Thread 33672739

How do I filter out women who get "bored?"

Stop being boring

>>33672739 (OP)
They get bored and filter themselves

>>33672739 (OP)
find a girl who is very set in her ways, same lunch every day for 15 years kind of thing

>>33672787
>Stop being boring
Holy shit anon, how did you figure this out?
In other news, it's exactly the input that OP Needs.

>>33672932
Hmm, never thought of that. Will try it out, thanks.

>>33672739 (OP)
This>>33672813

For once I agree with a name fag (but still keep yourself safe)

Be glad that they filter themselves out quickly and move on, and if it gets too annoying delete the app all together

>>33672813
>>33673062
This too, thanks.

>>33672739 (OP)
Well Sir, how boring are you actually?
Like a 0 out of 10?

>>33672739 (OP)
They do it themselves, as was already said.

kek

>>33672739 (OP)
Cheat on her, women love being cheated on

>>33678498
>women love being cheated on
lol

>>33682105
It's true, they get jealous and want him even more

>>33682189
I know it's just so funny that it's the truth

>>33672739 (OP)
As someone who got broken up with when I was a teen/early 20s for being too boring, I can affirm that the girls were pretty much spot-on and I had it coming.

Girls are just more social by nature like >>33672932 pointed out you'd need a proper actual autistic girl to out-autism you to where you seem like the crazy wild unpredictable one.

>>33672739 (OP)
If this keeps happening to you it isnt the women, its you.
Might as well ask "how do I filter out all the women who cant have orgasms" like it ain't the women bro.

>>33682406
>you'd need a proper actual autistic girl to out-autism you to where you seem like the crazy wild unpredictable one
kek

>>33682425
>derp it's not them it's you herp derp
tired old meme get some new material bro

>>33682406
It's true. Otherwise if we are the only one changing we feel like we are constantly causing problems and rocking the boat and it leads to resentment. No woman wants to feel like a bitch all the time. You gotta shake shit up too so she feels like the feminine peacemaker

>>33682460
This sounds so retarded

>>33682406
>you'd need a proper actual autistic girl to out-autism you to where you seem like the crazy wild unpredictable one.
tfw you upset your tard gf because you got her a quarter pounder instead of a big mac for your friday night mcdonalds dinner

>>33682529
How upset are we talking?

>>33682458
Its not new material, its classic old wisdom. Sometimes youre the only common denominator.

>>33682837
>derp you must comply to the new standards of the dumb flock that lead nowhere herp derp

>>33682545
"uh-oh meltie" upset

>>33682853
KEK, over a hamburger? She needs correction

>>33672739 (OP)
The first anon got it right. They'll filter themselves out. Maintaining a healthy relationship is boring. Being healthy, in fact, is boring. Its all maintenance - tasks with little to no immediate gratification. In fact, being healthy can feel pretty bad in the immediate - going to the gym when you don't want to, having a conversation with your partner you don't want to, working when you don't want to, saving money when you don't want to etc., If someone is incapable of maintaining long term relationships it will become apparent very, very quickly.

>>33682884
Damn, this hit home too close... That fucking homework... It needs to be done in one way or another... FUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCFKUFUCKFUCKFUCKFUCK

>>33682853
She's retarded. Quarter Pounder is way better than a Shit Mac. But I hate mayo and sauces with mayo in them.

>>33672739 (OP)
just ask them about their hobbies

if it is fotm garbage then they are the low span attention cattle that you should avoid

>>33683011
Never had the quarter pounder but the big mac is so good

>>33682850
Yeah youre right. Women all get bored and everyone has the same problem as you.

>>33682850
>lots of people with decades of experience being alive who have all been through the same situations keep saying the exact same thing.
>thats gotta mean it isnt real...

>>33683407
Wait, this is not a modern probelm caused by social media? I'm pretty sure it wasn't that bad in pre-social media times.

>>33683098
Nowadays, perhaps yes. Dopamine-fried brains. Not just women, the men too. Fried by porn too

>>33683432
Im nearly 40.
Yes people used to get bored of relationships before social media. Stop this "it was never like this" shit.

All thats changed is if you get a dumb oversimplified defeatist world view, you can go online and find people to tell you how right you are and affirm your worst fears so you dont change anything.

>>33683444
Thats not how it works.
You dont know how dopamine works. People misunderstand and misattribute it constantly now. Is there a problem? Sure. Can you just fit it like a mismatched puzzle piece into your dumb ideas on how women work? No.

As i said above. People always got bored of relationships. That isnt new. And if it keeps happening to you, its because you have no real appeal in a relationship, or you keep poorly choosing women.

