Thread 33622151

Is it possible for a woman to love an autistic man?

Yes. Be socially adjusted.

You better scrape the bottom of the barrel.

>>33622151 (OP)
Learn to love yourself. Then the answer will come to you by itself.

>>33622151 (OP)
Yes. But it's all about attraction. You need to provide reasons for her to be attracted. Whether it's style, your conversation, common interests, charisma, being funny, etc. If you're normal and boring you won't get bitches. If you're autistic but interesting, you'll get them. And vice versa. You've just got to build your personality and aspects of yourself that are deeper than surface level for her to slowly discover over time.

>>33622239

as an autist I've learned to compensate for my lack of charisma by just showing interest in other people's lives and asking good questions which they'll do the talking for me, I'm too cerebral unless I'm on a lot of drugs

>>33622151 (OP)
Yeah

>>33622242
Okay, that's good. But you still need your own interests. Either way, it's clear you should be aiming for an intellectual type of chick anyway. That way she's not put off by your quirks but you're also fulfilled by being able to talk about more than just...*them*. But it's absolutely possible bro. You are limited only by your own mind. Think it's not possible? Your mind will look for and amplify all the reasons you can't. Think you can? Your mind will find and amplify all the reasons you can.

So for some autists, it literally is impossible because they themselves can't even conceive that it is, in fact, possible. So that manifests in everything they do: how they speak, the cadence of their voice. The way they do or don't hold eye contact. Even the way they walk. That inner mentality exudes subconsciously in everything they do, projecting onto physical reality the impossibility of what they want. You, clearly, aren't doing that. You just wanna know: yes or no.

Anon. The answer is fuck yes.

>>33622269

I'm more attracted to the country girl baddie type though even though I'm more of a nihilist type of anti-hippie psychonaut. Came out of years of psychosis. My desires of what I want is quite the contradiction to what I exist as, it's not that 'I can't get 'x' because I'm 'y', I just exist on a different plane of being than most I've encountered. Maybe I still yearn to be on that same level with NTs or there's still some self loathing so I'd end up despising my equal female half.

>>33622269
>So for some autists, it literally is impossible because they themselves can't even conceive that it is, in fact, possible. So that manifests in everything they do: how they speak, the cadence of their voice. The way they do or don't hold eye contact. Even the way they walk. That inner mentality exudes subconsciously in everything they do, projecting onto physical reality the impossibility of what they want. You, clearly, aren't doing that. You just wanna know: yes or no.

I think also for autists the irony is they don't look at socializing as something logical in building their social skills the same way as gaining experience points in an RPG

>>33622151 (OP)
>Is it possible for a woman to love an autistic man?
Yes but only if the autist unmasks and let's himself become the clown he was born to be. Women love clowns

>>33622312
>I'm more attracted to the country girl baddie type
Ok, but do you attract those types? Not trying to be facetious. That's a genuine question.

>I think also for autists the irony is they don't look at socializing as something logical in building their social skills the same way as gaining experience points in an RPG
They don't know what they don't know on that one, lol.

>>33622151 (OP)
Yes, but she has to be an autist too.

>>33622312
"anti-hippie psychonaut", that's a self-hating hippy anon.

>>33622151 (OP)
highly unlikely, and keep in mind that autistic women are even less tolerant of autistic men than normal women

>>33622487
I don't believe you, why did you just make that statement, that "autistic women are even less tolerant of autistic men than normal women".

>>33622491
>why did you just make that statement, that "autistic women are even less tolerant of autistic men than normal women".
Because he's a niggerfaggot. That's why.
>>33622483
Yes, but she has to be an autist too.
Fake and gay.

It's tough when the majority of my life is IRL and to share that part of me that is very attractive would have to be direct communication.

>>33622491
>>33622519
ya'll both need to wake up

I was a late bloomer and didn’t have much success with women growing up. Back then, I struggled with being both shy and a little mean-spirited, which, unsurprisingly, pushed people away.

Eventually, I went to therapy and shifted how I approached social interactions—I stopped seeing it as a chase for validation and started viewing it as an opportunity to share experiences.

Since then, I’ve done much better for myself by being authentic.

>>33622151 (OP)
Depends, what are your special interests?

>>33622151 (OP)
I believe there's someone for everyone

>>33622269
>Either way, it's clear you should be aiming for an intellectual type of chick anyway.

the intellectual type of chicks I've encountered are insane leftoids (even though I'm not really a righty or lefty) that ruin good conversations because they never stfu about politics.

>>33622483
>Yes, but she has to be an autist too.

autistic women tend to be cold and unaffectionate which is a turnoff and unfeminine behavior

>>33622343
>Yes but only if the autist unmasks and let's himself become the clown he was born to be. Women love clowns

100% been slowly getting better at unmasking the more time I spend around normies.

love does not exist

autistic women are more feminine and moids obviously hate FEMininity. FEMininity is about what makes women happy, its in the name.

>>33622269
NTA
I don't know if i'm autistic or adhd, or just have social anxiety, but i think i should go for girls that are may be mildly autistic. I don't really have special interests, but i think i'd do better with girls that do. I don't think i could last long in a relationship with a girl who isn't.

>>33626167
>autistic women are more feminine and moids obviously hate FEMininity. FEMininity is about what makes women happy, its in the name.

this is some pretty funny trolling anon

>>33622151 (OP)
look at all the women who are in love with that autistic guy who murdered the health insurance CEO. So if you're autistic all you have to do is be handsome, and a murderer and women will love you.