Thread 33786560

I can't get past first dates. Like, I can meet a girl, schedule a date and WHATEVER HAPPENS I will never want to go on a 2nd date.

I have been on 50+ dates this year. Some did not work out, some ended with a kiss or make out session, some ended in sex. Including the girls I've had good chemistry with I never felt the need to reach out and schedule a 2nd date. And when they do, I just tell them I'm not interested. And move on to the next. I have weeks with dates lined up every day. To the point I'm not getting any sleep almost. Also my wallet is getting thinner and thinner, so I'm choosing low effort dates.

What's my problem? I may be addicted to the dopamine of fucking a new girl. Even if I meet a girl online and we sext and trade nudes, that's already enough for me, move on to the next, she's "conquered." Basically if I know a girl is into me, it's over.

50+ dates in a new year
>using wo jak
>burr I’m just like you guys broo
I’m so tired of you Chadcels appropriating our culture. Fuck right off and go back to instagram or whatever

>>33786571
This isn't r9k

>>33786574
This is a loser website
Fuck u

>>33786560 (OP)
>What's my problem?
Well, let's see if you can diagnose yourself, shall we?
>I may be addicted to the dopamine of fucking a new girl.
Definitely. Good, go on.
>Even if I meet a girl online and we sext and trade nudes, that's already enough for me, move on to the next, she's "conquered." Basically if I know a girl is into me, it's over.
There you go. That's your problem. You don't actually *want* a girlfriend at all, you just want a sense of victory. And that's exactly what you're getting. And if you don't want a girlfriend, why is it a problem that you don't have one? It's not. So there's no issue. You're *getting* exactly what you want.

>>33786560 (OP)
it's the chase
you're addicted to the chase

although it's strange you don't go on 2nd dates with the women who wouldn't fuck you on the first. that's the part I like the most.

there's no feeling like finally fucking a woman who tried to make you "wait" but eventually became too horny to control herself

>>33786629
I want a girlfriend but none of the girls I meet ever wow me enough to want to commit time and effort. Or maybe subconsciously I don’t want one.

>>33786647
>although it's strange you don't go on 2nd dates with the women who wouldn't fuck you on the first. that's the part I like the most.
Because I get her vibe on the first date. I can tell if they're not into me, or I can tell if they are into me and it's just a matter of time, which bores me anyway

I know there's a small percentage who may not have been into me at all but I can still conquer and fuck later but seems too much effort.

Op I don’t really have advice but what are your stats to be pulling in those numbers? I imagine you’re either tall or handsome?

I consider myself to do well but I’ve only had 11 dates this year

>>33786724
28 yo, 5"11, light brown hair, brown eyes, 7/10 face, I'm a boxer so I have a nice body. Don't look big in clothes but I show off the muscles whenever I can on dating apps or irl with tight shirts or tanktops
Decent sense of fashion too, can pull multiple styles off to charm either basic bitches or art hoes
Mostly holding a decent conversation and having charisma is key for the ones who aren't just immediately willing to put out

I live in a country where 5"8 is the average male height and everyone is poor thoughever, that also helps. Not living with my parents in my country already sets me apart from most men under 35.

after 50+ dates surely you have a preference. how do they look? what are the types of women you are going for? what's a quality you wish they had that they were missing?
if you just do 1 date + sex for 50+ times then you are doing nothing to stop yourself at all. i think you may need to sit down and meditate if truly do want a gf or if that is a thought someone else is putting in your head (family? friends? society?)