Thread 33806581

I am a 25 yo male. I have a job, I have some sort of a social circle, even people outside of my family have called me attractive.
And yet I have nevet felt a touch of a femoid. Why? What the fuck am I doing wrong?

>>3380658
>people outside of my family have called me attractive.
They were just being nice.
Serial killer pedo lookin style no offence. Grow out bangs to hide your 5head and get different glasses (rec rayban classic style for your face shape). Pluck your eyebrows to make the border neater and less autistic looking. Grow out a beard with minoxidil to hide the asymmetrical jaw. Ditch the robot black hoodies. For skincare something with arbutin like hada labo whitening toner can get rid of freckles. Honestly I would dye your hair eyebrows beard and lashes black to draw attention to your eyes.

>>33806623
>Serial killer pedo lookin style
Lmao

>>33806581 (OP)
>What the fuck am I doing wrong?
Lack of confidence, probably.

>>33806667
>confidence
That's a massive cope

Don’t post your picture on here. But the reason why you don’t have one isn’t confidence or anything like that it’s luck. You can raise your chances of getting one by of course working on yourself and your social skills and game, but it’s still luck. When you see a fat retard dating a 9/10 like I did even though he’s not rich you’ll get the idea.

Constantly putting yourself down by saying you never have one will make your cold streak even worse. My advice is go out of the country like I’m doing and fuck some whores just to blow off that negative energy

>>33806581 (OP)
Drop the glasses and lean out your jawline and take neurotypical pictures outside like you have a life and you'll be doing fine on tinder.

>>33806581 (OP)
You have to talk to them, you can't wait for women to come to you. Also, you need to hit the gym.

Dont post ur face here.
Also get some beard, get lenses for when u go outdoors and lose the butthurt autismal expression.

>>33806581 (OP)
Don't get a beard, do this >>33807082
Also, smile.

You look depressed and sociable

>>33807121
*unsociable

>>33806581 (OP)
have you tried asking women for dates?

>>33806581 (OP)
>I am a 25 yo male. I have a job
There will never not be an incel thread where the first thing non-physical thing they describe about themselves is their fuckin job as if that even matters.

>some sort of a social circle

and what some sort of a social circle might that look like?

>>33807194
>and what some sort of a social circle might that look like?
your mom

>>33806581 (OP)
Bro.

For some people it’s not meant to be. Sex and love is not something everyone gets.

>>33806697
>That's a massive cope
No, it's objective reality. Women are more attracted to confidence than they are to anything else. Just shy of my 24th birthday I was a full-blown khhv incel; I now have a body count of 40 and I just celebrated my thirteenth anniversary with a lovely Italian lady who makes me very happy. Literally the ONLY thing that changed between me being a full-on incel and me getting laid was me learning how to fake confidence convincingly. That's all it takes.

>>33807222
Maybe that’s not in his personality

>>33807194
>their fuckin job as if that even matters
Kek, I've gotten laid so many times as a jobless bum. Can honestly say it doesn't matter at all. The only thing that matters to women is having good energy and they can smell a fake from a mile away.

Haha don’t call them femoid. Just relax and get comfortable hanging around the opposite sex without trying to force touching.

>>33807230
>Maybe that’s not in his personality
Doesn't matter. He doesn't have to *be* confident, just mimic it convincingly.

>>33806581 (OP)
Have you ever shown genuine initiative throughout the entire process? Not just asking them out, although you probably haven't even done that, but during the date, on the way home, on the second date?

Women very rarely make the first move. It took me way too long to figure this out. You either make things happen or things won't happen.

>>33806581 (OP)
>call women femoids
>why don't femoids touch me?

>>33806581 (OP)
For a start, you're the type of person who seriously uses words like femoid. If you're the type of person who does that, then you exude creep energy. Leave this website, stop listening to incel/manosphere garbage, and then you'll have an infinitely better shot.

>>33806581 (OP)
Get some contact lenses.
Shave the pedo stubble.
You actually have a nice face and hair.
And work on your mental stuff, you seem unhappy with life. Women pick up on that a mile away.

>>33807947
>>33808113
Do you niggers realise, that I DON'T USE such type of language in real life? How the fuck cum dumpsters can sense my ""creep energy""/"""bad personality"""/whatever noncense you are talking?
Irl I'm able to speak without any problems with me female coworkers/groupmates in university.
>>33807194
>There will never not be an incel thread where the first thing non-physical thing they describe about themselves is their fuckin job as if that even matters.
Then why normgroids on Reddit always blame incels in being a jobless basement dwellers? Those faggots say that the bar is soooo fucking low, and yet I can't find a gf/ons/fwb, while being employed/without bad hygiene/having hobbies.

