Thread 33799063

I'm scared. I'm insecure and scared of becoming unwanted. I love him a lot and he says he loves me but I can't comprehend it. I still struggle to. I can't just keep having this same conversation with him and have him reassure me. I don't have BPD or anything like that and I truly want to marry this guy. I just hope I can get over my extreme fear and insecurity before it swallows me whole and ruins what we have. He makes me happy so why am I so critical of myself and hold myself to even higher standards now? I'm not comfortable just being me. I have to be the best for him, it's what he deserves

>can't just keep having this same conversation with him
If you like it then you shoulda put a ring on it

Leave him

>>33799087
He's planning on proposing to me soon... I don't want to leave him. It's also barely been a year into the relationship.

>>33799063 (OP)
Your insecurities surely have a source. Exploring the cause of these will help you let them go, and also sharing them with him so that he can understand you better, if not already. We could all stand to try and make a better effort to understand each other..