>>33640451
>chasing the future mother of your children
No wonder people end up making terrible decisions with taht mindset lmao.
You just fuck around with different people until someone simply sticks due to being such a good match all around. Thats the "mother of your children". Provided that lifestyle is interesting to you.
Life isn't a shopping list, you have to let it happen. Trying to force any of this shit or even treating your life age like some kind of countdown clock like you are suggesting only leads to suffering.