Thread 33645714

There’s nothing wrong with age gaps and most 18-20 something year olds are ravenous for slightly older men (I’m 31 and beat them off with a stick at times).

Do not let the hag roasties and weak zoomer men looking to shrink the dating pool on this board psyop you into thinking a certain way.

Infantilizing adult humans who have agency and a mind says more about these roasties and seething men more than anything.

I’m BOOMping

Here's some actual advice: age gaps are fucking bad and modern day people of all ages think it's fucking weird and will judge you for it. Just because someone is (insert arbitrary age here) doesn't mean they are automatically smart and mature. If you went outside and talked to anyone majorly older or younger than you then you'll see the giant ass difference. Even if they are "mature for their age." They really aren't and you are going to pick up on it the more and more you talk to them.

>>33646837
ACTUAL ADVICE:
It’s actually the exact opposite where only people online complain and denegrate it as a loud vocal minority but people irl are enjoying themselves by swiping college girls on Tinder. Do NOT listen to faggots like this one. I have like 3 college women on Snapchat rn alone, let alone my Tinder and Hinge

>>33646837
This is the advice if you're looking to have a fulfilling relationship with another human
>>33646870
This is the advice if you are just trying to get your dick wet.

If you care at all about yourself or social welfare, you should be aiming for someone of similar maturity that is in similar circles. Some 30 year old wage cuck trying to hook up with 18-20 year old girls at a college party is really weird, if not predatory, but 50 year old dating a 35 year old they met from work is generally fine. Some normal guy trying to get in the pants of a mentally handicapped woman is also really fucking weird even if the women is older than him. Relationships with large gaps in experience or capacity are almost destined to be dysfunctional, toxic, or exploitative.

>>33647630
You sound like a massive pussy desu. Plenty of great relationships have age gaps in them. Notice you have to make up a scenario of a “wage cuck” to strawman you redddit point. Pathetic!

>>33647649
>You sound like a massive pussy desu.
Every accusation is a confession.

Clearly you struggle with reading because I was pretty clear that relative gaps in maturity/experience are the problem, not age gaps. If you disagree with that, fine, I guess, but I'm obligated to call you a delusional retard.

>>33645714 (OP)
>There’s nothing wrong with age gaps and most 18-20 something year olds are ravenous for slightly older men (I’m 31 and beat them off with a stick at times).
Really? I'm turning 35 this year and about to start a new job on a college campus (as an IT guy but still). If I manage to get my ass relatively fit, is there really a chance that cute college girls might look my way? I just want to be desired for once.

>>33647630
Your advice works for most people but not me. I love throwing money at women and taking care of them. They can be immature and needy, that will make them only more attractive.

>>33647861
So by your logic you accusation of maturity gaps being bad is because you’re predatory yourself? What kind of man can’t adapt and get along with a 19 year old? Why infantilize adults?

>>33647630
>fulfilling relationship

Is this just a buzzword by tradlarpers now? There’s nothing wrong with wanting to get your dick wet, that’s how many good relationships or lifelong friendships start.

>>33648254
Forget dating, feels like anon is saying you can’t be bros with someone younger either.

>>33648291
He’s a weirdo. What if you have a younger sibling? Are you supposed to not be close with them because you’re older?

>>33648291
>>33648319
You guys are clearly not from anglo country. People here stick to their own age group in friendships and dating.

>>33648341
aus here, people have pretty varied friend groups in terms of age
I think this freak out over age gaps is almost exclusively a burger thing

>>33648341
I’m from America retard, no one here ACTUALLY cares. I’ve had a 19 year old that said she was willing to drive a state away to fuck. These notions are only in your eurofag mind.

>>33648351
>>33648367
You're weirdos, I was talking about normal people not you.

>>33648376
I think you might be the weirdo here m8

>>33648254
I said it could be predatory, not that it IS predatory. And generally, there is weird shit going on when a 30 year old is trying bang college girls. It's more or less the equivalent of being a passport bro who goes after foreign women from poor countries because they are too undesirable to attract the average woman of their peer group.
I would also distinguish between hook-ups and relationships. Hooking up with people much less mature than you is still weird and ripe for malpractice, but there are lot less implications to it than actively trying to date someone.

>>Why infantilize adults?
You just have to be naive to not understand the difference mentally between a 19 year old college student, a 38 year old working in retail, and a retired 65 year old. They are at completely different stages of life and experience.

>>33648291
>>There’s nothing wrong with wanting to get your dick wet, that’s how many lifelong friendships start.
Self report, I guess.

We live in liberal democracy, so anyone is free to a be a fuckboi or jerk off to cartoons all day if they want. I don't really care. All I'm saying is that that kind of behavior is self-serving as opposed to anything socially or spiritually (not in the religious sense) productive.

>>feels like anon is saying you can’t be bros with someone younger either.
I didn't say that you can't be friends with someone younger, in the same way that I didn't say you can't fuck 18 year olds. What I did say is that it's weird and could be a red flag for something worse going on. You could be 40 and meet some 18 year old guy in a CS lobby or something and make friends with him, and that's totally fine. But that's a lot different than befriending that same kid IRL where you had to go out your way to a college or high school to meet him. And it's a WHOLE lot different than trying to live with him and fuck him.

