Thread 33816168

I don't think I will ever have a genuine relationship with a woman, and I want to be okay with that mentally/psychologically. Can you advise me on how to do that?

>>33816168 (OP)
Go read some buddhist texts.
But honestly, you are wasting your time. Do you think it's a sane idea to try to convince a tiger not to crave meat?
How are you going to convince a male animal, whose entire point of breathing and eating is to try to eventually reproduce with a female hopo sapiens, that it doesn't matter?
Come on. Just go to the zoo and try to feed tigers some salad instead.

Focus on yourself King. Take a leap of faith and indulge in hobbies you enjoy, healthy ones anyways.
Like what are the top 5 things you would like to learn how to do?

>>33816176
I am an alien in human skin, similar to alot of other 4chan users. Funny enough I have lots of body hair and muscle from lifiting weights. Technically, I should be ultra horny too since I'm only 25, but I honestly don't feel anything towards women anymore. I don't develop crushes or believe any of them would like me and want to have sex with me.

>>33816168 (OP)
just know u arent the only one brotato chip. we're gonna make it someday.

>>33816188
Yeah same. I hope when we die we get to go and see our home planet.

>>33816178
I want to become a successful trader, travel around the 50 states/various countries, help my parents retire, and honestly have a lot of sex. Since I am 25 and never had a gf, my life has been pretty devoid of it. People think I am strange for never having anyone. This is when I realized women are like human trophies. Everyone judges you for not having one.

>>33816193
Oh, I'm not white. I'm 5'6 and of Indian descent. If you're white and also incel, I can't really relate too well. I believe fundamentally, my issue is not being around women of my race. If you're white, you're probably surrounded by white women. Most women, but especially white women, tend to have in-group preference when mating.

>>33816199
>honestly have a lot of sex
oh ur just a fucking gooncel u dont even care about affection NVM KYS

>>33816207
Nah i have jungle fever

>>33816178
cope

>>33816208
Tbh that's also losing it's appeal as I age. It feels like I'm trying to male up for lost time. But there is no such thing. Some guys got to experience it, and I just happen to fall in to the group that didn't. It used to fill me with hate and anger. But even that's faded. I think I am just becoming numb to the world and the people in it.

>>33816211
Most colored women, if they do have an out-group preference for mating, go for white guys. So I don't think you need to be an incel unless you're deformed in the face or a literal midget.

>>33816199
Focus on helping your family out first and foremost. Build up your skill set in order to achieve that. Women come and go, but your family will be there to help you out long term.

>>33816214
>quoting Uncle Teddy to me
LOL

>>33816168 (OP)
True otsu worst character, better off having a relationship with my Boi I forgot his name, matahachi, that was a real character arc not some boring femoid insert

>>33816168 (OP)
genuine relationship? wdym? as opposed to a hookup?

>>33816168 (OP)

SSRIs, seriously they numb your dick and take away any horny if you're on the right ones. All that's left is cold, emotionless blank slate to do what you will.

As a tool, they're great for what you want to accomplish. I wouldn't recommend staying on them longer than you have to, especially if you do plan to have a relationship one day.

Use them to recalibrate your mindset and then get off them. Maybe a year to start.

>>33816168 (OP)
> Matthew 11:28-30:
> Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
> Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
> For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
man up
you're going to learn about yourself first
you're going to find happiness inside instead of outside with material
you're going to be happy
you're going to love yourself
THEN AND ONLY THEN CAN YOU PRETEND YOU CAN POSSIBLY LOVE SOMEONE ELSE

>>33816168 (OP)
I don’t find the need to pursue relationships myself. If I met a girl that was interested, I would definitely pursue it. But I’m not obsessed with dating or marriage.

In my case, having a career that is my passion and masturbation combine to keep me happy enough to not think of getting a girlfriend. Try having some other purpose or passion in life that you can get into.

>>33816168 (OP)
Loser
All you have to do is either manifest it.
If you even really want one.

>>33822705
You said either manifest it.....or what?

>>33822705
wtf is manifest?

I haven't been successful but what I am doing is asking myself why for every one of my emotions, thoughts, actions, etc.
So, if you feel bad for not having a gf, ask yourself why. Then, ask yourself why again but this time about the answer. Repeat this for ever basically.
While you do it, try to question your reasons. Maybe doing this you will find a reason that doesn't make much sense and if you drop it you will change the way you see not having a gf.
This is what I'm doing, I haven't been completely successful, but I've made some progress and I feel better now.
The thought of being alone forever can be painful as fuck. I've been there and felt the sadness, anxiety and the suicidal thoughts.

>>33823752
I just keep hitting "I dont know" wall

>>33816176
>How are you going to convince a male animal, whose entire point of breathing and eating is to try to eventually reproduce with a female hopo sapiens, that it doesn't matter?
Gay men seem not to mind.

>>33822975
This is democracy manifest