>>33808474
How often do you meet them? It doesn't matter if you can clear the bar if you never go anywhere near it.

>>33807194
>There will never not be an incel thread where the first thing non-physical thing they describe about themselves is their fuckin job as if that even matters.
Wrong. That is a rarity as very few incels have jobs.

>>33807082
The absolute state of normie advice. Meanwhile reality..

>>33806581 (OP)
It's likely social. Are you social circles all dudes? You also need to be spending time with women and going out on dates. If your female friends aren't hooking you up, you could mention to one that you're want to try dating somebody. Although they might get weirded out if they think you want to date them. That or get on a dating app as soul draining as that is.

>>33808474
Seeing how you're referring to women as "cum dumpsters" shows your inner attitude. You might mask it and not say anything like how you type on here in public, and maybe you're just typing it out to be edgy because it's 4chan, but if you truly deep down in your soul think of women as cum dumpsters. They will 100% sense your attitude in how you carry yourself. You have to be a damn good actor to hide your darkness for them not to sense it.

>>33808474
>How the fuck cum dumpsters can sense my ""creep energy""/"""bad personality"""/whatever noncense you are talking?
NTA, but they can sense it effortlessly, I'm afraid. You don't understand non-verbal communication because you're autistic, but women are very good at it.

>>33808819
>Are you social circles all dudes?
Yep. I have basically zero female friends.
>>33808574
Kinda rare, ngl. I have a very small amount of matches on the dating apps, so it's kinda hard for me to get a date...

>femoid
lmao

>>33808474
>Irl I'm able to speak without any problems with me female coworkers/groupmates in university.
Ok. So, what do you think, those women in your life think of you? Do they like talking to you? Do they share personal stories with you? Do they laugh at your jokes? Do they suggest you come have coffee, breakfast, lunch with them?

>>33808474
It's not that they can sense you use the language here, retard. It's that they can sense you're the type to use it to begin with.
You think you're hiding that you think of them as femoids and cumdumpsters from them, but trust me you're not.
>Then why normgroids on Reddit always blame incels in being a jobless basement dwellers?
Some incels have jobs and some don't. Neetcels and careercels both exist as valid subspecies of incel and we see them both here. But I'd argue more of the latter, it's amazing how many faggot OPs start their posts off with "I have a job, where's my gf?"
Also you seem well versed in what they say on reddit, maybe you should go back there.
>and yet I can't find a gf/ons/fwb, while being employed/without bad hygiene/having hobbies.
And what have you done to find a gf? Having hygiene and a job is not an acceptable answer here by the way.
And why should you have a ons or fwb at all? What makes you worthy of that? Just because you want it?

>>33808814
Look at the post you're replying to and actually read it retard.
That anon said take better pictures. You post a shot of another bad picture that didn't work. Were you actually setting out to prove his point or...?

>>33806581 (OP)
You are mid but also have an asymmetrical face, which brings you below mid, which is also a death sentence in front of women as they subconsciously reject you based on asymmetry.

>>33807222
Can you give an example? Was it how you carried yourself/pulled off outfits?

Sweet another girl advice thread where the only advice is "just be confident, take a shower, dont be an incel :^)"

>>33809336
>And what have you done to find a gf?
Creating a Tinder account is not enough? Asking out femodis irl is not enough? What answer do you want from me, you brain dead imbecile?
>And why should you have a ons or fwb at all? What makes you worthy of that? Just because you want it?
Ok, fine, nigger. I am not entitled to sex. I will just wallow in all that anger and hatred till I'll go completly insane, or commit suicide or go ER.
Are you satisfied, moron?

>>33806581 (OP)
F
You’re cute objectively but you look mentally ill, misogynistic and evil

>>33806623
>pluck eyebrows
Don’t follow any of this dude’s suggestions>>33806581 (OP)

>>33810027
>Creating a Tinder account is not enough?
Not really. It's something, but it's still one of the most passive, low-risk approaches possible.
>Asking out femodis irl is not enough?
Ok, so describe what happened? Where and when did you do it? Where did you ask her out to? How long did you know her for? What did the "femoid" say?
>I will just wallow in all that anger and hatred till I'll go completly insane, or commit suicide or go ER.
Lmao, what a weak-willed, melodramatic little bitch.

