548 (OP)
Kill her

I'd let it go. Sounds like she used a retardedly long winded way of saying that she wants to keep you.

How many penises have ejaculated in her vagina?

>>33617930
this, looks like she sperged it up, so just be a good but firm daddy and guide your girlchild into explaining the nonsense that went through her head

>>33617548 (OP)
> (we're both bisexual), and then proceeded to go on a rant about her previous girlfriends breasts and genitals for almost the remainder of the shower. Right as we were getting out, she told me to my face that it is my fault that I didn't have more experience prior to our relationship and that she didn't plan on breaking up with me or allowing me to get more "experience" while in the relationship.
The state of the modern relationships, KEK, and you engage in this?
Your choice is to repent for being a degenerate and normalising this, no matter how far you go, you will never be happy when engaging in such degenerate behaviour, so repent and dump her, true happiness comes from God.
I pity you though, i hope you change your ways.

>>33617548 (OP)
she probably feels so confident with you now that she forgot to filter her fucking mouth
maybe she meant to say that she wants you to try more stuff with her, idk

>>33617548 (OP)
>we're both bisexual
That makes sense, you're both deluded into thinking that something like that is healthy.
You've based a relationship entirely on sex because you're both immature people.

>>33617548 (OP)
>bisexual
Strike 1
>poly
Strike 2
>she sees you as less of a man
Strike 3, that's the game!

>>33617548 (OP)
she shamed you because women don't see men as human beings

hate fuck, be extremely dominant when you do her, then drop her from your life by any means possible. she probably knows you have financial issues and is why she's so bold to take a shit in your heart. use her once and then leave her if she made it clear she thinks you don't deserve respect

>>33617548 (OP)
>she didn't plan on breaking up with me or allowing me to get more "experience" while in the relationship.
I'd say
>We can break up right now then, go back to your exes I don't fucking care.
I would never let that shit fly for a fucking second.

>>33619970
we are not poly and we have no plans on being poly.

>>33619963
>That makes sense, you're both deluded into thinking that something like that is healthy.
>You've based a relationship entirely on sex because you're both immature people.

You dont know us, also plenty of bisexuals have healthy relationships.

>>33618410
see you in hell ig.

>>33620018
>also plenty of bisexuals have healthy relationships.
No, they don't. I know because I used to consider myself bisexual. nothing about it is healthy, your relationship is based in sex, as you have clearly shown, and you likely have not stopped to have conversations with your partners on what you both want out of life.

>>33620092
>your relationship is based in sex, as you have clearly shown,

Actually our relationship started because we're both stem nerds studying similar friends, but you would never have known that if I had not told you.

>>33620092
>and you likely have not stopped to have conversations with your partners on what you both want out of life.

We talk regularly, which is why when this happened it was such a mindfuck.

>>33620109
>For whatever reason, she brought up the fact that I would never touch anyone else's breasts or any sexual part of an individual (we're both bisexual), and then proceeded to go on a rant about her previous girlfriends breasts and genitals for almost the remainder of the shower. Right as we were getting out, she told me to my face that it is my fault that I didn't have more experience prior to our relationship and that she didn't plan on breaking up with me or allowing me to get more "experience" while in the relationship
So she basically just claimed you, said she was faithful, and that she wants to stay with you, and your response was to go and post some Ethot on a message board?
I fail to see the solution outside of
>A
you never had these conversations before, proving you haven't talked as much as you claimed
>B
She brings up being with other women because she is a degenerate bisexual, like you.

>>33618031
This. She deserves DEATH

>>33618297
I could see why other men might feel able to say stuff like this, but I don't understand what possesses confirmed retards on 4chan to say shit like this. You are not a good but firm daddy. You are not sensible and level-headed and intelligent. You are delusional. Is it cope?

>>33622821
sorry anon, the demotivational posts stopped working after a while

>>33622833
Yeah it just shows that she's struggling and whatever story she's twisting up that's on her side and she can deal with that at this point. Without reciprocation, I leave her to that.

>>33617548 (OP)
>(we're both bisexual)

Bro I can 100% assure you she isnt making fun of you for low body count kek sorry I dont mean to be rude but guys cant be bisexual you have straight guys (alpha guys) or you have faggots. You are the latter. A woman will never respect a gay guy. Stop being delusional.

Good on your for being calm. I'd be shocked too.

You not having a higher body count is by choice. Bragging about being a whore is folly. If she wants you to do something new she should just ask and not bring up her ex cunt.

>>33617548 (OP)
>If I wasn't in a financial situation where we both rely on each other,

That’s your first mistake.

Figure out why that is, and take steps to get out of that dynamic. Go live in a college dorm to save money, whatever it takes.

>Right as we were getting out, she told me to my face that it is my fault that I didn't have more experience prior to our relationship

Stand up for yourself.

If this was a one-off, firmly but calmly tell her she made you uncomfortable and that you didn’t appreciate her delivery. Have a real conversation about it and figure out why it’s an issue for her.

But if it’s just some trivial BS, then break up with her—because that either points to immaturity or a skewed perspective on life.

>>33622833
This isn't a demotivational post, shitling, this is an insult. I am insulting you.

>>33623015
sorry anon, I don't respect you enough to care
also I wasn't referring to your post, but you're too low IQ to figure even that one out