>>33619424
Physiologically we release chemicals that bond us to a person, it's natures way of making sure we stay together and raise healthy children.
Social media, pornography, promiscuity and lack of commitment damage this ability because you release these chemicals so much to so many different people that you either have a fractured sense of identity or an inability to continue producing these chemicals and bonding with anyone in the future.
This is why many women:
>Go back to their exes
>Seem neurotic
>Never show initiative
>Never seem satisfied by anything
>Etc
This can be healed, but never fully. And it occurs for men too, it's why so many men have been fucked up by porn.
>>33619428
Harem psychology isn't healthy, hence the above ^.
I always reference an old friend of mine who I grew up with, guy has 3 inches, yet he has a happy life with kids, and a pretty enjoyable vanilla sex life with his wife. They're social and still crazy for each other to this day even having met so many years in high school.
Men and women are meant to mate for life, it's written in our biology, as it is what produces the most stable/healthy offspring.
But they are a very rare example, because so many people sleep around and our culture encourages it.
Point is, it's not about size, it's about the extent to what you share with the other person. Sex is pretty easy if you're madly in love with someone, but actually knowing how to communicate and develop a genuine relationship is the hard part.
That's why guys chase shitty women, and why women chase shitty men, regardless of any physical reason, it's because they're afraid of intimacy or don't know how to actually establish it.