>>33810038
>Don’t follow any of this dude’s suggestions
Don't sabotage him, he needs to learn how to style himself and hide the psycho expression. I got immediate female warning bells seeing his pic.

>>33806581 (OP)
you want the real truth anon, film yourself talking about something, we are losing mannerisms, tone of voice, if you act socially awkward etc. But I'd reccomend ditching the glasses, and growing out your hair to medium length in the least.

>>33808814
you don't get it dude, dating apps are for whores because they are for hookups not longterm dating. They just dick farm the hottest guy to bounce on their cock, not for anything serious.

>>33810038
He has aspie face, aspies will act misogynistic and evil often if they are male, but aspies aren't like that when you dig deeper. Anyways the dahmer glasses don't help him.

>>33808474
the language you use is a direct expression of your values and morals and personality - there is no difference between "real life" and the internet.

The guy who chooses to be talking about cum dumpsters and femoids and all this tryhard incel shit is still the same guy who goes around buying groceries and working a job and living his daily life.
Even if you're not calling women femoid female foid roastie broken goods used cum dumpsters and the rest of the incel language to their face - you're still the same guy who uses that language on the internet, and those ideas bouncing around in your head don't stop when you walk away from the computer.

>>33808474
>Then why normgroids on Reddit always blame incels in being a jobless basement dwellers?
do they? I haven't been on the site in years, let alone whatever specific posts from whatever specific subreddit you're being mad at here.
Some incels are complete NEETs, of course. Probably just as many if not more aren't, they just happen to focus on school and grades and work and money and buying cars all the while ignoring women and/or being unable to form social connections with them.

Mostly because all they do is work/gym/sleep

>>33810999
shut up you fucking legbeard, go back to crystalcafe. I have a wife who loves me, and I still call women foids, most of these women are trash, not my girl, but the vast majority of you bitches are FERAL.

>>33811104
>and I still call women foids
what'd you call them before 2025? you been on 4chan all your life?

>>33811104
>most of these women
>the vast majority
fakecel, real ones hate 1000% of all women

>>33810999
And how does this manifest

>>33811283
>And how does this manifest
notably by your lack of gf and female friends, even male friends you said you only had a few and "some sort of social circle"

you look angry/annoyed all the time, you avoid social situations, you can't enjoy nice normal things, etc.

>>33806581 (OP)
You look hard to approach and you probably don't approach them. You have a good face but again you got a mean look. Also you call them femoids like lol.

>>33811283
You probably subscribe to the ressentiment morals of 4chan. This attitude of life is harsh, not worth living, unfair, etc. Women are the ultimate arbiters of life. If you're weak and follow the morals of the weak women will not select you in the same way life won't.

>>33809336
>It's not that they can sense you use the language here, retard. It's that they can sense you're the type to use it to begin with.
nta
but fucking how? i’m not autistic but i don’t go around “sensing” shit like this about people. i just take them as they present themselves, like a normal person. and that means i “sense” very little about people, because they don’t give me any info to work with

>>33806581 (OP)
>femoid
That you use words like this is a sign that your mind is infected with the ick.

>>33807370
It’s not something you can fake. People can tell when you’re faking it. I know this from experience.

>>33808474
yeah you got us. there is no way that anyone as self-aware as you might actually be putting out really creepy vibes without knowing it. you are, after all, very intelligent

good luck never being capable of introspection, that will get you far with women

>>33806581 (OP)
stopping calling women femoids and cum dumpsters is a good start

you mentioned having a job, is there any women that work with you? my parents meet each other while working, i think it works. you could approach them, ask them about their lives and stuff,

>>33806581 (OP)
Could be anything really, women can get the ick for thousands of small reasons. Maybe you don't smile enough and have a constant resting bitch face, you don't try to be funny / have a good vibe, not talking enough.

Btw, get contacts the glasses distrort your face.

>>33806581 (OP)
I am way uglier than you, and have gotten laid. It's your fault at this point man.

>>33806581 (OP)
>What the fuck am I doing wrong?
described what happened the last 3 times you actively tried to fuck a woman

>>33811949
>i’m not autistic
>i just take them as they present themselves, like a normal person
You sure about that? Most normal people can pick up on someone's attitude or bad vibes pretty quickly.
Well, maybe I should say *some* normal people, because I guess it's true that a lot of people out there are pretty oblivious.

>>33813465
>I don't feel anything towards you, I'm sorry, it has nothing to do with you and bla bla bla
>You are weird and schizoid
>ghosting
That's basically all.

