Thread 33630145

My girlfriend appears to have some sort of anger issues. I tend to be the most gentle person around others, and I usually am prone to walking on eggshells, so maybe I've exasperated the problem, but she seems to be quite to anger and negativity.

The most ready example is she will rage at video games in a very harsh manner. I know many are probably thinking that's cute or charming when a girl does it but.. it's not. But more importantly, it manifests in other ways too, like a very cold anger toward me at seems to come out of nowhere.

Everything else in our relationship is mostly fine. We get along, she's my soulmate, but her mood swings are scary and make me feel like I need to be walking on eggshells or apologizing all the time. What do I do? I don't want to call her out about it and make her feel bad. Her self esteem is already low and I dont want to take her down a notch by pointing it out. I DO want it to get better though. She's in her later 20's so I worry it might not get better.

>>33630145 (OP)
It won't get better unless she works on it, but it also won't get better unless you tell her it's a problem. I suggest emphasizing how much you love you the whole time and use "I feel..." and "when you get angry, I feel..." statements and all that gay shit a therapist would tell you

moids whining about women being aggressive, especially playing fucking video games, will never not be the funniest thing. HONK HOOOOONK

she’s probs autistic and doesn’t realize she’s being too rough… man up n match her energy chud

>>33632350
Give real advice. Because when I broach the subject she shuts down and falls apart about it, saying she doesn't want to be like her family, etc.

You and the crystalwhatever cunt above think it's like a spunky gal yelling at a videogame being like "AW WTF WAS THAT SPAWNCAMPING FAGGOT PIECE OF SHIT ARRGH" raging at a videogame when really its not like that at all. It's just an example at any rate.

She IS autistic but like, has moodswings, and her anger isn't the kind you can man up to and have a rapport with. It's more like the brooding, sudden spiteful silence anger that turns into depression and potentially talk about selfharm. They come out of fucking NOWHERE. Seemingly. Videogames are just where I see a kind of emotional underdevelopment manifest so I mention it.

Females think they're allowed to act like fucking rotten assholes. I guarantee that if a man was acting like that around you, you wouldn't just feel repulsed, you'd feel downright worried and scared you might get backhanded.