Thread 33620186

Assuming you've lost all hope for ever getting a girlfriend, what are your copes for making peace with the single life?

Be a monk and serve God.
Religion should have a practical application here

Just get used to the suffering. We are all animals biologically wired for social connection and reproduction. It is natural that your body will react with pain to the absence of these things. Take solace in the fact that you are stronger than most for enduring it and find some purpose in life to distract you from it. P.s. porn is poison.

>>33620186 (OP)
Jesus man there are so many things in normal adult life harder than just talking to women. Just make a habit of conversing with women and make friends with them. Are you really going to let some stupid social anxiety that you could do away with in a month of deliberate work control your entire fucking life? Think about it. You'd have to put yourself out of your comfort zone for just 30 days to 'build a new habit'. afterwards the world is yours. Are you literally going to avoid doing something so simple and just piss away the rest of your life over some small feeling of cringe that only you are aware of? nobody care!

>>33620186 (OP)
providing for myself and working to afford my hobbies

>>33620217
Its not that bad in my opinion, I've always handled it very well. I'm more so trying to see how others deal with it and download some of their copes.

>>33620219
Leave, fool!

>>33620186 (OP)

Just enjoy the single life bro. You can have sex with lots of women if you don't have a girlfriend.

Of course, I'm not delusional like redpillers or all the guys pretending it's easy to get tinder matches. I know that's not easy for the average man. I'm not telling you through humiliation rituals at bars like a chump, but to go to prostitutes.

>>33620254
>You can have sex with lots of women if you don't have a girlfriend.
Nice one anon, let's encourage the same exact problem to continue spreading itself around. Fucking degenerate.

>>33620280

read the whole post. im not stupid.

plus "the problem" is not really that, its women only being into gigachads with perfect faces

>>33620245
DO NOT ENGAGE!

OP is just looking for some woe is me bullshit

>>33620219
How dare you assume incels are adults who take initiative of their own lives

>>33620297
we do, but we have ugly faces so cant get a girlfriend

its really as simple as that

>>33620280
No I agree with him. I think just skipping the bullshit and paying for it is a good move if you know how to navigate around that game. Its not for me, but I don't fault Johns.

>>33620186 (OP)
I just dress up like a girl and masturbate to myself.

>drop out of college
>decide to learn what they cannot teach
>spend a decade learning divine powers
>strike the right bargains
>the power keeps me young
>no money in it
>go back to school
>look like young 20s, actually young 30s
>people stare at me because by my illusion I will create a world that I can exist in
dating sucks because I have nothing in common with other students but I'm about ready to start following astrology to date people

>>33620186 (OP)
I try and tell myself it doesn’t matter. Nothing matters. If you tell yourself it doesn’t matter, like you do shows, you do this, you do that and then you have earthquakes in India where 400,000 people get killed. Honestly, it doesn’t matter. That’s how I handle stress.

>>33620186 (OP)
Anime figgies and buyfagging.

>>33621157
Best cope so far.

>>33620186 (OP)
porno basically, atleast I can see hot women naked, not like I would ever see that irl.

>>33620186 (OP)
>Assuming
I won't read hypotheticals about no-one in particular on an advice board.

>>33620186 (OP)
>what are your copes for making peace with the single life?
Jerking off
Drinking and gaming a lot
Listening to lots of sad music
Doing whatever i want whenever
Not thinking about it

I accept it, but I don't know that I cope with it. At least not well. It's only one of a myriad of problems in my life... probably many of yours, too.
The more I think about how bad my life is going, suicide is the only answer I consistently come up with that makes any sense. Everything else just seems like swimming against the tide at best, or even just a shitty cope.

Dogwife or horsewife

>>33620245
>me nmin the back
>>33620186 (OP)
Why hopeless?

>>33620186 (OP)
make actual peace with it
don't care one way or the other the outcome of life
you're now unplugged from the reprouductive cycle and can be an observer of life, and explorer of its many inane aspects, it doesn't matter if you work or not now, it doesn't matter if you're a fat slob or not, everything becomes singular because no one cares whether or not you participate in life, no one values your contribution, nothing will be passed down, so suddenly all those chores become completely optional and you get to build a life that you desire, you get to do cool weird things that no one with a girlfriend or kids could realistically dedicate the time or effort to