Thread 33839737

I'm a virgin but I make a lot of jokes about sex so I feel like I'm more experienced than a pure virgin.

I'm dating a guy who's been with a couple other women and has had sex, and I'm worried that if I do end up having sex with him, he won't think I'm as good at it as the others he's been with.

I've been watching some videos to get ideas of what makes sex feel good for guys, but it feels like in a lot of them the women are just kinda taking it and not doing much. I want to be active and proactive and try to be good at stuff so...what kind of things should I be doing in bed to make a guy feel good?

Pretty sure guys like it if you're really into him

most girls literally suck at sex and just lie there and take it

Do anything other than just lying there, and you’ll unfortunately already be better than most women.

You are a girl, he is a guy.
Literally nothing matters for you he will like it anyway.

>>33839737 (OP)
>I'm more experienced than a pure virgin
you're still a virgin,
virgin

>>33839737 (OP)
>I'm a virgin but I make a lot of jokes about sex so I feel like I'm more experienced than a pure virgin.
Kek.

>>33839782
>>33840530
I want to do better than the bare minimum tho.
>>33839946
Right, but what kinda of things would be good?
>>33840532
>>33840533
I know but I know a bunch of terms and ideas and stuff regular virgins wouldn't

>>33839737 (OP)
One you are a dumb naive virgin. Second stop overthinking it. If you want to know what makes a man feel good... Just ask him. Last girl I was with begged me to grab her tits, to shower with her on our first and second dates respectively.
It's just communication at heart, in the heat of the moment you can move his hands to finger you, you can tell him what to do, he can tell you what he likes and you accommodate within reason.
For me though I like sex that's fun at it's heart, it has play even if it's choking or slamming that she loves it and enjoys it as much as I do

>>33840934
I'm just kinda worried. As much as I joke about it, sex feels kind of intimidating since it's like being closer to someone than I've ever been in a physical way, and I just want to have some assurance it's not gonna suck for my bf when we try on my first time.

>>33840784
>Right, but what kinda of things would be good?
You'll figure it out as you go. You're honestly overthinking it.
Put those hips to work and try to match his pace. Tell him what feels good and what doesn't.

>>33841372
Everyone's first time sucks but as a woman literally all you need to do is give him encouragement and show some enthusiasm. Hell, a couple of "oh god like that keep going" is enough. I personally absolutely fucking love it when my girl grabs my arms or puts her legs around me during missionary but even that isn't necessary. Just let it be known you're having a good time.

>>33839782
thats bullshit. moids intentionally make themselves unappealing and make the sex miserable for the woman.
moids hate women way more than they love sex
>>33839946
moids flat-out dont listen, and injure women without asking. yet u wonder why women are opting out... moids are definitely simple creatures
>>33841430
>Tell him what feels good and what doesn't.
moids DO NOT LISTEN

>>33842593
Implying women listen any better.

>>33842929
sure bro, if moids are all the same women must be too bro, women magically hurt moids during sex all the time.

>>33843047
I've been hurt countless times during sex with my gf. She never lubes the strapon enough, and often goes too quickly for me to prepare for. The aftercare is amazing tho ngl

>>33839737 (OP)
whatever you do do not try to shove it in there when you're dry, shit hurts

>>33843047
You are a biological (XY chromosomes) male.

>>33839737 (OP)
Man here,
The role of women is just to take it. That's the best thing you can do.

During sex, you'll find your body want to move a certain way. Just express that.
The best example I can give you in an explanation is this:
If someone hugs you, you can stand still...
or you can lean in on them...
or raise your own arms and hug them back.

That's sex. It can't really be put into words or watched. If you do anything
mechanical or voluntary outside of what you actually feel like you want to do,
it'll turn to shit.
If you're a woman, let him do the work. Shut the fuck up and spread your legs.
That's it. You can't possibly fuck that up. It's impossible.

>>33839737 (OP)
men know the movements they like and the pressure they want in their penises to cum so in that regard there is not much you can do, when it comes to fucking
but we're visual creatures, you just concentrate in looking cute/hot/sexy during the act and that's more than enough.
yes you can learn to give good head but in my experience that's something you learn with your partner.
Each gf I've had had a different technique that made her cum when I was eating them out, a couple tried to suck me the way they sucked their exes to make them cum and neither felt good, so I taught them the movements of the tongue and mouth that made me feel good.
A good part of having sex is discovering each other's bodies tho, asking if you like this, if you like that, if you want this done to you, that done to you. Maybe because I'm a sucker for tutorials in videogames but that's my favorite part of having a new partner, knowing each other's bodies and what turns them on
once you have it down to a science it's efficient when you want a quickie but it loses a lot of it's magic
so enjoy that period, don't be afraid of it or think of it as a nuisance, it is not and it's usually treasured in our memories.

>>33843935
you are an indian rapist