>>33648675
Are you honestly fucking stupid? I know you have eurefag brainrot but do you honestly think swiping on Hinge with age ranges and matching isn’t mutually what both people want? How is that predatory? How is it immoral? An 18 year old has full knowledge of what they’re doing, the “stages of life” shit is a cope. You probably don’t have access to these women so you seethe and call it weird and give out redddit talking points and strawman arguments. There’s literally nothing you can do about people matching with eachother on dating sites, or meeting in real life even. You’re also projecting a LOT, maybe you don’t trust yourself to not be predatory and a sperg so you think all men into younger women are. Newsflash: most men want beautiful young fertile women who haven’t been blown out, and your eurofaggotry extreme tier moralfagging is powerless against it. Tell a 19 year old woman she can’t fuck an older man as a man and she’d call YOU the freak and probably laugh at you honestly

>>33648857
Not really interested in looping with you, so feel free use this as an excuse to do an 60 IQ grandstand about how you were right because I didn't waste my time clarifying my position and responding to every retarded thing you said. (which is a lot)

All I really want to say is that you sound like your mind and body are made out of Play-Doh
and that you should be sure to STAY MAD.

>>33648675
>And generally, there is weird shit going on when a 30 year old is trying bang college girls.

The average college student is in their 20s so no, it really isn't.

>It's more or less the equivalent of being a passport bro who goes after foreign women from poor countries because they are too undesirable to attract the average woman of their peer group.

No it's not and I wish fags like you would stop trying to pretend why the reason that some guys date/have sex with younger women is because they can't handle older women as opposed to older women being generally unattractive because most of them let themselves go (for every Lyna Perez, there's 99 Lizzos) and often being extremely obnoxious and combative.

>All I'm saying is that that kind of behavior is self-serving as opposed to anything socially or spiritually (not in the religious sense) productive.

I guess Wernher Von Braun being a famous lover of women meant that he couldn't also be one of the most significant scientific figures of the 20th century.

>>33648675
You can say anything you want but it's pointless. Men who want and most important CAN date younger women will not listen to you. You need balls and tough skin for age gap relationships, so your arguments mean nothing. You're dumb if you think some shaming and calling to be a "productive" member of society is going to stop them.

>>33645714 (OP)
Women can't consent anyway.
To consent means guessing the consequences of following an emotion, and then deciding to either follow or not follow the emotion.
Women are not capable of calculating cause and effect when their emotions are involved, and they aren't capable of saying no to an emotion.
Just have sex. If the cops leave you alone it's good.

>>33649016
I accept your concession
>>33649243
Why would they have to stop?

>>33649337
>Why would they have to stop?
Dating younger girls can cost you friends, network opportunities and family. From both sides.
Your friends will leave you, colleagues won't recommend you as a good reliable person. Everybody will think you're probably a sociopath and she's a gold digger or poor victim with mental health issues.

>>33649384
Who cares? Other men will at least be cheering you on

>>33649407
Not everyone is a bum without career, family and friends like you. Relationship with a huge age gap is a death sentence for your professional life.

>>33649384
>Dating younger girls can cost you friends, network opportunities and family. From both sides.
Your friends will leave you, colleagues won't recommend you as a good reliable person. Everybody will think you're probably a sociopath and she's a gold digger or poor victim with mental health issues.

Fucking where? Seriously where the fuck do you people live that others in your community are this level of petty sociopath?

>>33645714 (OP)
based

>>33649384
I live in a first world country and routinely date women who are significantly younger
nobody gives a fuck. although sometimes we get stared at by jealous older women but I've come to enjoy it

>>33649410
>Projecting
My career is way cooler than yours and I have a giant loving family with a few cool friends…and they wouldn’t care if I was hammering teen pussy either. Stupid eurofaggot virgin thinks his horrible life transcends onto other people!

>>33649410
What sort of hellish European nightmarescape do you live in where this happens? Because in America no one cares

>>33649410
>death sentence for your professional life
wtf are you on about
a young hot woman on your arm is a charisma boost in work related events

>>33649468
How is it possible to routinely do that? Most people seem to have small age gaps in the West.

>>33649515
>Download dating app
>Set lowest age to 18
>Set highest age to 25
>Swipe
It’s that simple, the women swiping you are expressly looking for it

>>33649515
good dating app profile and rich social life

>>33649515
just look younger than you are

>>33645714 (OP)
actual advice: sex outside of marriage is bad

>>33645714 (OP)
It is easier outside of the West. I am dating a woman from Turkey, she never cared

>>33649624
which is actually pretty easy as long as you have a (mostly) full head of hair. I'm in my early 30's and everyone thinks I'm in my mid to late 20's. I work out every day and eat a strict diet.

the only girls that are into guys more than a decade older than them are the ones with daddy issues geg

>Infantilizing adult humans who have agency
women are mentally children retard

>>33650710
It depends a lot on the country, in places like Berlin women are super biased against it. They are so left-wing they would consider this deceptive.

>>33650731
Complete nonsense, attractive men are attractive. Unattractive men better be rich or something. Age gap is just a way to get rid of men they don't want

How is this ASKING for advice? This is the /adv/ board, only ask for advice or fuck off nigger.

>>33646837
>>33647630
>>33648675
>>33649384
You're very upset that women in their early 20s find older men attractive. Are you a woman in her early to mid 30s? Not getting as many looks on the street as you once were and it's bothering more than you thought it would?

>>33650764
nta but why would a woman in her early to mid 30s post on le frog forum. How new are you?

>>33650771
nta but tbf if a woman in her 30s would post on any 4chan board it'd be /adv/

>>33650906
Yeah, that makes a lot of sense actually.

>>33650749
Oh shut it roastie