Is it wrong to go to the gym to attract women? How can I go to the gym for myself despite low self esteem of not getting laid? I read online that it is wrong to want to go to the gym for external validation including to attract women, but I really don't give a shit about myself, and I want to finally get vagina at 28. I also read that they like confidence, but I will never like myself because of years of bullying and mental disorders, so I guess I'm fucked right?