My bf is an ex neo nazi, but he hasn't been one or been in the scene for over 5 years, and is very against it all now. He made a recent even stronger turn against it, but some small things have begun bothering me a bit. How do I tell him he might be becoming too dramatic about this?
For example when going to the store I like taking this canvas bag with a band logo on it. The band isn't a "nazi band", but the lead member later started doing some very sus projects. So a kind of "sus" band logo maybe, but nothing hateful on the bag itself and it basically looks like a tattoo design.
As I said my bf has wanted to create an even bigger distance between himself and that past, and as part of it, has asked me throw out stuff as well. He wanted me to throw out the canvas bag (and some other things too) but I'm wondering how far will this go? Soon am I not allowed to listen to bands like Burzum? I am very left wing but I like listening to these bands actually, and I have no idea how to bring this up without making myself look very bad since in recent days all he has done is basically complain about nazis. Although there have been good changes too ofc like him throwing away the rest of the neo nazi stuff he still had in the back of the closet.
For example when going to the store I like taking this canvas bag with a band logo on it. The band isn't a "nazi band", but the lead member later started doing some very sus projects. So a kind of "sus" band logo maybe, but nothing hateful on the bag itself and it basically looks like a tattoo design.
As I said my bf has wanted to create an even bigger distance between himself and that past, and as part of it, has asked me throw out stuff as well. He wanted me to throw out the canvas bag (and some other things too) but I'm wondering how far will this go? Soon am I not allowed to listen to bands like Burzum? I am very left wing but I like listening to these bands actually, and I have no idea how to bring this up without making myself look very bad since in recent days all he has done is basically complain about nazis. Although there have been good changes too ofc like him throwing away the rest of the neo nazi stuff he still had in the back of the closet.