>>33683664
>>33683679
So you DO admit that it got a bit worse due to social media!
But yeah, you are correct.

>>33672739 (OP)
>How do I filter out women who get "bored?"
To what end? What's the goal here?
Is this specifically online or irl?
Do you mean bored with you or just bored in general?

The answer to your question as written is that women who make things fun and interesting are not bored. Pic related.

>>33682238
>>33682105
>>33678498
>women love being cheated on
No. No they do not.
Trust me on this one.

>>33682189
>they get jealous and want him even more
Perhaps. But just because someone responds positively to something, that doesn't mean that they love it.

Children respond positively to discipline but that doesn't mean that they love it.

Strive for accuracy in your posts, gentlemen!

>>33683730
Yeah, that part did. For sure. I detected the irony while typing as well.
But to be more useful here.

People get bored of relationships because that initial high is infatuation and its short lived and delusional. Once its over you see the person for who they actually are, and your dick/ovaries arent doing the thinking anymore. And sometimes one or both just don't like the other anymore.

This was always a thing. Gotta get past that initial fucking cocaine new relationship high before actually knowing if youre compatible.

>>33682884
Yep. Im going through now as we speak. I'm realizing every day that I'm not really cut out to deal with a person and their bullshit day in and out. I'm much more ok with only hitting a woman up and hearing her yap about life if im trying to fuck, other than that she's mostly just dead weight in terms of how I live. But yeah that anon is 100% correct. You don't need to weed out women who get bored, they'll weed themselves out by slowing complaining more and shit.

>>33683945
Amen to that. I seriously gotta stop dating women simply because im capable of fucking them cause 9/10 times most of the happiness cane from those first few months, once we became a solid "thing" is when the "oh fuck I might have made a mistake" kicks in.

>>33683945
The idea is to explore your compatibility and bond through shared experiences while you're in that honeymoon phase and then when it fades you'll have developed a deeper relationship.

But you're right. Many young people simply ride out the infatuation and dip when the warm fuzzies are gone.

Hell, my best friend dated a woman in her early forties and near as I can tell, the idea that a relationship is something that is worth working on isn't a concept she's ever considered because she dated a series of worthless guys before my friend.

>>33683730
>So you DO admit that it got a bit worse due to social media!
Not that anon but I disagree. The change is negligible. Social media didn't introduce the concept of emotional excitotoxicity. There was no sudden spike in people seeking unrewarding relationships because they're terrified of meaningful intimacy caused by Instagram. People have wider access to people and relationships, sure, but we're just talking about simplicity of use. For example, if getting heroine 30 years ago used to require me to drive across town but now I can just go to craigslist and have someone deliver it to me Craigslist hasn't worsened my heroine addiction. It just allowed me easier access to a thing I was already doing.

Also, the term "worse" is carrying a lot of water here. "Worse" how? Seeing as how people can't even agree on what is or isn't good relationship practice in 2025 it seems like saying "things have gotten worse" doesn't really communicate anything.

>>33683990
It's a bit of both.
Like I found in my dating career (thankfully at an end) sex too fast almost guaranteed no continuation. You've gotta lay some ground and build some bond before everyone gets what they're after.
Still. That initial exifements gonna come to an end and sometimes you look at rhe person and think, dang youre kind of annoying I dont know what I saw in you. Ive done it to women. Women have done it to me. Just part of it.

>>33684024
Well I AM that anon, and yeah. All my thoughts exactly. The amount of times gen z incels say "people didnt have *problem i definitely had dating 20 years ago* 20 years ago"

All of it is the same. Initial judgement was always very superficial. Women were always really finicky and impossible to please but sometimes you hit for no reason. Pretty people always had an easier time and ghe vast grand majority of us average people had to play a weird frustrating demoralizing numbers game we didnt start to win until we have up trying so goddamn hard.

>>33684024
Hmm yes, easier access is what mad eit "worse", but the thing that made it "bad" was always there already... Good point.
>>33684503
>Pretty people always had an easier time
As a "pretty person" myself I have to disagree. Everyone thinks I'm a casanova or that I have a girlfriend but I've never had an official gf in my life. For some reason I don't like most girls. I prefer the weird ones, the ones on the autism spectrum even. I can relate more to them than those finicky superficial oversocialized no-brained normie women. But I also like them pretty too.

>>33687679
I want to be a casanova

>>33690795
Why? It's too much of a fucking hassle.

Oh and I forgot to add, my lay count is only like 11 or something, and they all think it's in the 3 digits.