Thread 33795080

My girlfriend is a 23 year old model and she does lots of photoshoots that includes couple shoots and aesthetic couple roleplay etc. she recently did picrel with this black guy and I was fine with it at first.

Then I found out that she's spent the entire night over at his house, alone with him and that this photo wasn't a part of the modelling work. So this is just an actual photo taken, shown as a friendly amateur photo between them.

I want to brush it off and say they're just colleagues and it is normal and I shouldn't be sexist but all my friends are telling me that she's crossed a line and that they probably had sex.

I don't think that..I believe her fully with all my soul and would never think she'd cheat on me with someone else. She's the most angelic and trustworthy and deep girl I've ever known personally. But I'm ngl this image and the fact that it wasn't a part of the professional work kinda makes me feel a bit different. I still trust her but I'm just feeling a tiny bit conflicted.

I need your opinions. Please be brutally honest and don't sugarcoat the situation. I want to know if my friends are correct and whether she cheated on me or not. Thanks

>>33795080 (OP)
"Friendly picture" And I'm sure she spent the night at his house just playing scrabble.
Come on, you already know the answer. Go with your gut.

>>33795080 (OP)
She wouldn't like it if you did it. At most it can be defused if the black guy is gay. But spending the night is just ridiculous, especially if she didn't tell it herself. Confront her with it.

>>33795117
I'm kind of afraid of losing her? I don't want to come off as insecure and controlling as I know she's also a massive feminist and women's rights activist. She often made such remarks about men sexualizing women and how that is wrong and that how cheaters deserve to die alone. So in my mind she has this persona that is the opposite of what these events would suggest. So I'm conflicted and I'm seeking advice. I don't know which direction I should take a step towards.

>>33795140
She spent the night at his house and didn't tell you. Judge her by her actions, not her words. Talk is cheap.

>>33795144
I don't know anything about this guy. I don't know his personality nor do I know his intentions. He might've been just a friendly guy. I know my gut is telling me otherwise but it's literally a part of her profile that she's in a relationship currently. So he's probably aware of that and would respect that and keep things in a reasonable boundary. And I know my girlfriend wouldn't hang out with somebody who would be sexualizing her or trying to get her to commit infidelity.

>>33795140
Sure, but you can confront her without blaming her. You already have those thoughts, so now you are hiding it from her. Both need to be transparent.
>I feel conflicted about you spending the night with him, can we talk about it?
or some non aggressive approach. And if you don't, it won't just stop thinking about it. And it will happen again. And asking the black dude is probably even worse, as you ask him behind her back.

>>33795140
>afraid of losing her?
You're only a cuck if you allow it. If you stand your ground, and fight for what you believe, you are a man, even if your girlfriend is a cheating whore.
That's all I will say. Do what you must, it's better to regret your actions than to fry over the lack of action.

>>33795151
>>33795157
Do you think I should confront her this happened this Saturday? She's not even caring about it. I haven't told her a thing about it. She thinks it's natural

how old are the posters here? That pic is clearly AI Billie Eilish. Are you jerking off to cuck fantasies OP?

>>33795080 (OP)
Either you trust her or you don't - and only you can answer that

Wtf bro