Thread 33856715

How to cope with the fact that a girl has (probably) never masturbated to me?

>>33856715 (OP)
There was a girl who I didn't want masturbating to me who started masturbating in front of me. Things aren't always so great on the other side of the fence bud

I will never give advice to a frogposter.

>>33856733
I would hate if an ugly bitch masturbated to me either, but if she was mid or higher, I'd probably be happy (unless she was a psycho or something).
>>33856737
What's the deal with the frog?

>>33856759
She was higher than mid. It was a culmination of things happening at that time.
First apartment, she and another guy are my roommates friends. They drive in from the state over to spend the weekend with us. She's dating some guy and been with him for 6 years. He's not there. They arrive. We rip the bong. My room set ups have always been really cool. So we are in my room chilling while the other friend goes to buy cigs. my roommate and I are sitting on the bedroom couch. She's sitting on my computer chair. Starts flirting really heavily. How weed makes her so horny. I have a girlfriend at the time. Shift subject a couple times. She shoved her hand on her leggings and starts touching herself. I excuse myself and fuck around on campus for date with my girl once off her student job, spend the night in her dorm room instead of heading back that night with her to chill at the apartment. Went back the next day, roommate said she asked about me all day, he set her up on the living room couch and in the morning found out she slept in my bed. Shes attractive but I'm not into fucking over some other guy who was long term with her and my girl who I loved. Got really stoned, day drank so most of what she said just was background noise that day. Kept up the flirting. Aggressive and tried grabbing my cock through my sweatpants several times. That night she is set up on the couch again. She walks past that and goes into my room, door is open and she is taking off her clothes. I walk over and shut the door. Give the other guy the couch because he fucked his back up on the hardwood floor. Pulled out my sleeping bag and slept. I take sleeping meds to pass out. Insomnia issue. I sleep in the nude, always have. Just shove my boxers to the bottom of the sleeping bag to put on before getting out the next day. Early In the morning wake up and she's in the sleeping bag with me. Shes naked and jerking me off.

>>33856839
Bags only meant for one and have to crawl on top of her to get to the zipper. She's moaning about how my cocks so huge and she's been wanting me because she thinks I'm going to fuck her. Able to get a hold of the inner zipper and unzip. Ass naked go to my room and toss her clothes out. Lock the door and pass out. They were leaving that afternoon so went for a run in the morning, showered at the gym.

>>33856759
If a women isnt latina with huge boobs and ass or a child then yall will call her ugly

>>33856862
My first girlfriend was bigger in the way that she had double D's and a bigger ass but skinny waist and tight skin, she didn't come across as overweight. She's half Asian.

So you assumed a negative and that was not fair to do.

>>33856894
So men only wants women when their asian, latina with huge boobs or a child. If she isnt one of thes then shes 'ugly'

>>33856715 (OP)
Trust me anon it's not great unless you fantasize with a hot loyal 10/10 girl that masturbates to you and loves you in secret.

I had a chick confessing her love to me out of fucking nowhere while I was drinking a flavor drink back in college, she openly admitted that she got wet by seeing me sweat (I used to do a lot of exercise back then) and that she filmed me by far away and literally masturbated to the videos she took of me with her phone, after that she asked me if I had a gf and then asked me to be her bf.

See, I never saw this chick in my life, not even once. She didn't even told me her name right there, but still didn't want to hurt her so I politely told her I could not date a girl I met 5 minutes ago.

After that she went crazy and started to spread rumours that I raped her and started fabricating evidence that I "harass" women at college.

Then there was another girl that literally stole my clothes to "smell them" (I just know she was fingering to those) and started sending me pics of the exterior of my house and details about my family members. She confessed multiple times to me but again politely declined because she was kind of insane.

It's not cool anon, it's not great and sadly all experiences of women confessing to me first or knowing they like me tend to be fucked up in an annoying and creepy way.

If it makes you insecure try to workout and look good, if you have an ugly face and you are fat, trust me, it gets better, but girls care a lot about your mental strength, you could be buffed but if you are insecure it's not gonna get better, looking good helps a lot, healthy body, healthy mind.

You could try locking in and workout and maybe attempt therapy if you can afford it.

>>33856954
You're just looking for something to be upset about. How about you ask a question?

>>33856715 (OP)
The sooner you honestly, genuinely stop caring entirely what women think about anything, the better your life will become.

>>33856862
>>33856954
yep, that's right. sorry you're ugly. you should kill yourself about it.