Thread 33630962

I really hate this feeling. That all my relationships end because "I'm not good enough" and to attract a potential mate and make her stay, I have to keep working on myself.

Why do I just feel so undeserving of love? I'm like 31 dude.

>>33630962 (OP)
What specifically have these women told you to work on?

>>33630962 (OP)
idk man.
Your guess is as good as mine
I'm 29 and got no gf. Had a 5 year long relationship IRL. ended because she cheated.
i have no idea how to get a new one.
I have no idea how to keep a new one because I can't even get one.
dating apps don't work
fuck me

>>33630962 (OP)
>to attract a potential mate and make her stay
maybe don't look at it from the perspective of an alien slug talking about attracting your mating partner where you initiate the mating ritual lol wtf

Most improoooovers fall for the meme of only focusing on money and getting jaw surgery or whatever while ignoring their social skills/social life which is the most important thing to improve when it comes to women.

>>33631416
>their social skills/social life which is the most important thing to improve when it comes to women.
Honestly this. Being able to hold a normal conversation, finding the confidence to let parts of your true personality and interests slip while finding the balance to not become a total sperg, developing a sense of humor that you can articulate and share with others, these are all things a self-improver must learn if they ever hope to succeed.

love aint real and you know damn well your relationships arent ENDING because of ur loooks

>>33630962 (OP)
GIRLS DONT LIKE BOYS GIRLS LIKE CARS AND MONAAAYYY
BOYS WILL LAUGH AT GIRLS WHEN THEYRE NOT FUNAAAAAYYYY

>>33630962 (OP)

it's nothing you doing or not doing but the fact that you have the 'tism it dawned on me that I'd have girls either break up with me after a few months and end up with some loser who smokes week and plays video games all day, this also applies to having your shit together, a woman wants someone she can fix or manipulate into being her puppy dog

>>33631416
>Most improoooovers fall for the meme of only focusing on money and getting jaw surgery or whatever while ignoring their social skills/social life which is the most important thing to improve when it comes to women.

yup, I just posted a public service announcement here about that


>>33632592

Is it even worth trying if you're a bottom of the barrel male?

>>33630962 (OP)
Life is hard, you're just bad at it.

>>33633438
Yes. Almost anything can be overcome, if you only want it enough. Of course if you've got stage 5 cancer and no arms and legs you're fucked. If you're reasonably healthy then it's 99% a question of effort.

>>33633471
Even for a 5'5 mentally ill retarded ugly 34 year old virgin like myself?

>>33633706
Yup, even you. All it takes is your commitment to accepting that you will be punched in your face by life every single day and still get up the next day and try again.

>>33633742
I'm at a point and age where I don't want to get up anymore. I'm completely burnt out and have no hope. Every year that goes by it just becomes more hopeless. I'm at the bottom of a hole that I'll never be able to climb out of

>>33633784
Well, I was just pointing out it's possible, not that I have a magic potion to give you instant motivation to do it.
Just look at who you're gonna be in 5 years and realize it's going to be your fault you're at that point still that much of a fucking loser.

It's a choice.

>>33633798
Honestly I think people like me are so subhuman and inferior that we should kill ourselves to better humanity. Why am I still alive? I have no idea. I can't help myself and getting professional help for years has done nothing. Mental illness is hell