>>33816803 (OP)
>How do you live your life so that you are happy and content?
Perhaps set a clear standard on what would make it so.
The flimsy of life allows for ups and downs, and without some bar to hold against then the lows could be construed perspectively and the highs and 'good-to-haves' be took organically.
To add, to be merely considered as happy or not happy may undermine your humanity as there are a wealth of other emotions indulged which make you.
>Should you value yourself based on the amount of money you make?
Money may be able to solve money-problems, but not all problems are money-problems.
>Should you try to live trying to impress woman
Perhaps if it benefits you and allows for growth, then let go of the clutch at convenience or exhaust of development.
>try to have friends?
It may make for good and worth attempt.