Thread 33644337

Being a butterface girl is really hard in society. I swear, it feels like people hate us more than the fat women. If you happen to be fat and pretty, i just know they're ranked above hot butterfaces.

I've gotten bullied so bad in high school by both girls and boys, they enjoyed using my facial unattractiveness as a joke punchline.
Why is looksism so important in society?

Pretty girls are portrayed as victims of bullying, but in my experience, it's been the other way around.
Guys talked shit about me out loud so i could hear it behind my desk, so they could impress the pretty girls. What have i done to deserve this? It's so unfair.

Im planning on getting surgery next year so my life won't be a living hell anymore.
After it happens, would it be wise to move to another city so my life could start over fresh? Change my name? Im definitely deleting the old pictures of myself so i won't have to see my ugly mug ever again.

Despite having an ugly face, Im not a femcel by definition. I've created a profile on hinge and bumble to see if anyone would reach out, and i've gotten a lot of guys interested, however, id rather wait until i look better facially. I know they'd just use me for sex and probably not commit in a relationship.

I was thinking to myself, ugly people that choose to have kids is one thing, but to be broke and unattractive makes you a POS.
I blame my parents because they could've had sense of self discernment to know better.

Why do ugly people procreate?
When i become pretty, it's just to attract a hot boyfriend, im not stupid enough to reproduce.
I just don't want to die alone, i won't ever have kids cause they'll have my original face.

>>33644337 (OP)
Maam, this is /adv/, you do not need to went here.
With that said, there's probably been hundreds of people interested in you, you are just selfish to either reject them since you want better than what's being offered, or you do not notice them at all.
You said that you even created a dating app and many men reached out?
It's not looks, it's your horrible personality, even when you get what you want, you still think you deserve better, you deserve hellfire is what it is.

>>33644337 (OP)
women experiencing 0.00001% of the pain incels feel on a daily basis

>>33644362
When did i say that i've gone out of my way to engage with these guys? All i did was set up a profile to show off how i look to see if and how many people would show interest, which were plenty of guys around my age, and some older.

They don't know anything about my personality for you to say that.

>>33644337 (OP)
They are showing you that they are not worth your efforts, they are showing you who you should direct your efforts on, the people who can look past appearances.

>>33644362
It's not that i feel better than them, but i wanted to see how i would fair in the dating world. I don't have an issue finding a date. But id rather wait until i got my surgery done, so i won't have to wear so much makeup or feel too insecure to date. At this point, i don't feel comfortable or confident to even bother with a relationship. It just feels nice to know that guys do like me.

>>33644337 (OP)
>butterface girl
need prove

>>33644397
You still don't get it?
You will NEVER be happy until you humble yourself and see yourself as the source of everything bad.
>I blame my parents because they could've had sense of self discernment to know better.
You do know that there are people with genetic disorers which could never even dream of the life you have, you appreciate nothing and blame everyone else for problems.
> But id rather wait until i got my surgery done, so i won't have to wear so much makeup or feel too insecure to date.
You will never be satisfied if you cannot accept yourself, there is always a bigger fish - likewise there's always gonna be someone prettier, why should anyone else care for you if you reject yourself?
It is your personality, and i'm telling you this with upmost sincerity, i have never seen you but the mentality you express would make that irrelevant, even if you are the most beautiful person in the world.
Even the biggest degenerates justify their sad life by blaimg their own incompetence, you have competence, and you spit on it since you want more, so you are worse than them.

>>33644397
>butterface girl
>It just feels nice to know that guys do like me.
What advice do you want?

>>33644418
>You do know that there are people with genetic disorers which could never even dream of the life you have, you appreciate nothing and blame everyone else for problems.

I didn't think of that until reading your post, but it's true, some people have it worse dealing with cerebral palsy, epilepsy, severe physical / mental health disorders etc that naturally eliminates them from the dating pool for some people.
Im privileged in that sense of it, i can acknowledge. Sometimes y
ou forget how bad some people really have it. There's also the possibility of one losing their "beauty" through situations like horrible car accidents, not only can it ruin your face and body but some people are confined to wheelchairs for their the rest of their life.
It's so sad.

>>33644337 (OP)
nearly everyone experiences judgment for their looks, you are acting as if you have it bad when a lot of fat women and average or worse looking men don't receive any positive notice based on their looks. Even then some of those don't even get possitive comments about their looks even from their parents or elders.

>>33644337 (OP)
>I'm too ugly to be loved
>Also lots of guys match with me on dating apps and show interest
Bitch you've got a butterbrain. Why are women like this?

>>33644483
I've heard a person online say that some people like to antagonize fat women out on the street by driving past them in cars and yelling "pig" or "fat bitch". I've never been overweight, but if this truly happens , it sounds horrific and crazy to even think that one would go that far to ridicule and harass someone they don't even know.
I have no idea if this is a common experience for big women though. If it is, that's horrible.

Also, i thought that average looking people get by life pretty easy. Also had no idea that some don't get positive attention.

>>33644337 (OP)
moid hands

>>33644525
The only one's with possitive attention are the people in the upper level of attractiveness. Not sure about the people driving by with the fat comments, when I have my fatter friends around though in public it is just people around in public spaces and sometimes wait staff that does that. I'm slightly overweight and get comments still at 180lb, as a man, that I am way out of shape and I get that in the gym and jogging around town mostly.

>>33644549
They're making fun of you for working out in the gym because you're overweight? Wild.

>>33644574
It happens but it has been a lot less frequent when I lost 40lb to my current weight. It would usually be comments on my chest jiggling.

>>33644337 (OP)
>Being a butterface girl is really hard in society
>I've created a profile on hinge and bumble to see if anyone would reach out, and i've gotten a lot of guys interested
Women will really look you in the eyes and say this without blinking and then tell you hypergamy isn't real