Thread 33797545

Maybe the worst place to ask but its either this or reddit...I've got hobbies, i've got my "purpose", I touch grass, I regulary visit family, i work out. Admitedley I dont have a gf but corelation does not equal causation, women are just bad to be around right now. I've dont literally everything imaginable and I still find myself gooning for 2 hours to deprived shit...I need help.

>>33797545 (OP)
You know back in the day women had to be prescribed vibrators cause they wouldn't relieve themselves. It's natural as long as you don't take it too far. Seems like you're not relieving it with women. Jack off to your imagination I suppose and if that doesn't work distract yourself until u can.

>>33797545 (OP)
>women are just bad to be around right now

Seems like you're just avoiding it, instead wasting taht energy on porn. There is no possibele valid reason why women should be "bad to be around right now" unless you just joined a cloister and made your vow of cleibacy.

i was an addict pretty much since 9yrs old and im 25 now. i did some sexual things that that i shouldnt, spent a year in prison when i was 23 and now im a sex offender. i dont entirely blame porn because obviously i chose to do what i did and feel bad about it, but porn definitely lead me down the wrong path. the best thing i did to rehab myself was reading anti-porn literature, particularly "Your Brain on Porn." its really eye opening stuff. theres also a lot of pornfree subreddits that have some more info, stories, inspiration etc. most people would look at me like im insane if i said things like this to them irl but i dont care. porn has harmed me in ways that are irreparable, and it's not going to be a part of my life anymore. i encourage you to at least give some of those things a try, the worst that can happen is you walk away more informed of your beliefs and values.

>>33798774
Mind sharing what you did?

Do you have friends? If you aren't hanging out with people that's more time to yourself

>>33798957
sexted a 13yo

>>33797545 (OP)
Being an adult means having impulse control. Resist the urge to be pic related, or be seen as a disgusting faggot

>>33798995
Christ. How did/does it affect your life and how did you rebuild (if it all)?

>>33799015
i hate myself and i want to die. i used to want to have a wife and children, own a home, american dream etc etc but now thats obviously pretty unrealistic, not just because im a SO but that definitely makes it more difficult. just toughing it out right now hoping that i wont be so self deprecatong eventually and maybe feel good enough to not want to kill myself. i have a job and a loving family fortunately, but i cant really talk to them or anyone about what my real problems are. considering going to sex addicts anonymous meetings out of curiosity.

>>33797545 (OP)
No, you just quit. No amount of help is possible, you can just do it. Stop being an attention-sucking leech.

>>33799164
quit living or quit hating myself? i didnt come here to beg for attention im just answering anon's question.

>>33799067
Sexting a 13 yo is rly not that bad. Knowing they were 13 and doing it is the "bad" thing, but you didn't diddle them or anything so... Stop acting like you murdered innocents or something. Get over yourself

>>33797545 (OP)
Treat it like an educational thing, for when you actually do the deed yourself. You will eventually do it, rite? If you've learnt everything there is to learn and you're just gooning to hit the exact same boring goon then... You're running away from something and using it as an escape

>>33799639
you might feel different if it was your daughter who he was sexting. 13s so damn young man. like 16-17 yeah whatever would even be legal in my country but brah 13

>>33797545 (OP)
Just got done beating it to incest porn anon. Well, not real, but roleplay.
I just wish sex didn’t feel like such a chore. I’m not out of shape but it feels so boring to fuck, idk. Maybe I need women who do more in bed.

>>33797545 (OP)
The true pill is that you don't need to quit porn. Almost all women read porn, men have to jerk off sometimes. That doesn't mean porn is a good thing. It's a response to a bad situation. Fix your problems and you won't even think about porn. You might use it from time to time but it won't affect your life or thoughts. Fouce your energy on what matters.

>>33798986
No, I have none. I've made no shortage of effort both online and offline but no success. Prehaps because I'm autistic, prehaps because I live in small town, I'm not to sure but I have tried, about 5 years worth.
>>33798774
I did this too but it's had zero affect on my urges. I know it rewires me into a dopamine clicking rat but my survival instincts are too dull or something.
>>33799639
I'm not running away from it, ive been around women, I've had sex ect and woman are just really annoying. That's all I can say, their hot, but as people they are fucking unbearable.

>>33797545 (OP)
We can't even quit 4chan. And it's much less addictive.

>>33799757
yeah, i know im a fucked up piece of shit. however, ive been making active efforts to improve myself for last two years or so. i take solace in the fact that great men are seldom good men, so maybe i can make up for all the things ive done by contributing to society in some way. at the very least i can just settle for someone whos just as fucked up and horrible as i am. im not completely hopeless and i know i have at least a little worth.