Thread 33625490

For as long as i can remember i've been desperate for love, a person who yearned for someone who'd complete them. I've felt lonely for so, so long thinking that i wasn't good enough for other people, the odd one out and that i'd take literally anyone who asked me out just to live what people call love.

Today some guy i've known since last year and slightly talked to made a childish pass at me, the ones people make when they want plausible denialibity and i gave him my denial. Not straightforwardly since he didnt straightforwardly ask me out but i didn't reply with anything positive and didnt acknowledge his flirty 'typo' except with the word 'fag'. I believe it's because i dont know him and he doesn't know me yet, man just wants companionship like i used to. But i'm a changed person now who's put much more focus in building my own character. And relationships made to run from something rather than to build something don't sound appealing to me. Of course, i'm still single and i do want a boyfriend/girlfriend but then again, i barely know the guy. (Recently acted very friendly with him because i wanted friends since i felt lonely)

>Should i ask him out on a date to see if i like him? Or any other suggestions?

>>33625490 (OP)
I would suggest asking him if he wants to go to an event related to his hobby. Don't phrase it as a date but if he is into music go to a concert, if he's into baseball go to a baseball game, basically ask them to share a hobby with you outside of work for a day

Anon you sound like me. Take a chance, get some experience. Find out what you like.