I'm a thirty-year-old virgin. I want to get a girlfriend/wife but I'm worried that since I've gone my whole life without having sex I might not be able to get hard for her when I need to. Is this a reasonable fear and is there anything I should do?
Anonymous
9/6/2025, 5:19:41 AM
No.33621782
I've thought about this and have been asked if I had sex in the past by a girl in college and I played it cool and just pretended to be a nigga i aint that fucks often, no joke she believed me, it sucks but it helps bypass the soul crushing nightmare I live all the time. I don't know if being a virgin will help in the future ill just pretend the next time it comes up.
Anonymous
9/6/2025, 5:59:08 PM
No.33623687
>>33621680 (OP)
Im a 29 year old virgin and I think to get a proper boner you need to abstain from porn.
Anonymous
9/6/2025, 6:06:26 PM
No.33623713
>>33621680 (OP)
You'll get hard, just invest your time in somebody worth the effort. Life finds a way.
Anonymous
9/6/2025, 6:16:42 PM
No.33623759
>>33621680 (OP)
>I'm a thirty-year-old virgin. I want to get a girlfriend/wife but I'm worried
If this is your primary characteristic you will never get a gf or wife. Is there anything attractive or inviting about you besides the fact you just want stuff?
Anonymous
9/6/2025, 7:41:04 PM
No.33624201
>>33621680 (OP)
I won't read calendar of doom threads and I won't read rumination threads. Just start now.
Anonymous
9/6/2025, 11:55:20 PM
No.33625207
>>33621680 (OP)
> sex I might not be able to get hard for her when I need to. Is this a reasonable fear
Yes this happened to me. Let me know anyone of you know how to fix it
