Thread 33683966

Is there a purpose to having sex beyond reproduction, or is it just a hedonic drug that men inexplicably work for?

>>33683966 (OP)
>why do people do a thing that feels pleasurable? it is truly inexplicable!

>>33683977
Heroin is pleasurable too. Some men ruin their lives over sex, much like heroin.
Plus - In addition to the courting process, sex is a performance for the man.
Imagine if every time you wanted a beer, you had to impress the clerk at the store before he would let you buy it. Then, when you receive the drink, you have to avoid enjoying it too much, or otherwise you would be refused that type of drink again.

>>33683966 (OP)
When I first had sex (I performed terribly) I felt something changing inside me, it's hard to explain whether it was being told that sex was immoral or feeling unworthy of it for whatever reason but after that life felt a lot lighter
I was a prouder person, I still slid back into my people pleasing old ways many times but having lots of sexual partners elevated my confidence when I was in my 20s. Now that I'm 30 I feel like society treats me as a different creature. Doesn't feel like I'll be allowed to feel that good again until I can amass some money

>>33683966 (OP)
The ideal is to have it with someone you love and respect to deepen a connection and form a pairbond with your partner. Unfortunately a lot of people treat it like a cheap fun button they can push endlessly with as many people as they like without consequences, ultimately causing them to become emotionally burnt out, especially if they were doing it while wanting a deeper connection but never setting the boundaries or holding the standards in order to find one. The "old way" of doing things where we reserved intimacy until marriage may be too restrictive, but it served a purpose and had a reason. Most people would do well to wait at least 6 months before sleeping with someone to ensure there's more there beyond physical pleasure, and that you actually respect the other person. Doing it without purpose and with people who you don't actually care about leaves you feeling empty, jaded and alone. I think most people won't even figure out the difference between fucking and making love in their lifetimes, and that's a real shame, they're not the same at all.

>>33683966 (OP)
I won't read chin-scratcher subhuman's "wondering" complaints.

>>33684181
Literally nobody gives a shit what you are and are not reading you have no authority or credibility. You are no one