Thread 33651170

I'm 30. I started college again and I never felt this old. I can't connect with anyone because I'm too old and they don't want anything to do with me or they are too young for me and I can't have an equal relationship. Girls my age are complete whores and I can't connect with them and 18-20 year old girls are so icky about the age difference that makes me feel all awkward and like a pedo. I can't connect with dudes my age either and making friendships at this isn't the same and coming from broken 10+ years relationships seems like it can't compare. I feel like Frodo at the end of lord the rings. I want to be loved and have friends but I can't connect to anyone. They say that men don't really age but I really feel that my time has passed.

What can I do? I'm always weary because I don't have friendships, I have people to spend useless time and they will forget I exist the moment I escape their line of vision.

>>33651170 (OP)
Why do you care about the opinion of other people? Fuck a milf. Fuck an 18-year-old girl. Get drunk at a bar and sing chanties with the guys there. The world has much more to offer and you are in the golden age, that can fit into any social situation - not young, not old. The linitstions are only real as long as you believe in them.
Oh, and the last girl rejected you because of your spaghetti and not because of the age gap.

>>33651170 (OP)
You're just self conscious

Chill out brah

>>33651239
I'm muscular and a bit chubby. I could crush 95% of males of my college campus with my hands but it doesn't matter, I have the dad bud orc look and not the slimy one.

And I want a family, and I can't have sons with a whore.
>Rejected because macaroni
Its all about looks.
>>33651243
How can I get rejected because I'm self conscious if I don't even say a word? Whore just says a short phrase and puts her look away again.

>>33651170 (OP)
Relax, I’m an expert in hand to hand combat, recently I was involved in an exchange where I was forced to use my skills which resulted in two people going to the icu. They claimed they were trained like me and kept provoking it, I am going to court but I’m not worried, I was defending myself, the fact that they are 11 and 12 years old shouldn’t have any bearing on my case. Basically if not worried, you shouldn’t be either OP.

>>33651170 (OP)
30 is literally the best age, get fit and go get it

>>33651258
I'm not talking about that, what I mean is that I'm strong and I even have that reverse pear look on my chest a bit, but because I have a bit of a tummy and boobs, it doesn't matter. I can hide it a bit with shirts but it's not magic.
>>33651278
I literally see no way I can get an 18 year old without looking like a creep.

>>33651170 (OP)
It largely depends on how handsome you look. That's it.

Remember when anon posted a story where he was called a creep for trying to hook up with a girl at a party? He was 21. She was 20. She still called him a creep. But it was not due to "age difference". Because he was not handsome and/or had charisma.

That's all. Lose fat. Lose as much fat as possible. Face fat and body fat. Face fat is more important. Dont overthink it and just follow my advice. Also, hit the gym and/or boxing like crazy. It will give you new self-confidence. New looks will help a lot with confidence as well.

You are welcome. 30 is the best age. I am 31 and regularly match with 22-25 years old on Tinder. But I am not fat and regularly go swimming and to the gym. And I wear clothes that actually fit my body, no oversized baggy crap.

>>33651317
Hey retard, have you gained no life experience or what? Emotionally Manipulate those retarded toddlers we call 18-19 year old girls because they’re retarded toddlers who can easily be emotionally manipulated. Boom shackalacka

LOL.

We’re the same age, but when I was in college my autism made me feel that way too, so I didn’t really make the most of the experience.

Are Master’s students part of any orgs? If not, maybe check online platforms for events happening in your city where you could meet older people. Back when I lived in NYC, we had The Skint, which was super handy as it made recommendations based on hobbies.

>>33651170 (OP)
I'm 30 started college earlier this year. My shit social skills are carrying over and people aren't playful with me as they are with others. They do try to invite me but my brain is slow to follow up with a joke.

Stop caring about age difference and if it's such a big deal, just try to dress like a rockstar and get a wild looking haircut. People will like it and find it cool, it will boost you a bit but in the end it's your demeanor that will ruin things.

You have to get out of your headspace at all costs. Having friends, sharing stupid shit with them, anything that comes to mind helps with it. You probably have at least some interesting life experience to tell people so they will listen to you a bit.

Also there are many kind of girls, there's absolutelt rotten chicks that have been intentionally hooking up with 30+ guys since highschool. Sure they are distant bpd damaged whores but know they are out there, chicks into older guys are probably more sexual in nature, looking for aesthetics and vibe.

To me the killer is that I have no real reason to be in most places, people are busy in their degree, no common interest goes on when randos are waiting in the courtyard, so try to join clubs, specially at the beginning of semester to meet people open to know you.

>>33651170 (OP)
The fact that you've got a preferred age means that your mind isn't in the right place

>>33651691
So what? Do you think it's best to fake being a normalfag, trick an ugly woman into fucking you, be an ass at her because you don't really like it, hate your guts for conceding to a faceless society instead of giving a shot at your right to live the way you want?

If your mind is not in the right place that's carrying over from the fact other people were fucking with you. Let society live with its consequences, you will figure things out only if you try living by your own will.

>>33651170 (OP)
Stop being ugly and retardmaxx.

>>33651691
All the girls my age I've meet are broken whores.

No, I won't form a family with a tattooed girl that has fucked 30 guys and now wants to hang out with me because of pitty.

>>33655165
Sounds like you're just jealous that those women have already accomplished what you're trying to achieve yourself

>>33651691
No it means he's stable and wants to be with his actual peers, not pretend he understands or cares about what a bunch of teeny boopers do.

>>33655177
But I don't want to get tattoos and fuck 30 men