Thread 33844260

How can I accepted that I’ll never get married or have my kids
But instead shift my focus on building a career?

Think about your shitty mom, then realize literally every woman turns into that after 30-35 no matter what and she just gets more awful and cunty with age, then stop caring

>>33844260 (OP)
We're in this together bro. I've learned this world doesn't respect positivity. Maybe one day I'll go the escort route.

I had my first (practice incel) gf at 26, now 10 years later I am married and have kids, in addition to a career. I would never ever put career over family though.

what do you expect to gain from creating shareholder value? or to do with the money you generate? you need only that much to be happy. Real joy comes from adventure or seeing your kids being happy. In terms of career you can only have adventure if you develop and sell your own product at your own terms - that being a replacement for your kids. But the vast majority of entrepreneurs fails, it is not worth it if you ask me.

keep in mind, it is never too late to build your own business. it will be too late to find a fitting, fertile partner at some point though

>>33844277
But prostitution is illegal where I live so I don’t know where to even find an escort

>>33844282
Shit is brutal out there. There are millionaire incels on /biz/ and they attest to it.

>>33844285
>>33844282
What do you recommend? I've been looking for a gf for 2 years and I can't go on like this.

>>33844284
Seeking dot com

It's not illegal if you use the loophole. You pay the escort for a date, not sex. It's her choice if she wants to have sex with you based on the date.

>>33844289
Don't work too much (only part-time), find time to attend other events, any kind of events, tech-meetups, hiking-meetups or outdoor/cycling/jogging/crossfit/dancing clubs sign up for language exchange stuff, engange with both men and women. if there is chemistry, ask if you want to do something else later or next time together, ask for phone number/whatsapp. since you are interested in career, why not socialize over that? others also want to exchange information. if not, you can play COD or go watch a movie or whatever next time together. build a social circle and some of the people you meet will be women and some of them will be interested in you romantically, too.

avoid online dating, if you want to try it, only do it for sex to to get rid of your performance anxiety and be ready for the leftovers (like literally morbidly obese), never even consider dating anyone from there.

>>33844337
another advice, since you want to build a career: apply for jobs you don't want to practice interviews and selling yourself. if they actually take you, tell you took another offer.

it works the same with building groups of friends - you practice with the ones you are not so much interested in and then decide which fits best. I am not telling you to lead fatties and uggos on btw, a partner should be someone with chemistry, who you feel comfortable around with. the looks should be only the minimal requirement if you ask me. and by all means, reject them instead of ghosting if you are not interested but they are.

>>33844305
NTA but what if it's a sting op? Cops love posing as sluts

OP, you'd have to post a picture for me to believe you'll never find a woman.

There are desperate aging women out there everywhere, they just might not be attractive. But if you aren't attractive, then they might be an appropriate match for you.

First reply was right though; the vast majority of women just aren't fucking worth the effort. They start fights about nothing just because they're bored, or they feel too safe, they need things to be changing all the time (find something she likes in bed? Don't expect to be able to keep doing it because she'll eventually get upset you aren't trying new shit), it's a lot of work. I also used to be like you btw; thought I'd never get a gf or anything, but eventually you'll meet someone if you keep trying. I know it doesn't feel like it, but it can absolutely happen.