>>33812517
>is there any women that work with you?
Basically, there are no women at my workplace. I was able to meet females only through the social cirle and dating apps.

>>33813694
>You are weird and schizoid
There you got it. How much more straightforward do you need it?

>>33813694
it's fine. rejection sucks but you're trying so you're on the right track.
are you exclusively going after conventionally attractive women?

>>33807222
I will agree insofar that confidence indeed is huge.
At the same time, most guys here won't even figure out how to fake it.
And it's hard to explain.

just take better pics and start with tinder also are you a American?

how do guys like him get chicks like her? he looks worse than OP and he's not even a famous musician

>>33808825
>They will 100% sense your attitude
Yeah like how they sense every scumbag and think they can fix him

Women are notorious for being bad at noticing anything, and being attracted to worse

>>33813716
>are you exclusively going after conventionally attractive women?
I'm not that braindead, anon.
Like, I'm trying to hit on a cute girls, not the IG type
>>33813732
>are you a American?
Sadly, I'm not :c

>>33813765
>I'm trying to hit on a cute girl
I'd suggest lowering your standards as a way to get some practice & success. the
>nevet felt a touch of a femoid
thing is already a problem and will only get more serious with age(lack of preselection in the eye of potential mates, and mental blocks for you)

You're a healthy male, you'll be able to get it up when it matters, even if she's not that cute.

>older women
>single moms
>(reasonably) overweight
>mid black women
etc.
fuck a few of those. success will breed confidence. then go for cuter girls.

>>33808474
this next level spergout tells me everything i need to know about why you have never known the touch of a "femoid"

>>33808474
in more detail; you clearly have a superiority complex and think you are better than others, which seeps into your interactions whether you know it or not. your face looks like a serial killer or potential school shooter from the picture. and your personality as shown by your posts isn't much different. you look like you're one bad day away from writing a manifesto.

whatever "creep" energy is, you exude it, because you look and feel dangerous and unhinged, and trying to keep it under wraps work just give you patrick bateman in american psycho vibes.

all in all, your best option here is to either do hallucinogens to reset your brain fully or off yourself

>>33812023
No, people can tell when YOU are faking it.

>>33806623
Everything this poster says after "offence" is wrong & faggotted

>>33808474
Fix your nigger language.

"How the fuck cum dumpsters can sense...?"
should be
"How the fuck CAN cum dumpsters sense...?

also

"Then why normgroids on reddit always blame incels in (BITCH WHAT?) being..."
should be
"Then why DO normgroids (use any other word here, you stupid, likely trolfaggot) always blame incels FOR being"

You speak like a fucking Indian. Fix that, along with everything else about your valueless self. If English isn't your 1st language, don't "refine" it on the internet - web parlance is commonly derived from aolspeak/giving niggers phones.

Furthermore, you look like someone who calls themselves Scandinavian, but isn't blonde. Good luck fixing that.

>>33813755
I am now convinced that this is an AI test

nobody is this stereotypical

validation not required

>>33811949
hello, mr makebelieve

You said you aren't autistic, but you described Autism.

>>33806581 (OP)
I'm not sure how tall you are but if you're 6ft 1 or above its really easy to get a gf if you approach a bunch of girls everyday. If you can't approach a girl you will never get a woman, this is the reality.

>>33809346
This shithole just reeks off Reddit.
The real advice is in those reply somewhere. albeit. For me, I smile more (women compliment my smile a lot). It's just "vibes" like how the foids said.
And they aren't going to smell your energy you fucking retarded Reddit normgroids. Most bitches don't even understand what foids mean, and if they like your vibe or even love you, they just don't give a shit.

>>33814007
there's also a culture aspect to it guys from western countries have it easier when it comes to approaching women as its a normal thing in western culture than it is asian

>>33813612
>>33813939
i was tested a few times as a kid and they all came back negative

>>33813755
Your badboy chad scumbags are at least able to pretend to be normal for a minute to talk to women. Their charisma and social skills are actually through the roof.

You're unable to navigate to the social dynamics of posting anonymously on 4chan, nevermind trying to flirt with women.

>>33814007
Height is a cope. I'm about 6 feet tall, and yet I'm an incel, despite all my efforts...

>>33814204
You might not be "autistic" in a medical sense but you're still clueless, dense, naive...whatever terminology you want to put to it.

