Thread 33629082

Coworker Girl said there is no chemistry between us but she likes me as a close friend as we know each other for more than a year. Early this week she told tha she wants to see a horror movie, but nobody wants to go with her as her friends don't like these type of movies. I showed subtly tha I watched and also liked these types of films.
On Saturday she organized a small party for a few colleges andI also was invited. We talked about a bunch of things and movies and she mentioned again that she doesn't want to go alone to watch a movie. We talked about some horror films that we both saw.
Does she want my company? Should I ask her out? Of course not as a date. Is this a hint for me?

>>33629082 (OP)
Yup, just say hey: Hey (name here), I know you like horror flicks and I do too. Are you available sometime to go hang out with me to watch one because neither of us wants to see movies alone and it would be more fun to be terrorized with someone who likes these movies like I do. I think it would be more fun to go with you.

Leave it as that. You're friends. Stay in the friend zone. It's all good. It's nice to have some female friends that you don't have to fuck. If you two develop feels in the future, then that's cool too. But for now, just stay friends and get to hang out doing fun stuff.

You can always look around for more compatible pussy to fuck without any guilt. Grow a friendship, it's nice to not be alone in life.

>>33629082 (OP)
She thinks you are gay.
Do you give out gay vibes by any chance?
Has she tryed talking to you about her clothes, hair or makeup, asking wht you think?
Does she talk to you about other guys?
You have been gayzoned, but maybe she is on to something.

>>33629082 (OP)
You're not man enough for her. Move on and never speak to her again.

>>33629198
Looks easy, but I'm scared that she misinterprets it. Still she can always say no. Hopefully not.

>>33629228
No I am masculine looking. She complimentedctha I am looking great.
No we don't talk about girl stuff. I know she tried some long distance date, but probably didn't succeed. She is open to talk in a group about her life if it is going well, but she did not tell anything about

>>33629082 (OP)
It’s impossible for men and women to be just friends. Even if she said otherwise, she keeps you around because she sees the possibility that it might turn into something more. That’s how the female brain works. With that in mind, why did she say you can only be friends and have no chemistry? Because she’s being manipulative. Do you want to be with someone who is manipulative?

>>33629296
We are honest to each other, but her way of thinking is definitely something else. Our dynamic between us barely changed after my confession. This is also confusing.
She likes straight talk but is surprised when I do.
Then again the movie should be a low pressure event hopefully.

>>33629274
>know she tried some long distance date, but probably didn't succeed. She is open to talk in a group about her life if it is going well, but she did not tell anything about
She is having girltalk with you.
She has gayzoned you for sure.
Let me guess, she tells you about her periods

It seems like she wants to go to the movie as friends since you both enjoy them. If she misinterprets it, just say that there’s no pressure and you were just asking platonically. The people saying she thinks you’re gay are just really insecure. She doesn’t. Her saying she just wants to be friends may not even have anything to do with you. She may be going through something personal or not looking to date. I would just go into expecting strictly friendship. If that doesn’t work for you then there’s nothing wrong with taking a step back either.

I'd just move on dude. You're gonna waste years of your life pining for this girl, clinging to every sign she gives, and falling harder and harder for her. Meanwhile she's just keeping you around cuz she like the attention. She knows how you feel, and isn't into you. Don't even think about her.

T. Fell for a coworker chick, and wasted months of my life down bad for her

Tell her that you would like an introduction to one of her single friends. Your time spent as a companion deserves compensation!

>>33629082 (OP)
>Coworker Girl
stop right there autismo. You don't shit where you eat. You go to work, get your money, dip. You don't date coworkers dumbass. Even niggers know this.
>there is no chemistry between us but she likes me as a close friend
you have been deemed unworthy to rearrange her guts. Such position had already fulfilled. For her holes to be filled. But not by you. You get it yet pussy?
>as we know each other for more than a year
these pussies wait a whole year to try and crack. UNREAL LEL. They wonder why she says no.
>Does she want my company?
NO. She would tell you autismo. Just because you have feelings for a girl doesn't mean she is obliged to feel the same way to you back.
>Should I ask her out?
Women will tell you if they want to be asked out. They get to decide to take things the intimate path. Not you. Asking her out doesn't mean she will automatically be attracted to you. Understand this before you get "Me Too" and get fired because she told HR.
>Is this a hint for me?
your hint should be to learn to move quickly with women. The first two weeks you should have let her known you found her attractive. Even Tyrone goes up to a random girl and tells them he finds them attractive and wants to bed them. You? You wait a whole ass year. Real shit crazy work. Real definition of creep.

>>33631062
>stop right there autismo. You don't shit where you eat. You go to work, get your money, dip. You don't date coworkers dumbass. Even niggers know this.

I fucked a coworker once, we would fool around everyday during lunch for a few weeks until she moved onto another coworker. At my job my supervisor met his current wife at work, it happens sometimes but most of the time they're just sluts looking for dick and not to take seriously but yeah since metoo I'd def not do that current year.

>>33631085
>since metoo I'd def not do that current year.
you have me twisted if you think I'd put casual flings with a coworker over my money. You all have to learn

>>33631094
>you have me twisted if you think I'd put casual flings with a coworker over my money. You all have to learn

This happened to me in like 2001 lol things were different back then.

>>33629082 (OP)
>Does she want my company?

Who gives a fuck. She doesn't want to bone, so it is time to cut your losses and move on.
Don 't be one of these sad orbiters who do this to themselves. Any "friendship" between you and her is based on you actually wanting to have sex with her, worse even you seem to be enamored, as shown by the fact tah you are still thinking about "hints".
Being in the "friend zone" is different from an actual friendship, as one party being romatically interested throws any balance out of whack.
Spend your time with women who reciprocrate your advances, do not waste your time here. Examine your own motivations, if wanting to get with her is among them in even the slightes way, cut and run.

>>33629198
>Stay in the friend zone. It's all good.
Friendship isn't a consolation prize after getting rejected. Which is why being an orbiter is the opposite of "all good".

>>33629082 (OP)
Stop lurking here tell them to go to the fucking movies.

If you enjoy her company, be friends with her, and maybe you'll get lucky with one of her movie watching friends. What's the matter with being friends with some girl if you know it's never going to go further anyway? She can be a valuable resource to assist in finding a gf, and asking questions that pertain to the female mind.

>>33629082 (OP)
Make her ask you out or let her rot by herself and find a girl who actually wants you.

Wha is this "make the girl ask you out" thing? Why would she directly do that?
She makes hints and you recognize it and act.
What is wrong in OP's question? There was a double hint. Is this not enough for at least ask her is she's really interested?

>>33632078
You clearly have no friends of either sex and don't have a girlfriend. Just keep your mouth shut. You're an incel who jerks off and doesn't leave the house. I can tell this just by the few words I read of your absolute bullshit. Thank goodness faggots like you dwell in your mom's basements and don't actually get outside much to fuck up the rest of the world and those in it.