>>33806581 (OP)
Girls can smell your insecurity

>>33806581 (OP)
>Are there any reasons, why am I still an incel?
Number one is you refer to yourself as an incel. You need to eject everything you've learned from the internet, not because it's wrong, but because parasocial internet use has made you retarded, and you need to revert to an earlier version of your operating system that can function in meatspace. This is not up for debate, this is not wrong, if you can't do this then everything else is a nonstarter.

That being said why do YOU think you're still where you are? Are you a loser autist weirdo? Please be honest.

>>33814260
There's like seven checkboxes and each one makes you significantly more valuable. Height is just one box.

>>33814431
i want a detailed, point by point breakdown of the tells for insecurity

>>33814454
NTA but my experience the biggest tells anons on here give are.
>Avoidance of vulnerability
>omg I dont want to do X because it would mean I have face the fact im a fucking loser
>People pleasing
>im so nice and i never say no to people why dont they respect or like me?
>Jealousy or possessiveness
other people dont seem to have to try and they have everything and I have shit we live in a society!
>Attention seeking
>im so smart and correct why doesnt everyone like me for how smart and correct i am about shit nobody cares about
>Black and white thinking
>Comparison obsession
>Hypercritical inner voice

There's also
>Overly rigid posture or forced confidence
>Inconsistent eye contact
>Nervous habits
>Smirking or mocking expressions
>Need for control over image

There's more but these are the main ones I usually see in anons here.

>>33813748
Is that sophie? Need

>>33806581 (OP)
You lack agency. I don't know how. I don't know why. But you do.

>>33806581 (OP)
>I have a job
Congrats on achieving the absolute bare minimum expected of an adult. Did you want a medal?
>I have a social circle
Let me guess: D&D night and a discord server full of other guys who complain about "femoids."
>people outside of my family have called me attractive
Your aunt doesn't count, and the barista was just being polite because she's paid to.
>Why can't I feel the touch of a femoid?
Because you just called her a "femoid." You radiate this bitter, resentful energy. You think you're hiding it, but you're not. They can smell it on you like cheap cologne. You reek of desperation and contempt, and nothing on earth is less attractive than that.

>>33806581 (OP)

You’re a good-looking guy, but a few tweaks could make a big difference: consider changing your glasses style, avoid looking at the camera too menacingly, and maybe rethink the black clothing — right now it gives off some unsettling vibes.

I do like the Andy Dufresne haircut you’ve got going on.

Also, for safety, it’s probably best not to post your picture here — not everyone has good intentions.

That said, once you embrace your confidence and tweak your aesthetic choices, you’ll likely kill it on the apps.

>>33806581 (OP)
I really don't understand how in such threads about a guy not being able to find a girlfriend, no one suggests or discusses that you can fly to a country like the Philippines, Thailand or some other country in Africa and fuck for free.

>>33814475
You just summed up at least 70% of this board

>>33814956
OP doesn't strike me as someone who requires consent. I can't - in good conscience - suggest that he go to some poorer country & further ruin some child slave's life.

Also, get rid of the shooting range/dad glasses, OP. Your stare just screams, "This is happening one way or another, whether you like it or not"

>>33814956
Normal white men want normal white women you degenerate yellow monkey. Nobody wants your no name temu brand pussy.

>>33806581 (OP)
>I have a job
>Why am I not getting pussies?

There is your answer! You’re too busy to meet women. Take me for exemple. I’m a bum and I have all the time in the world to ask out as many women as possible until one of them say yes!

>>33806581 (OP)
>What the fuck am I doing wrong?
Caring about pussy, retard. You care too much and it comes off as cringe. Doesn't matter how good looking you are, or how rich you are... desperate niggas will never get any unless they pay for it.

>>33806581 (OP)
Don't call Women femoids for starters

>>33806581 (OP)
Get rid of the pedostache and toss the glasses.
You have a good rest of your face so you should be fine just doing that.

>>33806581 (OP)
because you look and talk like a fag. I bet your voice nasal as hell too

>>33814475
>other people dont seem to have to try and they have everything and I have shit we live in a society!
what about this is wrong

>>33816182
>Your stare just screams, "This is happening one way or another, whether you like it or not"
kek

>>33821315
>what about this is wrong
100% of it.

>>33821315
>what about this is wrong
Because being jealous of what other people have doesn't get you anything and makes you bitter and unattractive.

>>33821315
>I broke my leg in two places now it'll take eight months to heal
>That guy only broke his leg in one place and will only take four months
>I'd rather never heal my broken legs at all because it only takes four months for someone else to heal!!
>wtf why is life so hard with broken legs? how could this be happening to me?!